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True love is fought for by yourself, if it is just for marriage, for the sake of the right family, you can give up her, if she is really good, you should insist! When you are doing well and doing better than others, what you get is not necessarily true love, when you are having a bad time, what is good for you at that time must be true love, especially her family background, her work is better than yours, and it is good for you, that is the most true love! Make a decision according to your own situation, maybe your family is right, but true love is hard to come by, so you have to grasp it!!
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Insist on your own, she really loves you, you really love her, don't worry too much about other people's eyes.
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It's you who get married, it's not your family who will marry for you, it's a lifelong thing, friends, you have to grasp it.
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Find out the reasons for their opposition, listen to them if it makes sense, explain it to them clearly if it doesn't make sense, and persuade them with a clear attitude.
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I think your family is thinking about the right problem, you mentioned your girlfriend's education, is it because of this that your family thinks you should find a college graduate?
I think your family is too short-sighted, personal future is one thing, family happiness is another. Of course, it's better to take care of both, your girlfriend can take a college exam by herself, I think she is already quite good, and how good is your girlfriend's ability to work, if she has no problem finding a formal job after solving the problem of academic qualifications, maybe your family will not object.
I think if you love your girlfriend, on the one hand, you should insist on love yourself, and at the same time strive for your career to lay the foundation for a happy life in the future, on the other hand, don't often convey the pressure of your family to your girlfriend, but keep encouraging her to study hard and solve problems with education and work.
I also think that marriage needs to be blessed by everyone, even if you are in this situation now, it is estimated that your girlfriend may have to endure a lot of unreasonable torture from your parents after marriage. It's better to start with your obstacles and the crux of the problem, solve the problem, remove the obstacles, and let your family have nothing to say, maybe your parents will be impressed, appreciate and like your girlfriend.
People, people, just live in a hurry for dozens of years, and live in the eyes of other people's worldliness, there is really no way, since happiness is a matter of the two of you, of course you should strive for it, and it is not advisable to retreat at will
And like your current situation, you should protect your girlfriend's purity, your future is indeed uncertain.
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If you really love each other, stick to it and believe that your family will slowly agree.
They all have old plots.
Seriously, she may be using you as a replacement for her ex-boyfriend, without whom he still has a place to lean on. It's really unfair to you. You find a chance to talk to her about your thoughts again, if she really loves you, she will change, if not, you are ready to give up. >>>More
Prove that she is a rational girl, she thinks far.
Be a good friend with a normal heart.,It's not easy to predict things in the future.,Maybe you'll be together.,Maybe you'll be able to meet your true destiny in a few years.。。 >>>More
I think your girlfriend is good, you're not good! ~
What you're talking about is always measuring money. >>>More
It's a man who hates himself a little, as the saying goes: where there is no grass in the world, why bother to love a flower, besides, she turns her back on you, they all say that women treat feelings very hard, in this case, she gives up on you, you don't need to think hard. Child, the road ahead is still long, don't miss the development of a lifetime for a relationship, there are still many roses waiting for you ahead, be a real man, true love that you don't understand in adolescence, grasp the present, work hard in the future, and make achievements, she will regret it. >>>More
Since you have given up others for him Since he said that he is willing to work hard with you At least in the next few years or ten years, your relationship should be stable Maybe because you both have lofty ideals and independent thoughts, it will be more difficult, but since you like to be independent, should you pay some? Working together will leave good memories for your life, if you really succeed, he is a grateful and dedicated man, he will cherish you, even if there are other younger and more beautiful women appear, in his heart your first priority will not change, if he is not, then everything is different, so you should ask yourself if he is really worthy of your trust If yes, let go and love Don't hesitate to do anything You know.