Should I ask him to pay him back? How do you ask someone to pay back?

Updated on society 2024-02-09
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Of course it's appropriate, my brother will settle the account, not to mention that you have broken up, even if you don't break up, you have to pay it back. Did he write an IOU? If there is, it will be easy to do, if there is no him, it will be more troublesome, talk to his parents, see if his parents are reasonable, after all, it is your father's money, not your money, so you must find a way to make him pay it back.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Definitely going to pay it back! Don't say your father's, it's yours, let him pay it back!!

    Didn't you have an IOU in the first place, did you? If he doesn't have the money to repay, then re-write the IOU, and by the way, there is a repayment deadline!! You have to urge often to have pressure!!

    It's best to get acquainted with his friends (well, I don't mean let his friends know about the money he borrowed from you), at least let him know that you know them well, and that men are vain!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Of course, this is your father's money, not your money, and even if you have more money, you have to pay it back. Don't feel embarrassed, it's okay. If you are separated, you may be friends, but when you are separated, you are nothing.

    It doesn't matter if he's a boyfriend or not, and it's your dad's money.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Since it was borrowed from him, then he must be asked to pay it back, don't be embarrassed, you should repay the money! If he really is a man, he should pay back the money on the day of the breakup. The first thing I did when I broke up with my girlfriend was to borrow money from someone else and pay her back first!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Of course, I want him to pay it back.

    You have nothing to do with him anymore, and if you break up, you have to settle everything.

    Unless it was said to be for him.

    If you give it to him, then there is no way to get it back, even if you break up, you used to give it willingly.

    Tell him directly, you are going to use the money, and you want him to pay it back.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Since it's borrowed, of course you should pay it back, and besides, you've broken up! If he were a man, he should consciously return it!

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The money has to be paid back, and there's not much to say about it.

    If he is sensible, he should take the initiative to return it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Fit. He borrowed your dad's money to borrow.

    Why not return it.

    It has nothing to do with the relationship between you.

    If he were a man, he should have given you back.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you don't ask him to pay it back, your home is not suitable.

    But it doesn't matter if you really don't care about the money.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Money and money are one thing, feelings are another, borrowing money to repay money is a matter of course, go to him and ask for it back.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think you should consider how much he borrowed, and if it's very little, don't pay it back.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It is only natural to pay back money if you owe money.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Do you think your face is important, or is your father's hard work important?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It is only natural to repay debts

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Be sure to give what you borrowed! Naturally'

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    1. Anyway, others owe you money, don't make yourself so passive, be bold and proactive. Otherwise, you won't want your money back! Even if you don't have an IOU, you often nag him in front of him about the fact that he owes you money, and when he is annoyed, he will pay you back!

    2. Straight to say, what do I want to buy, I need money, please pay me back the money, it's been so long, maybe the other party has forgotten about it, like this person who always borrows money and doesn't pay it back, how can you still lend it to him, you don't have a brain, stupid, really, I haven't seen your number, I want me to go to their house early.

    3. Or if it doesn't work, tell you a good way: call your friend is someone you know. And people he doesn't know are the best.

    Tell your friend to take an IOU and say to the person who owes you money: "You pay me back directly, and they borrowed money from me and they don't have to pay it back, because you owe him money, so you pay me back directly." If they don't pay it back, just ask your friends to urge you every day, anyway, it doesn't matter if you don't know each other.

    And if they don't give your friend money, call your friend to scare them and tell them to go back and sue them.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It depends on who you lend it to, it depends on the person, if the money lent out goes to someone with a bad reputation, then it is difficult to get it back, unless you have an IOU, an IOU, which can be solved by legal means. But then again, look at the amount, if it's a few thousand dollars, go to their house, and find a random reason to say that you need money urgently, and let his family know that he owes you money.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You tell him directly, you have been very tight recently, you have no money, I hope he can pay back the money he borrowed from you, you have to talk about how bitter and bitter you are, so that he can feel guilty in conscience, so that he will take the initiative to return the money to you, this way is very tactful, will not hurt others.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If someone doesn't take the initiative to pay you back, then you should ask the other party directly. After all, you helped him when he was in trouble, but if he doesn't pay you back now, what should you do when you need it, so it's better to speak directly.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Even if the other party has not forgotten, they deliberately think that the other party has forgotten, subtly remind the other party, and create an opportunity for the other party to suddenly remember. At this time, the other party already felt that he had a chance to give him a ** level, and he may have returned the money on the grounds that he remembered it. This method of asking for money is the least hurtful.

    Second, use the anti-borrowing method to remind you not to rush to repay the money first, but to say that you have encountered a major event and need money urgently, can you lend me a sum of money to use it first, and then pay you back immediately. At this time, because the other party owes you money, he will not be able to pay you back if he knows your situation and will not make a quarrel with him, so he may return the money to you. 3. Find someone who feels pressured to mediate if the above two methods do not work, indicating that the other party has financial pressure, or it may be that you want to repay the debt, and then leave a face to the other party, that is, find a person who can talk, and it is best for the other party to feel psychological pressure to mediate, so that the purpose of repaying the money can generally be achieved.

    In short, it is easy to borrow money and difficult to ask for money, and when you meet a thick-skinned person, you should be more active when you ask for money.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Summary. Method 3: Ask him for money on the grounds that he is in financial difficulty.

    It's also a more euphemistic way to make up a reason to ask him to repay the money, for example, you just tell him that your daughter-in-law has been in charge of it recently and has no money on her, and then you want to get back the money you borrowed before.

    How to say it is nice to ask others to pay back.

    Hello, you can say that.

    Method 1: Revisit the past. When a friend borrowed money from you, you must have asked him why he was short of money. Now you talk to him about the reason why he didn't have a mu and lack of money at the beginning, and ask him how things happened at the beginning, whether it has been resolved, and whether there is still a shortage of money......These hints are already very clear, and if he hasn't understood it yet, then you should repeat it a few more times.

    Method 2: Cite examples that praising others for borrowing money. When you chat with the friend who borrowed money and didn't pay it back, you have to mention how much money you borrowed from you, and what you did (this matter can be made up, after all, life is like a play, it all depends on acting); The amount of money and the things you do should be the same as the one between the two of you, so that he can remember.

    Method 3: Ask him for money on the grounds that he is in financial difficulty. Making up a reason to let him repay the money is also a more euphemistic way of saying that you want to slow down, for example, you just directly dismantle and tell him that your daughter-in-law has been selling tightly recently, and she has no money on her, and then you want to get back the money you borrowed before.

    You can tell your friends in the above way.

    So the money is going to come back, and my friend is not so angry.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Hello, dear, many people have experienced the situation of "lending money but not getting it back", it is really "there is a kind of difficulty, called borrowing money is easy to collect debts!" "But it's only right to pay back debts! If they don't pay it back, we have to urge it, so how to elegantly urge others to repay the money, which is both atmospheric and can get the money back.

    You can try the following methods:

    The first is to knock on the side and urge the ground.

    Second, be straightforward.

    In the case of not paying back, many people are "pretending to forget", even if they have money, they don't want to pay it back.

    If the other party owes you too much money and refuses to return it, it is recommended that you tell him that you are going to sue him. If the family is really in difficulty, it is recommended that you can remind him to delay it for a few days. Have a great day!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Chat with others and say that he has no money to spend recently, and the money lent to others has not been repaid, if he remembers, he will definitely say to pay you back, if he doesn't remember, you say that it seems to have lent you some too, do you have free money now......

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    To put it bluntly, it is natural to owe money to repay debts, and the brothers still settle the accounts, and they don't pay back the money they owe.

    proves that you don't have much to do in his heart, so why save face for him.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Summary. If only he and you knew it, you could choose to pay it back or not.

    If someone else knows about it, you can choose not to pay it back.

    If you pay it back, you don't have any relationship with him in the future, and if you don't, you don't have any relationship with him in the future.

    No matter what, the Yellow River is not yellow, and you don't have him as a friend.

    Paying back the money will help you avoid a fight, but you will lose a little. As you wish, after all, there is no written agreement, and the verbal saying of this thing can be decided depending on the situation, and you are afraid of affecting the relationship or something else, after all, this kind of thing, although it is not a loss, but it is also a bit false, you think that since he said please, and came to ask for money, there is no reason, so I will not give it.

    What if someone asks you to pay you back?

    If only he and you knew it, you could choose to pay it back or not. If anyone else knows, you can choose to pretend to be a person or not. If you pay it back, you don't have any relationship with him in the future, and if you don't, you don't have any relationship with him in the future.

    No matter what, Huang He accompanies Zheng Buhuang, you don't have him as a friend. Paying back the money will help you avoid a fight, but you will lose a little. Whatever you want, after all, there is no written agreement, and the verbal saying of this thing can be decided depending on the situation, and you are afraid of affecting the relationship or something else, after all, this kind of thing, although it is not a loss, but it is also a bit false, you feel that it is messy since he said please, and came to ask for money, there is no reason for this, so I will not give it.

    In fact, you don't have to think too much about this issue, since he is inviting you to eat, then you naturally don't have to pay him back, but in order to avoid unnecessary trouble, and in order to prevent falling into the mouth, you can return it to him, but after the limb is returned, don't have any intersection with him.

    It is also necessary to analyze the specific situation of what the friend does, not to say what the other party's tone is, it is difficult for us to judge, and how much is the amount of food you eat, if it is very good to balance, your relationship is still a friend, it should be given a part, to be conscious, if it is very little or he takes the initiative to invite you, ask you out, then this kind of person can stay away from him in the future, this kind of person is really strange, take the initiative to invite you to eat, and ask the potato to take you to give money, which is really uncomfortable.

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  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    <>First of all, it is recommended that you consider some factors that may affect the repayment ability of the other party before asking them to borrow back. For example, whether the other person has recently experienced financial hardship or if there are other emergency expenses that need to be paid as a priority. If this is the case, giving the other person appropriate time, understanding, and support can better help you solve the problem.

    If it is determined that the other party has the ability to repay but refuses or delays in repaying, there are several ways to do so:

    2.Establish a repayment plan: Discussing with the other party to establish a repayment plan so that you can make payments gradually and regularly can reduce the stress of the other party's repayment and will also ensure that you receive your repayment in a timely manner.

    3.Threaten to tell others: If none of the above works, consider threatening to tell the other person's family, friends, or co-workers to get them to pay off the debt, but be careful that it is legal.

    4.Legal recourse: Finally, if you try the above and the other party still refuses to repay, you may need to take legal action to recover the loan. Apply for legal process and get the support of a judge to ensure that you get the compensation you deserve.

    Either way, you need to be patient and sensible and don't act aggressively because of your emotions. At the same time, it is also important to express one's thoughts in a dignified and appropriate manner in communication. In addition to the above methods, there are the following points to note:

    1.Civilized communication: In the process of dunning, pay attention to civility and politeness, use appropriate wording, and do not use fierce and aggressive language, which will make the other party more reluctant to repay.

    2.Clarify the time: When dunning, Zheng Jingsong should clarify the repayment time with the other party, and leave a written record, so as to ensure that both parties have evidence, so that they can more effectively protect their rights in the subsequent legal procedures.

    3.Consider the interest: If this is a loan with interest, then when recovering the loan, you should also take the initiative to mention the interest that the other party needs to pay off to ensure that your interests are not lost.

    4.Build trust: If you often need to borrow money or cooperate with the other person, building a good relationship of trust can make the other person more willing to help you.

    This trust needs to be accumulated over a long period of time, providing the necessary evidence to show that you are trustworthy, able to abide by the agreement, and have an honest and trustworthy way of operating to maintain your good reputation and win the trust of others.

    In short, in order to make the borrower repay, it is necessary to adopt appropriate methods, taking into account their own rights and interests while also taking into account the difficulties of the other party, civilized communication, appropriate wording and the establishment of a relationship of trust are all effective methods of dunning, and the key to the final repayment lies in the good cooperation between the two parties.

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