I received the bride price from the other party on a blind date, and I didn t get married and broke

There is a custom of the man giving the bride price to the woman, some places give the woman a certain bride price after the two parties agree to get engaged, and some places give the bride price before marriage, no matter which one is before the marriage certificate. But after getting along before getting the certificate, the two found that the other party was not suitable for themselves, so at this time, the man wanted the woman to return the original bride price, can this bride price be returned?

If you accept the bride price from the other party on a blind date, you can ask the other party to return the bride price after you break up before you get a marriage certificate。Of course, this kind of thing is best for both parties to sit down and negotiate well, although they can't be husband and wife, the two sides can get acquainted with each other is also fate, don't fall into contradictions and disputes because of some things outside the body, if the other party still does not agree to return after negotiation, you can sue the court to ask the other party to return the bride price.

Under normal circumstances, if two people are not married, if the parties want the other party to return the bride price given on the blind date, they must meet the following three conditions:

1. The parties have not registered their marriage and have not gone through the marriage formalities. The two were only engaged without a marriage license.

2. The parties have gone through the marriage registration procedures but have not lived together. That is to say, the two people have received a marriage certificate, but they do not live together.

3. The payment is made before marriage and causes the payor to have difficulties in life. This means that in order to meet the other party's demand for a bride price, the sale of iron will eventually lead to the poverty of the family, and in this case, the court will support the return of the bride price.

After verification, if the above circumstances are met, the court will support the refund. However, the amount that can be returned still needs to be agreed on a case-by-case basis between the two parties.

In addition to the above,If the two people have lived together after getting engaged and use the bride price money for the common expenses of the two people's lives, such as banquets, gifts, and daily expenses, they cannot return all the bride price when they return it。Gifts are also not included in the scope of returnFor example, if you give jewelry or tokens to each other during your relationship, you don't need to return them if you give them voluntarily.

Gotta send it back. Because since it is a bride price, it means that it is a certain kind of gift money generated by the marriage of both parties. There is no explicit indication of the unilateral nature of the gift, either in terms of morality or law.

I think they all need to be returned. It's not like the kind of money that you can pay back or not after picking up money on the street. It's moral, not personal.

My understanding should be returned, after all, the bride price is not a small amount, the two parties are not married and live together, this large amount of bride price should be returned, and it must be resolved through negotiation.

My personal opinion is that if you can pay it back, you can pay it back, after all, you will be a stranger in the future, and we don't owe people this love, right? Marriage matters should be considered carefully before making a decision.

This situation is different according to the individual's situation, but it is generally necessary to pay it back, because it has been decided to be together, why take other people's money?

In real life in China, many regions have the custom of the man paying the bride price to the woman when the engagement or marriage contract is signed, but if the two parties break up during the period between the engagement and the receipt of the marriage certificate, can the bride price be returned to the other party? According to the laws of our country, the circumstances under which the bride price needs to be returned are: 1. The parties have not gone through the marriage registration formalities; 2. The two parties have gone through the marriage registration formalities but do not live together; 3. The payment is made before marriage and causes the payor to have difficulties in life.

Therefore, in accordance with the law, if there is no actual life after the engagement and the marriage registration formalities have not been completed, the other party may be required to return the bride price.

Hello, if you do not guess that you generally need to return the bride price to receive the marriage certificate, but you also need to comprehensively consider the motivation for providing the bride price, the economic situation of the party providing the bride price, the motive for asking for the bride price and other factors; Secondly, even if you have registered the marriage of the couple, if the two parties do not live together or the husband has difficulties in living because of the payment of the bride price, then it usually needs to be returned.

If necessary, you can communicate the specific situation, and I will provide you with professional legal services.

Legal basis] Interpretation (1) of the Supreme People's Court on the Application of the Marriage and Family Section of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 5: Where parties request the return of the bride price paid in accordance with custom, the people's court shall support it if it is ascertained that it falls under the following circumstances:

1) The parties have not gone through the marriage registration formalities;

2) The parties have gone through marriage registration formalities but do not live together;

3) Pre-marital payments that cause hardship to the payor.

The application of the provisions of items (2) and (3) of the preceding paragraph shall be conditional on the divorce of both parties.

I can come back.

The Civil Code stipulates that the bride price can be returned when the marriage certificate is not obtained, which is a statutory circumstance in which the bride price should be returned. According to the relevant laws and regulations, the bride price should be a conditional gift in law, and the condition is to receive a marriage certificate.

According to Article 5 of the Interpretation (1) of the Supreme People's Court on the Application of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China on Marriage and Family, if a party requests the return of the bride price paid in accordance with custom, the people's court shall support it if it is ascertained that the following circumstances apply.

The bride price is mainly to show that the man treats the woman as a treasure and sincerely asks to marry, which is used to thank the father-in-law and mother-in-law for raising a good daughter. Bride price is a custom left over from ancient times, is a kind of etiquette, different places stipulate that the bride price is also different, when paying the bride price, you should consider your actual economic situation, do what you can.

It has been a custom since ancient times for the man to hire and the woman to accept the lottery. It means that when a man wants to marry a woman, he needs to give the woman's family gift money (goods and money), which is commonly known as the bride price, which represents the meaning of a man's attitude of treating the woman as a treasure and sincerely asking for marriage, and it is also a thank you salute to the father-in-law and mother-in-law for raising her daughter.

According to Article 5 of the Interpretation (1) of the Supreme People's Court on the Application of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China on Marriage and Family, if a party requests the return of the bride price paid in accordance with custom, the people's court shall support it if it is ascertained that the following circumstances apply:

1) The parties have not gone through the marriage registration formalities;

2) The parties have gone through marriage registration formalities but do not live together;

3) Payments made before marriage that cause hardship to the payor.

1. The provisions of the Civil Code on the payment of bride price at the time of marriage.

Article 1042 prohibits arranged marriages, buying and selling marriages, and other acts that interfere with the freedom of marriage. It is forbidden to solicit money or property under the pretext of marriage.

Bigamy is prohibited. It is forbidden for a spouse to cohabit with another person.

Domestic violence is prohibited. Abuse and abandonment between family members are prohibited.

Article 1043:Families shall establish a positive family style, carry forward family virtues, and attach importance to the establishment of family civilization.

Husbands and wives should be faithful, respectful and caring for each other; Family members shall respect the elderly, love the young, help each other, and maintain equal, harmonious, and civilized marriage and family relations.

Article 1044:Adoption shall follow the principle of the best interests of the adoptee, and protect the lawful rights and interests of the adoptee and the adopter.

It is forbidden to buy or sell minors in the name of adoption.

Article 1045:Relatives include spouses, blood relatives, and in-laws.

Spouses, parents, children, siblings, grandparents, grandchildren, and grandchildren are close relatives.

Spouses, parents, children and other close relatives living together are family members.

Chapter 2 Marriage.

Article 1046:Marriage shall be completely voluntary between a man and a woman, and neither party shall be allowed to coerce the other party, nor shall any organization or individual interfere with it.

Article 1047:The age of marriage must not be earlier than 22 years old for men and 20 years old for women.

Article 1048:Marriage is prohibited for lineal blood relatives or collateral blood relatives within three generations.

Article 1049.

A man and a woman who wish to marry shall apply for marriage registration in person at the marriage registration office. Where the provisions of this Law are met, they shall be registered and a marriage certificate shall be issued. The marriage relationship is established after the marriage is registered. Where marriage registration has not been completed, the registration shall be re-registered.

Article 1050 After a marriage is not registered, the woman may become a member of the man's family, and the man may become a member of the woman's family, in accordance with the agreement between the man and the woman.

Article 1051: In any of the following circumstances, the marriage letter is invalid:

a) bigamy; 2) Have a family relationship that prohibits marriage;

3) They have not reached the legal age for marriage.

1. The principle to be followed in resolving the bride price dispute is to determine whether the bride price is returned, and whether the parties have entered into a marriage relationship is the main basis for judgment. If a marriage relationship is not concluded after the bride price is paid, the bride price shall be returned in principle; if married; If a marriage ceremony is held in accordance with custom but no marriage certificate is obtained, whether the bride price will be returned at the time of dissolution of cohabitation shall be determined on a case-by-case basis.

2. If the bride price is paid before marriage, the divorce must be the premise before the request for return can be considered If after the bride price is paid, during the existence of the marital relationship, the payer requests the return of the payment, it will not be supported, and it is the joint property of the husband and wife. If the parties submit the request at the same time as the divorce proceedings, and the court grants the divorce, it may decide whether to support the request for the return of the bride price according to the circumstances; Where a judgment does not grant a divorce, the parties' request for the return of the bride price cannot be supported.

3. There must be a local custom of paying bride price before marriage Generally speaking, the bride price problem mainly exists in a large number of rural areas and relatively underdeveloped areas, and people marry relatives, mostly according to the customs and customs of the people. If there is no such custom in the local area, there is no question of the payment of the bride price. The court shall handle the disposition of the property that cannot be recognized as a bride price and is the result of a relationship between a man and a woman, depending on the specific circumstances and nature.

4. To distinguish the subjective will of the parties when the bride price is paid, generally speaking, the payment of the bride price is often for the purpose of the actor to get engaged or married between the man and the woman. If it is a completely voluntary payment without any strings attached, it is a general gift, and unless there is a special provision, the request for the return of the bride price is usually not supported.

5. After the bride price is paid, the marriage registration is handled, but the two parties do not really live together, and the request for the return of the bride price of the sedan car family should be supported. Pre-marital payments lead to difficulties in the payor's life, which is a special circumstance in which the bride price is repaid quickly. The difficulty of living here refers to the fact that they are unable to maintain the most basic standard of living in the local area on their own.

Since you are already married, the bride price will definitely not come back. The pickpocket said that he had already gotten married, and he imitated why Chi Chang wanted to ask for a bride price back. There has to be a reason.

I myself have not encountered any changes in fortune after receiving the bride price. I think that once you change your mind after receiving the bride price, you will not be able to get married. ......The reason why I say this is because there are three reasons why conflicts have a great impact on the marriage when talking about marriage, the change of the bride price will seriously affect the relationship between the two parties, and the marriage cannot be a child's play.

1. Once there is a conflict in the stage of talking about marriage, it will have a serious impact on the marriage.

When the two parties in love reach the stage of talking about the bride price, it means that the two parties have reached the stage of talking about marriage. Li Yuan ......At this time, the relationship between the two parties should be very harmonious. If there is still a conflict between the two parties at this time, it will seriously affect the relationship between the two parties, and then have a decisive impact on the marriage.

Specifically, it is likely that the parties will break up because of this and will not be able to get married at all.

2. After receiving the bride price, the change of hexagram will seriously affect the relationship between the two parties.

Logically speaking, accepting the bride price is equivalent to making a promise to the other party. You should keep your promises. ......If you change the hexagram after receiving the bride price, you will lose your integrity, which will not only cause harm to the other party, but also make the person concerned have a very bad impression in the other party's mind.

In such a state, the relationship between the two parties will be seriously affected, and it will be impossible for the two people to get married at all.

3. Marriage events can't be child's play. Otherwise, you will put yourself in harm's way.

Marriage is the most important event in a person's life, and it must not be regarded as child's play. ......After two people have been in love for a long time, they have reached the stage of talking about marriage, and at this time, they should not affect the overall situation because of some trivial things, let alone make dishonest and hurt each other's feelings. ......Therefore, once the bride price is received, the hexagram will cause serious harm to the other party, and serious conflicts will occur between the two people, in which case it is impossible for the two parties to get married.

Breaking up is the only outcome.