Get married, find someone who really loves you, but has no money at the moment, or find someone who

Updated on psychology 2024-02-19
32 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This question can be replaced by another question, whether to find someone who loves you, or find someone you love, if you don't really love you, no matter whether you have money or not, you can't have a happy marriage, love can know each other, and your heart will be connected. And then the person who really loves you, do you love him too? Whether he has a sense of responsibility, because marriage alone is not enough to have love, it will be diluted by the stumbles in life; And then whether he has the ability to create happiness for you, ability is the standard to measure a man, so to find a "potential stock" that is both responsible and capable, although he does not have much money now, but the happiness created by himself will be more rewarding, in other words, the parents of the rich second generation are not self-made?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Are you rich, or are you rich? It's not that you are particularly rich, but if you have a house in the future, two people can have an average life, and you can choose the former. Which one do you love?

    What does your family think? It is immature to decide marriage purely by love, after all, love is not the whole of marriage, and you will definitely have children in the future, and it is impossible for the two of you to live in seclusion in paradise. But it's not that you don't want love.

    Think a little more, the lesser of two evils.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    For you in general, you are tired of getting married, and he is very rich, so you just wait for the junior to come to your house to play.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It must be the former, there is no money to earn, and the relationship is not easy to earn! Or which one do you need and value the most? If you value people, you want the first, and if you value money, you need the latter! Marriage is a lifelong thing, be careful!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It depends on whether you are willing to accept your husband's extramarital affair for money.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Of course, find someone who really loves you, and if he really loves you, then he will work hard to give you the life you want.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In my opinion, marriage is not a springboard, not a springboard to change the fate of a girl, but a gamble.

    And what can make a woman happy, first of all, is that the economic foundation must be good, because poor couples are not casually talked, it can be said to be the truth, but sometimes the rich person doesn't love you, even if you marry in the past, you may not be happy.

    Therefore, when marrying a rich man, you must have love, otherwise your future life may only be money, and the material life is indeed good, but the spiritual level of satisfaction is not, so you still have to look at it.

    But in real life, rich people are not easy to find, so when looking for a partner, you still have to find a motivated man, because a motivated boy may make you miserable for a while, but he will not let you suffer for a lifetime, he has nothing at this time, but it does not mean that he will have nothing in the future, even if there is no great achievement, but at least he will not stand still, he will take you forward, and your quality of life will definitely improve, but the length of this process is undecided.

    I suggest that girls try to choose the one who loves each other and is self-motivated, so that you can more easily achieve happiness in your marriage, instead of using money as the first condition for choosing a mate.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Why can't I choose, and I like to live a good life? I don't have high requirements for my future partner, as long as I can support my family. And then I like someone on that basis, isn't it okay?

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I would choose the rich one. After all, after marriage, firewood, rice, oil and salt, the relationship will be consumed sooner or later. But money can bring lasting happiness and security.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I feel that the first thing to see is whether this person is worthy of your liking, if it is a person who is worthy of your liking, then it must be a person who will work hard to improve, a person who will work hard to give you a better future, so I still choose what I like.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Of course, I choose those who have money and like, children will choose, and adults will have all of them.

    It feels like you're so naïve, do you have a choice in life?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Generally speaking, I will choose those who are good to me, so that I think it is only by living well that I can live happily.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think for getting married, it's better to find someone rich, because after all, love can't make you full, and feelings can be cultivated, but it's hard to suddenly be rich without money.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    No red carpet, no wedding dress, no wedding photos, I wouldn't get married.

    One,True love may not necessarily be about having

    There is a question worth pondering, that is, if you are a (male) woman, are you willing to marry (marry) yourself?

    No one is perfect, in fact, it is normal for the person we love not to love themselves.

    So is love necessary to be had?

    I think if I were a man, I would have nothing, I would not marry the girl I love, I only want her to be happy, whether the person who gave her happiness was me or not.

    Second, love can be without money, but marriage cannot

    Love is free and worthy of being blessed, and he is only a matter of two people.

    But marriage is not, marriage is the union of two families, and marriage will have the next generation.

    Without a certain amount of financial means, quarrels can easily occur.

    A marriage with material things is not necessarily happy, but a marriage without a material foundation is basically unhappy.

    Third, if you have a child, you are reluctant to let your child be wronged, so you can only wronged yourself

    When I was young, I felt that there was love, and it didn't matter if there was no material, but what about having my beloved baby?

    Seeing that other people's children have everything, do you bear that your own baby doesn't have it?

    So, you can onlyReduce your own expenses to her

    Yes, the child can't suffer, so the mother can only grieve herself.

    So no red carpet, no wedding dresses, no wedding photos,I'm not going to get married.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    No. 1.If you don't have money to get married, the problems of money, rice, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar in life will easily cause quarrels.

    2.There will be a certain amount of regret, because there will be a certain gap when you see others living so well, but you have nothing.

    3.If you want to have a child, it is a huge amount of money, and the problem of money will become the fuse that crushes the marriage.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    1.Without money, a house, or a job, I wouldn't have thought about getting married. Because marriage is a combination of two single people to live together, it seems simple, in fact, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea are the most basic and essential conditions in life, if even these most basic conditions can not be met, then how can you live happily?

    Marriage is responsible for both parties, but also responsible for themselves, of course, it is not necessary to have money, house, car to consider marriage, but at least to find a job, a little economic income to have the confidence to face life and their other half, poor couples mourn, many couples because of the difficulties in life caused a lot of contradictions, do not seek to be rich and expensive, but the most ordinary material life is still guaranteed, so, no money, no house, no job I will not consider marriage first.

    2.It's my words that won't, I'm unsustainable, I still want to get married, do you even affect another person, how can others consider marrying you, it's so realistic now, even if others are willing, I think that as a man, I can't basically satisfy each other, and my heart is still very uncomfortable, so I will work hard first, I will settle down first, have a little foundation, and then think about marriage, so I am responsible for myself and others.

    3.Now everything needs to be spent, there is no way to do things without money, even if a girl is willing to work with me without a job, no house, no money, with such a good thing, she should work hard to create conditions, otherwise how can she be worthy of her heart with you, in short, you can choose the way you like to live, if you want to get married, you have to live your own life first, and then think about whether you can bear the pressure of marriage, which may be a more secure way for life, This choice means that you learn to face emotional loneliness and learn to give and take on life.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Economy is a necessary condition for all love, and there can be no love without it. But only economic love is far from enough, love requires two people to cooperate with each other in all aspects of life, only such love is important and can last.

    1. Marriage requires mutual trust.

    Mutual trust is the basis of successful love, how can it be love without mutual trust, think about it, two people are suspicious of each other, there is no harmonious life, live in suspicion all day long, only yearn for a better life in a dream of a couple can last.

    The sacred contract at the time of marriage, the marriage certificate is a testimony of love, and in this contract, mutual trust is the most important. With belief, there is love.

    2. Marriage needs to be jointly maintained

    What is marriage, only two people pay together is the most important thing. Many couples lament that they have no common topic after being married for many years, and feel that they have given much more than each other. Over time, it will bring each other's feelings to an impasse.

    3. Marriage requires the most important love

    Love can solve everything, is a marriage without love and only money called marriage, at least I can't believe it. Because sometimes love may not be real love, just a marriage with money piled up.

    So sometimes we have to have love to have marriage, this is the most important factor in marriage, marriage without love can only be called a transaction, not the marriage we want at all.

    Love is sometimes so wonderful, it starts because of certain factors and ends because of certain things. In the course of love, there is much more to it than money, the above points can be said to be very important, it is the beginning of successful love, and it is the necessities of a good and happy marriage. Learning the necessity of marriage is more important than anything else.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    A: No. The conflicts after marriage often come from quarrels about money, which will make me scarred and even more tired, and it is better to be single and make my own money and spend it myself.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Without financial means, I don't think I would choose to get married, because I need money to get married.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I think if you find true love when you don't have money, that's true love, if you meet the right person, I think that's what true love, if you have money, the love he finds is generally with other purposes.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Yes, it depends on the cognition and attitude of two people towards feelings, money is not the key to determining feelings, but there are interests between general feelings.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You can find true love when you don't have money, because some women don't care if you have money or not.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I am willing to choose a person who loves me to live a down-to-earth life, no money is only temporary, as long as both parties work together, there will be bread.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Can I choose not to get married? Why do you want to force yourself to marry such a person, marriage is not just a matter of time, life is lived by yourself. In the future, if you find that it is not suitable, there is still a month of divorce cooling-off period waiting for you.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I prefer to marry someone who has money, but doesn't love me. Because when I have money, I can travel with my little sister, I can provide better living conditions for my parents, and after my children are born, I don't have to worry about the house and car.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    For me now, I may choose the one who has money and doesn't love me, because life really needs a material foundation, and it's really sad to have no money, and poor couples mourn everything.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    He who loves you but doesn't have money, because if he really loves you, he won't make you suffer, he will work hard and then make you live a better life

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I think I should choose someone who is rich but doesn't love me, and that's how realistic the society is now.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I prefer to marry someone who loves me but doesn't have money, because I feel that if a person doesn't love you, he won't want to spend his money on you.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I'd rather choose to love me without money, because if there is no money, two people can create, you can fight, and earn money with your own hands, so that there is love and money, if you choose a rich person, but don't love you, no matter how much money you use, you can't exchange it for his true feelings for you.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I am willing to love you but get married without money, if he is a motivated person, we can work together to make money, mainly depending on our own choices. And I have money but don't love me, the three views are inconsistent, and the relationship between us has not been able to be stable and intimate to the point where others can spend money for me, and I feel that I can't live for a long time and can't get married.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Then I have to think about it, how much money the person who has no money is, if he has no money at home, and he can't make money himself, then he definitely can't be with him, and his life will be very tiring in the future.

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