I fall in love with a man who is about 20 years older than me, what should I do.

You say you're sensible, and that's okay....The key is whether he truly loves you, and whether his words (divorced) are true? This is what you need to analyze rationally....If he is really divorced, you have to find out if he fell in love with you and divorced or if they really broke down emotionally, if it is the former, I warn you to use your reason to overcome love...If it's the latter, you have to consider whether you can really treat her daughter (when the man takes custody) like flesh and blood, and whether you can give her the confidence to continue to love your stepmother when she may be ridiculed in the future. Also consider whether she will accept you and love you after your marriage to the man.

If you can't do it with his daughter, I suggest you go and solve it first or give up, after all, it's not a matter between you and a man, and you also take into account the child's feelings.

True love is not something that age can stop, if you really love him, accept him, of course, you must understand him, see if he is sincere, if it is, it is good, you must not let him deceive you, let him make a few promises before accepting him, of course, it is in writing, be careful of being deceived For your good But on the other hand, it is a little twisty because he has had one time and has a daughter Not to mention that it is 12 If I were you, I would not accept it Of course, individuals have a personal mentality They are all different In the end, the important choice is still you Come on.

Love itself is true, but the other person must be free. Since you don't know him all yet. Just don't worry, give yourself some time, time can change, prove a lot of things.

From what you said, I don't think you're really in love with each other, and the love you get from him is like fatherly love, what do you think?

Of course, if you think he deserves your love, then you should fully believe him, if he really cheated on you, then you have already paid for this relationship, even if you give up, there will be no regrets, you are still young, and it is not too late to find a man who really belongs to you at that time.

Normal people can't stand divorce and don't leave home. You said that you can't stand the other party's divorce, why don't you leave home?

If it's for her daughter, then her daughter can only be the third year of high school, and she can't be hit by huge emotions in the sprint stage of learning, otherwise why.

In fact, these are also useless. If he really loves you, he himself will struggle and suffer, and he will give up on you in order to give you happiness. If he just wants to get you, doom. It's up to you to be wise.

If his parents are there, ask him to take you to meet them. If he doesn't want to (for whatever reason), the end is obvious. It's up to you to decide the outcome.

If you're really in love, hopefully you're not a woman like Lolita.

Moths to the fire! Hurry up and retreat! Otherwise, you will regret it!

It is recommended to separate, you may prefer a mature man to be a male ticket, but he will not be with you in the end due to pressure, and the age gap is too big. You'll meet someone more suitable!

That's not love, my dear.

1. Psychological analysis: lack of security, lack of fatherly love when childhood, and father-love plot.

2. I've seen the seaweed and Song Siming in the snail house, think about the consequences and the long-term consequences. Even if they are together, they may not be able to have the happiness they wanted at the beginning. Find a boy who is about your age and imagine the future, that's the happy thing.

3. Find someone to replace you. If you don't meet a really good boy, there are fewer young guys in interpersonal contact, and there is no boy who makes your heart flutter? Anyway, I can't get used to seeing couples with too big an age gap. It's not the same era, the life experience is too unsimilar, there is no common language.

It is recommended to separate, you may prefer a mature man to be a male ticket, but he will not be with you in the end due to pressure, and the age gap is too big. You'll meet someone more suitable! That's not love, my dear.

1. Psychological analysis: lack of security, lack of fatherly love when childhood, and father-love plot. 2. I've seen the seaweed and Song Siming in the snail house, think about the consequences and the long-term consequences.

Even if they are together, they may not be able to have the happiness they wanted at the beginning. Find a boy who is about your age and imagine the future, that's the happy thing. 3. Find someone to replace you.

If you don't meet a really good boy, there are fewer young guys in interpersonal contact, and there is no boy who makes your heart flutter? Anyway, I can't get used to seeing couples with too big an age gap. It's not the same era, the life experience is too unsimilar, there is no common language.

4. In fact, you also know that it is impossible to do anything in the end, just fantasies, but your soul is temporarily fragile, and you subconsciously need fantasies to comfort yourself.