In love, both parties keep breaking up and then reconcile, again and again, why

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There will always be contradictions when people get along, and when there is a contradiction, they quarrel, and when they are unhappy, they separate, and after thinking about it, it will be fine again, and then they will quarrel because of some things, and so on.

If there are too many times, you have to consider whether two people are really suitable to be together, after all, two people are together to tolerate and understand each other.

In fact, I think that sometimes the breakup is not to really break up, but to think that the other party cares more about themselves, or that when there are many disagreements, I want to be recognized by the other party! Or maybe the other party is doing something that violates their bottom line! That's why we separated!

It's not that they don't love each other! Later, after going through a lot of things, I remembered the goodness of the other party! I feel like I still like him very much, and then I forgive each other and tolerate each other

Feelings are child's play This kind of relationship does not end well.

Why is it all like this.

The emotions of both parties are not very strong, and one party may not understand love at all, and whichever one proposes to break up will be at a loss

In fact, the calm is only superficially supported. If you really fall in love with someone, because you have paid your heart for love, you will be unwilling to leave for any reason, and your heart will be extremely painful. But because there is no future or disappointment, after the anti-person experiences breakups again and again, people's hearts are uncomfortable from the beginning until the heart slowly calms down!

to the end of the silence. This is the change of feelings, girlfriends, from acquaintance to love, maybe the next is the positive result of marriage, but there are also acquaintances and lovers to a certain extent, and the shortcomings of each other are exposed one by one and there are not a few who part ways.

<> a breakup, one party was reluctant to redeem the original and cherish the past, which was due to the reason that many times in love were unsuccessful. Therefore, the mentality of talking about friends has become numb. I don't have much hope for feelings anymore.

So, no matter whether you break up or not, how many times you break up is the same.

This refers to women or men, if there is no difference, let's say it is a woman! People who have completely independent self, girls who have received sufficient love from their parents in childhood, especially girls who have fatherly love, mature people who have experienced emotional twists and turns, when the enthusiasm and love of the shed cover are worn out, they will naturally lose the original chain of sadness, but become more and more calm For this problem, there are many reasons for breaking up, as for the reunion after the breakup, there are many reasons, some people feel that the person who is looking for them always unconsciously compares with the ex, and feels that the ex is still very good.

It is a point that is often mentioned until now, that is, the relationship should also be stopped in time, whether it is in life or on TV, why do two people who love each other so well want to break up?

It may be that the core issue has not been touched or the bottom line has been touched, and the two sides are still willing to engage in exchanges.

Because I went out and waved, it was better than the original.

1. A couple of lovers who keep breaking up but have repeatedly reconciled may have a future, but their chances of being happy in the future are relatively low because they have already experienced the pain of repeated breakups.

For example, there is also such a situation in our lives, a couple of men and women have gone through various breakup periods after being together, and finally it is time to talk about marriage, and the two still get married under various ups and downs. But in the end, you will find that they break up, in fact, it is not that they do not love each other in the relationship, but that they have experienced the feeling that the breakup brings them, they have become very numb to the breakup, and they think that the breakup is not any threat to them. They have become accustomed to easily saying breakup, and naturally they will easily say divorce.

Second, a pair of lovers who keep breaking up but have repeatedly reconciled, most of them will not have a future, because they don't cherish each other very much, and they easily propose to break up and easily reconcile.

A pair of lovers who have broken up repeatedly, but have been reconciled repeatedly, have a very obvious problem, that is, they actually love each other, but they hurt each other. Such couples, in fact, are not easy to be happy in life, they are not very willing to understand each other, and they are not very willing to consider the problem from each other's standpoint, every time they encounter a problem, the final solution is to break up. But there is no solution to this matter itself, but marriage is a problem that must be solved, and if there is no way to solve it, then you can only choose divorce.

3. A pair of lovers who keep breaking up but have been reconciled repeatedly, the possibility of them having a future is very low, even if they want to settle down and be together, they can't resist all kinds of firewood, rice, oil and salt in life.

Couples are willing to keep breaking up and reconciling because they have feelings between them, and as long as there is a foundation of feelings, then they can be happy. But once they want to have a future, they have to get married, and all kinds of firewood, rice, oil, and salt in their lives after marriage will make them physically and mentally exhausted. So they will choose to divorce again, but divorce and breakup are two completely different things, and once divorced, there is basically no possibility of getting back together.

Yes. Because such a pair of lovers actually have a deep relationship, and they can't do without each other, so I think there will be a future.

Hello, the future depends on both parties to fight together, you can keep breaking up and reconciling repeatedly, which means that the relationship is very strong, and the future must be there.

Lovers who keep breaking up, but repeatedly reconcile, I think there is a future, they are straightforward, they can have a wrong understanding, and there will be a reunion, I think they will always go on, there is such an example around them.

No. Because such a relationship will only consume each other's energy, the final outcome must be a breakup.

Will a couple of lovers who keep breaking up, but who have been reconciled repeatedly, have a future? Of course, it depends on whether the two parties are sincere in their dedication to this relationship. If it is to give one's own sincerity, then repeated reconciliation is also the same.

is treating this matter sincerely, which means that the two of them are like children, but they are just joking.

I don't think there will be a good future, because they keep breaking up and reconciling repeatedly, which means that they don't know how to deal with the conflict between the two.

This should have something to do with the personalities of the two people, and the constant breakup shows that the two people are particularly emotional, and they continue to reconcile, indicating that the two people have constant remorse, and they will do something they want to do when their minds are hot, and when they calm down, they will seriously think about their future.

The possibility of such two people having a future is not too great, because both people are more impulsive, so there are often some small things that make two people constantly have contradictions, and the constant contradictions will make both people constantly miserable, and finally someone has changed their mistakes, or they can only be solved by breaking up.

A pair of lovers who keep breaking up and reconciling repeatedly will not have a future, which shows that the two people are actually not suitable for their personalities, and they will not be happy if they are barely together.

No, it's too easy to make a decision, it's been a long time, maybe it will come true at one time, and you'll never get back together, and both of you are tired.

I think there will still be a future, because no matter what, they broke up, but they can reconcile again, proving that there is still each other in their hearts, maybe this is also a way.

The two of them will definitely have a bright future, which shows that the two of them really like each other, and they go back and forth because of some trivial things, but at least the two of them have each other in their hearts, and if they can give up the previous back-and-forth, they will definitely be able to go to the end.

There will be no future, because two people are not suitable, and continuing to get along will only lead to no results, and it is also a waste of time.

There will be, those who really say they will not really leave, and those who don't say they will leave directly, so people who are so repeated will be like this because they have each other in their hearts.

I don't think it's possible to have a future, because they break up regularly, which has a certain impact on their love life.

Lovers who keep breaking up and reconciling are difficult to have a future, and the lack of attention and casualness to love has buried hidden dangers for future marriages.

Such two people also have a future. But two people can't always break up and get back together, but to make the relationship a little more stable. In this state, two people have to work harder.

This kind of thing is not easy to say, generally keep breaking up, but lovers who have been reconciled repeatedly have also come together in the end, but most people don't like this state of repeated breakups and repeated reconciliation.

This is possible because of the constant breakup, but there are repeated good people, who can experience the other person's true thoughts in the process of quarreling and breaking up.

Such a relationship is destined not to last long, and it will not be happy, because two people regard breaking up as child's play, and the emotional foundation of two people is also unstable, and they may break up at any time, just wasting each other's time and feelings.

How do you say this? They're used to it, and they'll be together as long as they don't meet a more suitable person in between.

You know, breaking up is not the solution to the problem, if you use the breakup as a reason every time you encounter a problem, then after getting married, should you often use divorce as a reason, and you should still consider it carefully for such a future.

It doesn't make sense, it's just a pseudo-compound. Because the two parties did not fundamentally solve the problems that have arisen in the intimate relationship, but chose to compound because of some other objective factors. No matter how much you quarreled or hurt each other before the relationship broke down, you must have had very good memories, and that good time was the comfort zone of human instinct.

If you really want to save a relationship, it is wise to find the essence of the problem through the phenomenon.

In fact, if you carefully observe these "little masters", you will find that they are particularly knowledgeable, gentle and lovely in their daily social life, whether it is to friends or colleagues, or even to a stranger, they will behave particularly positive and close, but when it comes to intimacy, they suddenly become "hateful".

People say: It's easy to fall in love, it's hard to stay together, it's not easy for two people to come together, especially for couples who have broken up before, being able to get back together again is also a test for them, I personally think that two people may break up again for the second time because of the same reason after breaking up and getting back together. This is because the reason why the two people chose to leave at the beginning must have been that the two people had problems before, and if the couple gets back together again, and these problems are not fundamentally solved, the possibility of the two people repeating the mistakes of the past is particularly great.

Secondly, any relationship needs to be managed, if you don't know how to manage, don't know how to understand or even tolerate each other, you will gradually find that the gap between the two people will become more and more. For example, if two people break up because one party does not trust the other party very much, in this case, due to the accumulation of time, then the other party will become more sensitive or even suspicious. In this case, if two people get back together again after separation, and the previous problems are not resolved, even after the reunion, the same problems will still occur for the two people.

Therefore, for couples, after getting back together, they must learn to know how to change themselves, and then maintain this relationship well, because trust has been lost between the two parties before, if you want two people to go on for a long time, you must re-establish the sense of trust between the two parties, and it is best not to be suspicious again, because without trust, there is no way for the relationship between two people to last. Therefore, no matter if the couple has separated for reasons before, then try not to make the previous mistakes after getting back together, and choose to believe in each other.

Then, after the couple gets back together, it is best not to turn over the old accounts often, which will not only make the other party disgusted, but also make yourself unhappy, to learn to balance the relationship between two people, the couple needs to make progress together, is the long-term solution.