When you are in love, should you borrow money from each other?

I've encountered this situation, in fact, the other party borrowed money my first feeling was embarrassment, I don't know why, I don't seem to be too embarrassed to ask why I borrowed money, and if I asked, it would be the same as the other party's self-esteem, and then I was afraid of saying too much or showing hesitation after the two of them were embarrassed, so I borrowed. However, it turns out that there is nothing, people said to borrow money, when I was embarrassed and hesitated to ask the reason, they told me the reason directly, and the money is also very good, no need to urge and do not need to ask, people have money in hand and then directly replaced, and did not say that they want to set up a note, stipulate the time, and did not say that the two people are still there for a long time, so it depends on how you feel, if the borrowed money does not make me bankrupt, I can accept it. But seeing so many news reports of financial disputes between couples after breaking up, I feel very entangled, so if you lend a lot of money, make a note or something.

I think that borrowing money should be better understood by the other party, what is the other party's character, work unit, and income? I've been to their company, it's not the kind of leather bag company, and they have worked in the unit for a long time, and they won't evaporate at any time when they change units, and their income is stable, and they should be able to repay the loan for a year and a half, so that they can lend money to each other, otherwise they won't borrow, or don't expect the other party to repay if they borrow thousands of yuan, if they don't borrow tens of thousands of yuan, the other party will not borrow it, and the other party will break up if they are unhappy.

If the other party is used to consume or buy luxury goods, it is recommended not to borrow, and when it comes to falling in love, I don't think it is necessary to be linked to money.

Try not to fall into the other party to borrow money, parents or friends with a good relationship can choose to ask for help. Money is never a good thing in the world of feelings, and if a boy borrows money from his girlfriend, he should be looked down upon except for the kind of emergency that can be repaid later, and he can borrow it from relatives and brothers.

I used to be in a relationship and borrowed money from two boyfriends, and they both paid me back. The first boyfriend he had a stable job, when he dated for two years, he and his friend planned to open a parts processing center together outside of work, he sold his savings and cars almost enough to invest, but there were tens of thousands of working capital, so I lent him money, and also made an IOU, and he returned it to me after a year. The second boyfriend has been working in a company for 12 years, and when he was in love for more than half a year, the company was preparing to go public, he was allocated a little original shares, and his own money was all invested and there was a difference of 20,000 yuan, so I lent it to him, this did not have an IOU, because he was in the field, and he paid me back after a few months.

When you are in love, how do you choose whether you should lend money to each other or not?

When it comes to money, it's very sensitive, people used to ask me to borrow, as long as I have it, almost no one has been disappointed, and I don't think it's interesting for a man to borrow a little money. Borrowing a lot of money and not being so close to people, unless it is someone who has helped me, I will give it my help. If a man in love asks me to borrow money, he will borrow it.

But I will secretly subtract points from him in my heart.,I like machismo people pure masters.。 It is difficult to carry it yourself. If I had known, I would have loved him more and respected him.

Will help him secretly.

There is no official or accurate answer to this answer, at least you have to know what the other party borrows money for, if there is an emergency at home or a temporary turnover, you can consider borrowing according to the amount of money, provided that there must be borrowing and repayment.

After all, you are boyfriend and girlfriend, and you should have a deeper relationship than friends, and if the other party is in trouble, of course you have to help and give warmth.

I think that when you are in a relationship, whether you open your mouth to borrow money from each other depends on different circumstances. In normal life, I don't think you should ask someone to borrow money. Because if you open your mouth to borrow money from the other party, the other party basically has no way to refuse you.

If the other party doesn't want to borrow and has no way to refuse, you will make the other person feel very embarrassed, which will cause your relationship to deteriorate. If it is in some special circumstances, I think it is possible to borrow money. For example, if you are really in trouble, you can consider borrowing money from him.

I think borrowing money is a high-risk operation in a relationship, and it's better not to do it.

If you want to borrow money from someone for your daily living expenses or something, I think it's best not to borrow it. Because you go to borrow money from your partner, there is basically no way for the other side not to borrow from you. If he doesn't see you, then basically your feelings for him will directly produce some regression.

He will also feel very embarrassed and embarrassed. In this way, there will be a crack in the relationship between the two of you. So in general, I strongly discourage you from borrowing money from your lover.

In some special cases, I think it is also possible to consider borrowing money from the other party. For example, what kind of difficulties you really encounter, borrowing all the money you can borrow around you is not enough. If he can help you, I think you can borrow money from him.

If you encounter some difficulties, he is not willing to help you, then you really need to reconsider this relationship.

Borrowing money is a high-risk operation, if you are borrowing money from the other party in a difficult situation, he is still unwilling to borrow, then basically your relationship will also fail. Therefore, it is best for a couple not to involve money before getting married.

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You shouldn't open your mouth to borrow money from each other, because two people are not husband and wife, but now they are just lovers, and it is very bad to borrow money.

No. Because couples in love, if the relationship is mixed with money and interests, it will affect the relationship between the two people.

No, it will affect your image, which may make the other person very disgusted, and sometimes it will make the other person very mindful.

Everyone will encounter difficulties in life, sometimes they need the help of others, and borrowing money is also a common problem in life, so should couples borrow money? Let me share my opinion!

First of all, you have to find out whether he has borrowed money from a friend, or borrowed money and did not pay it back, this is very important, if he has never borrowed money from a friend, it may be a good face, and he will treat you as a family so he will ask you to borrow money.

If he doesn't dare to open his mouth because of face, just because he can't repay it if he borrows from you, that's a problem, boys have friends and family, how can they borrow money to save the emergency, and the amount of emergency relief with friends is not large and there is no reason why he can't borrow it on time Even a boy who borrows money from a girl should be able to explain the situation, and return it in time, and he won't ask for some machismo if you give him money.

When my husband and I were in a relationship, he also asked me to borrow money because of financial difficulties, not much, just a few hundred yuan, I also knew his situation at the time, it was indeed out of money, and finally he wanted to pay me back after his salary, and I didn't ask for it.

Because I feel that two people are almost like a family when they are together, and it is normal to help each other when there is difficulty, and besides, if he has difficulties, who else can he find if he doesn't find help from the people closest to him? When two people are together, there is no need to worry about money.

But there are some exceptions, for example, some people just treat you too much as a family, so they feel that it is natural to take your money, and they will endlessly ask you to borrow money, and they will ask you to borrow money if there is nothing to do.

And it's never been repaid, this kind of person is better to be careful, I said above, two people together are a family, but after all, they haven't become a family, so some things can't be without a bottom line.

It's okay to borrow money between couples, but you have to look at a person's character clearly, distinguish whether he really needs help, or treat you as his cash cow, for some people we have to guard against, but for people who are really opposite, we should also be more considerate and helpful.

Should. If there is a real need, it is easier to borrow money from the person closest to you, and it is easier to get the understanding of the other party.

No, because especially in a relationship, it is a time to test a person's character and ability, if you borrow money from the other party, it will make the other party feel that you are unreliable, unmotivated, and have other plans for your own pursuit.

Yes, as long as you feel that your financial conditions are relatively poor, or you have no way to borrow money now, you can definitely borrow money directly from your couple, because the two of you are particularly familiar with this kind of relationship.

Of course, couples in love can borrow money, this is because you are first of all a couple, and the two parties know each other better, so it is okay to borrow money, but it is said that you should do what you can according to your financial ability.

In the process of falling in love, two people can borrow money, because if the other party likes you, then he will lend you money generously, but it is not appropriate to borrow too much money, which will affect the love between two people.

Absolutely. It shouldn't be about borrowing money, it's about telling your person that you need his help. Couples don't need to say the word borrowing.

said that borrowing money would feel that you were more out-of-the-box, and did not put him in your heart, so you asked him directly. Need you to give me some money!

You shouldn't open your mouth to borrow money. The two of you really love each other, you should care more about each other and help each other more, instead of borrowing each other's money, after all, every penny earned by the other party is hard-earned money.

If you really need it, you can borrow money. But if there is a little other way, it is best not to borrow money, because you are still in a relationship and not very stable, and borrowing money may affect the relationship in the future.

No, this is because once there is a monetary transaction between two people, it will also cause the relationship between the two people to become more and more rigid, and then there will be conflicts and quarrels over these topics.

Couples in love shouldn't open their mouths to borrow money, because other people's money is not easy to earn, and if you ask for money, it is equivalent to asking for someone's life, what do you say?

Of course, couples in love borrow. Because first of all, husband and wife, and both parties understand, so borrow also, but also depends on their own financial ability. After cohabitation.

It's better not to, you obviously have a lot of people to borrow, parents, brothers, girlfriends, relatives, why choose boyfriend and girlfriend? This is obviously a very embarrassing situation, but you are biased towards Tiger Mountain.

Yes, you can borrow money, but you must remember to pay it back, because money is difficult to say, so you can borrow money, but you must pay it back.

That kind of couple should not open their mouth to borrow money, so once it comes to money and interests, it will cause a bad understanding to the other party. This situation must not arise.

Of course, you can't open your mouth to borrow money. If you are a girl, it is not easy for a boy to make money, so you should not ask for money to borrow money from the other party. Your previous partner can be a family member or a friend, but your boyfriend can't, because he saves money to marry you.

In fact, you can, but you should pay attention to borrowing and repaying, although you are a couple, if your other half loves you very much and is very willing to help you, but you can't borrow money in the name of your other half and not pay it back, that's not right!

Couples in love can open their mouths to borrow money, then, one of the things to note is that in the process of falling in love, we can't let the feelings of both parties materialize because of this borrowing money, this must be avoided, that is, we can borrow money, but we must pay it back.

Absolutely. In love, each other will give everything for each other, including the economy. When you don't have money, when you ask the other person for money, the other party will definitely give it to you. Instead of borrowing money.

Couples in love open their mouths to borrow, so pay attention to the fact that in the process of falling in love, do not borrow because of this, and the feelings of both parties are turned into things, and they must be avoided, also, borrowed, but must be repaid.

It shouldn't be, as soon as the issue of interests is involved, the feelings between two people will be affected, so it won't be able to go on.

If you really have something that you are particularly anxious about, you should tell the other person, because then you can let the other person help you.

No, this will make some changes in the relationship between two people, which is not conducive to the future relationship between two people.

Forgiveness is the salvation of each other] Men all make mistakes sometimes, so you don't have to dwell too much on his momentary mistakes. Although a man is hearty by nature, he understands who is good to him. He knows your good, and he makes mistakes to redeem you, at this time, don't get too into the horns, give him a chance, it is the redemption of each other.

He has lost, only then does he know your preciousness, and he is devoted to you.

Since you have chosen him and want to go on with him for a long time, then there is no reason why you should not plan for him. Planning for him is also planning for yourself, and if you are good to him, he will also keep it in his heart. So, since you are his woman, plan for him.

A man wouldn't be so stupid as to let go of a woman who is single-mindedly planning for him and run out to find some woman just for his money.

Don't spoil him too much] Whether it's a man or a woman, if you're spoiled too much, you'll get carried away. Even if you trust him a lot, you can't indulge him too much and spoil him too much. Proper restraint on him is a good way to sustain your relationship for a long time, and it also makes him more single-minded.

Communication dispels sorrows] More communication means more understanding, many times, many things are not what you think. So, communicate with him more. Do you know that if you don't even listen to the voice of his heart, he will be as single-minded to you as he says.

Let him understand your good] What you can't get is always in turmoil, and what is favored is always fearless. His half-heartedness, all his uncherished things, are because he doesn't understand your goodness, so if he wants to understand your goodness, then he will naturally not abandon you wholeheartedly.

Don't threaten, respect each other] When the reason two people are together is because of the threat of one party, then there is really no point for two people to be together, and love focuses on mutual respect. You respect him well and respect your love, as long as his nature is not bad, it is not difficult for him to be single-minded towards you.