Why should you laugh out loud when you laugh, and can t you cry when you cry?

Yes, if you're happy.

That's normal, right?! First of all, the reason for the tears should be understood.

Human tears are secreted all the time, flowing on the surface of the eyeball. However, there is very little tears secreted and they flow along the surface of the eyeball and in the tiny spaces inside the eyelids, so you don't feel that the tears are flowing.

However, in the blink of an eye, the tears on the surface of these eyeballs are sucked into the nasolacrimal duct, the sewer of the tears. Don't underestimate this not-so-long tube, it's the only way for tears to reach your nose. The lacrimal glands constantly secrete tears, and the nasolacrimal ducts constantly excrete tears, so people usually do not shed tears.

When a person laughs, his mouth is wide open and he exhales a lot of air. With the action of laughter, a stream of gas exhales powerfully from the mouth. The muscles of the cheeks, tongue and throat tense and contract, and the pressure in the mouth and nose increases.

As a result of the increased pressure in the nasal cavity, it will temporarily block the work of the nasolacrimal duct to excrete tears, and the "sewer" will not be passed, and the tears will not flow, and more and more tears will accumulate in the eyes. There will be tears in his eyes, and finally he will burst out of his eyes and flow to his face.

In fact, not only laughter can cause tears, but also when people yawn, sneeze, cough, and vomit, and the reason is the same.

As long as an ophthalmologist examines you and confirms that there is no inflammation of the surface of the eye or blockage of the drainage duct, you can rest assured.

3. Laughing and crying to oneself is pretending to be strong to oneself. In fact, everyone's life is not as smooth as imagined, because of this, sometimes it is very normal to want to cry, and it is also a way to promote emotions, but the reason why we laugh out loud may be because we suddenly realize that the problem itself is not a problem to cry, but to vent our inner emotions and grievances.

In general, everyone is maturing, because of this, some of our opinions are gradually interrupting our cognition, and what we do may not have a deep understanding of us before, but the reason why we can choose to laugh instead of crying may be more often our inner grievances and dissatisfaction, and the way of publicizing a cause can better represent our inner grievances.

Because I suppressed my emotions, when I didn't cry when I pressed it to a certain level, I would let myself laugh out loud, and when I laughed, the next thing was the scene of crying.

Mourning is greater than heart death, because sadness is extreme, you will laugh, feel that life is a game, laugh at yourself for being embarrassed, stupid, crying can no longer express your inner grief.

Because you are gradually becoming mature, you feel helpless when you want to cry, but when you cry as an adult, you will feel that it is not the same thing, and you will feel that you are very naïve, so you laugh.

Why do you laugh out loud when you want to cry sometimes? Because of my own pressure, I have been holding my emotions in my heart for a long, long time, and I have never told my friends and family, so it has been too long, and I have experienced a lot, and I feel that I have overcome difficulties, so I will laugh.

Because I don't think it's worth crying about something, sometimes I think I'm so funny, so I laugh.

Mainly because at this time we are already sad and can't cry, we just feel that life is ironic.

Some people walk and scatter, some things fade when they look at it, some people laugh and are actually the most beautiful protective color is not real happiness, some people cry and are still trying to make themselves strong and frank, these are the collision of human emotions and wills, there are always some things that seem so contradictory but are actually very reasonable.

A person who laughs low or habitually hides his true emotions will also have this kind of crying and laughing, which is not a big problem, you need to pay a little attention to your emotional expression, and it will be better to match the description of the language.

I started laughing every time I cried for a long time.

Your mom always thought it was wrong or something.

But you can't help but want to laugh at you, it's so uncomfortable.

It is generally about showing one's body language in the interpersonal process.

To quote the theory of interpersonal efficacy: "It is the ability to interact with others, including handling interpersonal relationships, balancing the "I want"-"-"I should" ratio, balancing the "I want to" to "others want" ratio, and building a sense of self-control and self-esteem." The way we communicate with our partners will affect the progress of the relationship between the two parties and the outcome of the communication, which in turn will have a more important impact on our happiness, self-esteem, self-confidence and self-perception, so if you can't control your facial expressions, you can express what you think now to avoid unnecessary misunderstandings.

Relax yourself and listen to every inner feeling.

You may have some pent-up emotions that are not released, which can be constantly clarified in the later stage, listen to soothing sounds, and the sound can have a powerful relaxing effect. Try to close your eyes and lie down while listening to something relaxing for you. If you're at work or driving, turn it on and focus on it while trying to roll out other ideas.

Listen to the exhilarating **. Put in your favorite CDs, make a big list of funny songs, or listen to genres that make you happy like "Sweet Honey" and "To Alice" and sing along to increase relaxation.

You can also keep a journal and take a few minutes a day to write down your day, you can keep track of everything and, if you want, write down activities that you carry out to manage stress and relax yourself. Write down your frustration about the day. What's bothering you?

Can you fix it? If there is no frustration, then take it out so you can move on.

You don't need to care too much about your expressions.

It's a natural outpouring of emotion. Best wishes! zq