The boyfriend is poor and in debt. Do you want to marry or not

You first look at how your boyfriend treats you, and then see if he has broken in, career, and responsibility.

Filial piety, etc., if these are all in place, I advise you to marry him, although your boyfriend is poor now, but it does not mean that he will be poor in the future! Although your boyfriend still owes debts, the debts can be paid off slowly! As long as the people are good, then why do you want so much!

If you don't have all the responsibilities that a man should have, I advise you not to marry him, this is just my personal opinion.

I think that the man is very poor should not be a barrier between two people, because as long as two people are willing to work together, they can fight for their ideal life, there are several couples around me who used to live very poorly, but after decades of working together, now they are living a very good life, so no matter how difficult and dangerous it is, please don't give up easily, because it is not easy to meet the right person in your life.

The man is too poor and the family's economic conditions are not good is indeed a barrier between two people, but I think the most important thing about whether this person can marry depends on whether this person is self-motivated, whether he is sincere to you, and whether he really loves you. If the answer to these questions is yes, then I think this man can marry, because it is not easy to find someone who is true to him in his life.

If you really love each other, you can get married.

You can ask yourself"Are you willing to share his ups and downs? "

If I were your parents, I would say that it would not be too late for him to marry after he paid off his debts, and that loving you would have to stand the test of time.

This depends on your feelings, if your relationship is good, I think there is no problem, if you feel that he is not a worthy of your life, I think it is better to separate, after all, marriage is a lifelong thing, you can't get married because of some external things, so it's not fair to you to him, if you really love him, work with him to pay off his parents' debts, if you feel that you are tired and unhappy together, then don't be together, After all, the most important thing is for two people to be happy together. I hope you will think about it carefully.

Figure out the main reasons for the arrears.

If the money is owed for legitimate purposes or legitimate business, it is decided to repay it together after marriage;

If you owe money because of some bad habits or improper uses, it is best to negotiate the matter before marriage: get married or break up.

You are not married to your boyfriend yet, and you have not received a marriage certificate, so you have the right to make your own choice about the 500,000 that your boyfriend owes.

If you have a strong relationship with your boyfriend and the boyfriend is very good to you, then you can choose to marry him and pay off the debt together;

If you have an average relationship with your boyfriend, and your boyfriend treats you badly, and there are problems of one kind or another, you can break up with him after careful consideration, and the 500,000 that your boyfriend owes has nothing to do with you.

If both parents are optimistic about your marriage, and if they are both able to help you pay off the arrears together, then you should stop worrying about the 500,000 arrears.

With the selfless help of both parents and the deep emotional foundation between you and your boyfriend, I believe that the arrears will not affect the progress of your marriage and your future marital happiness.

No matter what the reason for the 500,000 yuan owed, we must be cautious when it comes to feelings and marriage, and we must not be emotional.

I hope you will be responsible for yourself and your marriage, and negotiate with your boyfriend to deal with the problem of premarital arrears.