How do I choose between my girlfriend and career, and which is more important, girlfriend or career?

Updated on society 2024-02-29
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Women and careers. Who matters. It's hard to determine.

    But since you haven't started yet. Let's choose a career.

    If fate really exists. If you two are destined again.

    It's still possible to be together.

    But if you run back now and be with her for real.

    Your troubles will be inoculated.

    Because, you will be troubled when looking for a job.

    I also worry about the problems that arise when I am with her.

    I'm a woman, my thoughts are. It's stupid to give up a career for the sake of a woman.

    It's like a woman giving up her career for a man.

    There are some things that can't be taken care of. But there's no need to give up.

    You can actually keep in touch with her.

    If you have the opportunity, you can still be together. Long-distance relationship!

    All right. It's up to you. Think about it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I don't approve of long-distance relationships, it's hard work, and it's generally fruitless. It is more important to have a career, and if your career is very good, she will naturally be close to you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Work hard, get it done first, and when you can, bring her to you1

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think it's equally important for women to have careers, and women should have their own careers. In the past, women may have given up the pursuit and development of their careers due to various reasons such as social traditions and family environment, but now the social atmosphere and concepts have changed greatly, and women have the right to pursue their career dreams, and should be able to get enough support and help.

    Therefore, when women are faced with work and love, they should prioritize their career development instead of giving up better job opportunities for the sake of their boyfriends. Although a boyfriend is very important for women, a career is a woman's own career and has nothing to do with her boyfriend. Women should always understand that they must prioritize their own development and not make unnecessary sacrifices in love and career.

    In addition, I believe that women should pursue their careers and future in the same way as men. Today's women are no longer limited to the traditional role positioning of the family, but are playing an increasingly important role in all areas of society. Women also need to have their own careers and developments, so that they can be recognized and respected by others, and they can also make more contributions to the whole society with their excellent performance.

    In addition, in the choice of work and love, women should also choose according to their actual situation. You can't give up your career because of love, and you can't sacrifice your happiness and feelings in love because of your career. The right career and the right partner are equally important, and both should be balanced and coordinated in order to make one's life more complete and happy.

    In the end, I believe that the choice between career and love is not the most important thing, the key is how to make the right choice. In the process of choosing, women should not only look at the present, but also look further and consider their long-term development and future path. Choosing a career or choosing love is not only right and wrong, but according to your personal situation and actual needs, to make the choice that best meets your needs.

    To sum up, I think women can't give up better job opportunities for their boyfriends, because career and love are things that women need to pursue and develop, and there is no question of order between the two, women should make choices that meet their interests and expectations according to their actual situation and needs. I believe that as long as we always adhere to our beliefs and principles, we will be able to achieve more achievements and gains on the road of career and love, and make ourselves more outstanding and wonderful.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If I had to choose between a career and a girlfriend, I would choose a career, because love is not the only one, and I still need to live and support my family.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Girlfriend. There are many options for work, but the person you like is hard to find, and not everyone can have someone you like to accompany you until you are old.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Of course, I will choose a career, because with a career, there is an economy, and there is an economic foundation, and once I have an economic foundation, I don't have to worry about finding a girlfriend.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Choose a career. Girlfriends will also understand, after all, reality needs the future.

    Choose a girlfriend. If you have a career, you will also be encouraged and supported, and we will go to tomorrow together.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I will definitely choose a career, because I think that with a successful career, there will probably be many girls who are willing to pursue me, and there will be no shortage of girlfriends.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Then I will choose my own career, because I feel that I can find a girlfriend at any time, and I may not be able to go with me to the end.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    To be psychologically prepared to be in love for a long time and not to get married, a more ambitious girlfriend is more likely to devote herself to work, and may rarely carry out some deep spiritual communication, and in the absence of communication, you should often ask her whether her work is hard, physical condition, to do everything in detail, and to be prepared that even after marriage, she may rarely take care of her family.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You need to be prepared to be ignored. If your girlfriend is ambitious, she will definitely spend a lot of time at work and have no time to spend with her boyfriend.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    For girlfriends with strong ambitions, you should be prepared for them not to focus on their families, because usually they will forget to sleep and eat for the sake of their careers and do not have too much energy to focus on the family.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    First of all, you must be mentally prepared that she can't take care of her family, and most of his thoughts are on his career and work, and he is more considerate of his girlfriend in life, and rarely can take care of your feelings, so you have to be able to tolerate her busyness.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You must learn to endure loneliness and loneliness, after all, a woman with a strong sense of ambition will often work overtime and have little time to rest.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's simple, both work and girlfriend! Why do you have to drain one or two?

    Generally, the people who ask this question are people who are very busy at work, so the girlfriend will be very unhappy, in fact, at any time can take into account the emotional communication with the girlfriend, in fact, the lady is very concerned about whether the man has her in his mind, and he is not necessarily tired of being together every day, as long as the other party has him in his heart, it is enough.

    So no matter how busy you are at work, there is always time to eat, there is always time to go to the toilet (send a message), and there is always a day off occasionally, so at this time, you should take care of your girlfriend's mood when you are working, instead of plunging into work and throwing your girlfriend out of the clouds, there will definitely be opinions, and everyone will have opinions.

    Now that express delivery is so developed, you don't have time, you can go online to express flowers, express snacks, express lunch, send to your girlfriend, and write on the card, very good wishes, and look forward to the future: I work so hard, I hope to have a very happy and happy life and a good family with my girlfriend, so that my girlfriend will have to ask you to be with him every day?

    Once you have a vacation, it is important to get along with your girlfriend well, rather than choosing to be too tired and sleep lazy. For girlfriends, what is required is that I hope you can work advanced and have a good income, and I hope you can take her to heart, and you can meet often, nothing more than these things, so you must not have an advantage or disadvantage in work and girlfriend, there is a sequence, if you only choose a job, then this job is too meaningless, if you only choose a girlfriend, then it is too unproductive. So the correct answer is to work hard and take care of your girlfriend's feelings, and there are ways to do it, depending on whether you use it or not.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I would choose a career. When I was young, it was very important for me to work hard for a career that I liked, and I believe that with a certain career foundation, my love will definitely come on time.

    In today's society, no career is like a ship without a beacon, it will just go with the flow, especially for young people who have just entered the society, laying the foundation of their career is the most important. Find a suitable career opportunity that you like, persevere, and use your expertise to provide the best support for the development of your career.

    If I had a girlfriend at this time, I would definitely persuade her to support my career, because I am a man, and a man must have his own career, and he will have a family in the future, and if he has no foundation for his career, how can he start a business? And what can he do to honor his father and mother and to provide for his wife and children?

    So I will do my best to get my girlfriend to support me, psychologically, spiritually, if she is against it, I will feel that she has not really understood me, if so, I will definitely give up love, although a little sad and heartache, but for the pursuit of my ideal career, I think it is also worth it.

    Because I am still young, I don't have to be too indulged in the fiery love of young people, at this time the thinking is not too mature, falling in love will also disturb my heart, if I have a few years of struggle, my career is a little successful, at that time my thinking is becoming more mature, the understanding of love will be more assertive, and it may be easier to harvest love.

    Don't say I'm a career freak, I just want to do what I like when I'm young, so that I will be more fulfilling, more meaningful in life, and more worthy of a few years of professional study in college, I believe that there are still many young people who agree with my ideas, after all, we are young people in the new era, with dreams, dare to surpass is our characteristic. I'll keep going, good luck to myself!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I have chosen a girlfriend, and I can find a new career if I don't have a career, but I don't have a girlfriend, and it's hard to find someone who likes each other again.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I choose a career. I am a person who is more ambitious, and feelings are not the most important thing to me, so I will choose a career.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Of course I'm choosing a girlfriend, I can work hard again if my career is gone, this is the only girlfriend, and there is nowhere to find it if it's gone.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Girlfriend, because your career can be restarted, if you lose your girlfriend, you can't get it back, no one will be waiting for you in the same place, don't think about waiting for your career to succeed and then come back to her.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Girlfriend, it is rare to have a confidant in life, and a girlfriend is hard to find, so I naturally did not hesitate to choose a girlfriend, and it is not too late to work hard in the future.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I think a girlfriend is more important, no matter how much money you have, but you don't have someone who can accompany you, then you are also a lonely person.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Girlfriend is the most important, after all, there is a fate to meet thousands of miles away.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I would choose a girlfriend, love and career are not two opposites, but if I have to choose, it must be based on feelings.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Why should you choose it? Under normal circumstances, the two are not contradictory, but if they do, it is likely that the following situation arises, that is, you are going to work in a different place, and your girlfriend is not willing to go to a different place with you.

    It really depends on which is more important to you?

    If work is more important, then you choose work; Your girlfriend is more important, so you choose your girlfriend.

    For your girlfriend, in fact, she can also choose, for her, whether you are more important, or her own work is more important.

    If work is more important to both of you, then this relationship actually doesn't matter, it means that you don't have deep feelings for each other, and it doesn't hurt much to let go.

    I believe that if your girlfriend gives up her job and follows you to a different place, you will also be very touched and will cherish her for the rest of your life, right?

    If you give up your job to spend time with your girlfriend, your girlfriend will be equally impressed by your dedication and sacrifice.

    In my opinion, in fact, feelings are more important than work, because people may change many jobs in their lives, but they may only find a partner who is in love.

    The happiest thing in life is to have someone who is willing to walk with you all the way, through thick and thin.

    I don't know which is more important to you.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    For this question, can you consider both? If you don't even have a good balance between work and girlfriend, how can you convince the company that you can handle the job well, how can you believe that you can shoulder the heavy responsibility? How do you convince the woman and her family that you have the ability to take care of your girlfriend?

    Work and love can't be compared at all, so how can you do multiple-choice questions? If you are struggling with the question of how to choose between "work" and "girlfriend", it can only mean that your own heart is swinging.

    At this time, the first step is to think about the status of "work" and "girlfriend" in your heart. First think about whether these two are your favorites or whether they are your favorites. If the answer is no, then give up the choice of the answer that is no and choose the other side.

    If both answers are yes, then find a quiet environment, use pen and paper, write down your concerns about both, write down the points you are entangled, break them one by one, and find the essential reasons for your entanglement.

    Next, write down your own solutions to these problems. There is nothing difficult in the world, only afraid of those who have a heart. If it is true love, there will always be a solution.

    For example, there is such a pair of friends in a long-distance relationship, and the two parties are in different places. Every weekend, the man will be very considerate to buy a good ticket and let the woman fly back, or fly to the woman's city by himself. It's not a problem to be in a different place, it's how deep your love is and how many ways to solve it.

    Finally, one of the best states of love is that both parties consult and understand each other. In love, you can't just give and sacrifice silently. So the problem of choosing between work and girlfriend should not be your own problem.

    What you have to do is to discuss with the other person what is a better solution.

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