What emotional education did your parents give you that has benefited you a lot now?

As our first mentor in life, our parents have taught us a lot to a certain extent in all aspects. My parents have benefited me a lot from my emotional education.

No pain, no gain. My parents taught me from a young age that I must respect others first when I get them, and this is actually the case in the relationship, if we want to be respected by the woman, we must first respect others. So when I face a girl, I will give her respect, I will have a very humble heart to treat her, so a lot of times they also like me, so I feel that I am there.

In the process of communicating with the girls, I actually didn't have any major difficulties. Therefore, my girlfriend often praises me, and he actually has a good impression of me, because many times I respect him enough and he will say nice things. <>

There are two sides to everything. Indeed, there are two sides to everything, and when a relationship reaches a certain level, I actually don't think it's necessary to pursue him anymore. Because there is indeed an upper limit to the relationship between people, when we are together because we have been together at first sight, often after getting to know each other gradually over time, in fact, the relationship will become very fragile, because we will find that the other party is not actually suitable for us, so the words they gave me are also very useful, there is no need to feel sad because of the sacrifice of a relationship or the breakdown of a relationship, or even have the urge to think about it.

Relationships need to be maintained with care. They often tell me that in fact, a girl is a very weak individual, because she very much hopes that someone can protect herself, so when I get along with my girlfriend, I am very protective and don't want her to be hurt, so in his heart, I am his bodyguard, in my heart, he is a caterpillar who needs my protection, but sometimes it is also very warm. So in the course of this relationship, we will all live happily.

My parents told me not to fall in love because it would affect my future, and I did the same, and now I am very successful.

I think my parents told me that when looking for a partner, you must find someone with good character, and character is more important than money, and I have always remembered this sentence, and I did what they said, and it turned out that what they said was correct.

It should be that my parents respect my ideas very much and hope that I can find someone I love to marry, which has benefited me a lot.

My parents told me that to love someone is to be good to her wholeheartedly, but I can't, I picked up sesame seeds and lost watermelons.

My father once told me not to trust girls casually, otherwise I would be hurt, and this sentence benefited me a lot, and I am still living happily single.

My mother taught me from a young age that no matter who you get along with, you must first be good to others, so that others can be good to you.

My parents told me to respect each other when interacting with others, and I still do that.

I think the biggest influence of my parents is to let me have self-control and be responsible for myself, since I was a child, my parents did not urge me to write homework, and if I couldn't finish my homework, I would be criticized by the teacher, and now I don't need to supervise my homework.

It has given me a very good tutoring, and it has also made me understand a lot of things, and it has also influenced my personality changes, and guided my life direction, and also made me better.

My parents have always taught me to be a self-reliant person, and although I have grown up now, their teachings are still deeply imprinted in my mind, and I always regard self-reliance and self-improvement as my life goal.

My parents taught me how to respect others. Let me go very smoothly on the road of society. I also made a lot of good friends.

Most people have not yet gone to school, parents will give everyone some educational inspiration, and in the whole process of growth, we are inseparable from the education of parents, although the education methods of parents are very different from the teachers in school, but parents also have a lot of education will benefit people for life. So in the process of growing up, what kind of education have your parents made you feel that you have benefited a lot?

In modern society, many parents have very high requirements for their children, they always think that their children are small and need to be guided correctly in order to make their children develop better in the future, so in the process of children's growth, they always interfere too much, always let children follow their own wishes to learn, and no matter what the children's requirements and ideas are, everything they do always thinks that it is for the good of the children, but in fact, the children also have their own inner thoughts, if the children's education is too strict, and it doesn't necessarily make their future development better. Free-range education is actually a very good way of education, parents are free-range education before, and it is easy for people to take the initiative to learn in the process of life, so that they will not passively learn some knowledge, which is not very beneficial to everyone's future learning.

For children, they can have the ability to learn independently.

It is also very good, so that there is no need for parents to push their children behind their backs to learn, and there is no need for teachers to supervise children in school all the time, no matter at any time, if the children have the ability to learn independently, they will restrain their own behavior, will not be affected by the outside world, then they will have a high efficiency in the learning process, will enjoy the learning process. For children, independence can also make them go further and further in their future studies, and even when they are admitted to graduate school, they can also have strong self-discipline.

I have benefited a lot from how to communicate with my friends, how to live in school, how to be brave, how to be strong, and how to move forward when facing problems.

Praise education, reward education, criticize education, lead by example, accompany education, etc., these educational methods are very important to me.

Be a dignified person, be reserved for girls, don't lie, be honest, and have the right values.

Parents follow a principle of avoidance when educating their children. Even what parents think is bad or wrong will be consciously avoided. Different times, different ways of education.

After all, it is two generations, and there will be some differences, but in general, they are much the same. Some say that stick education is no longer suitable for modern education, and some say that encouraging education is the trend of the times, and education varies from person to person. Every parent's expectations are the same, so don't feel that your parents' way is wrong, find problems from yourself, communicate more, and parents will keep up with the changes of the times and change some unsuitable education methods.

Although some parents' education methods make it difficult for their children to accept in their hearts, their starting point is good, and there is no parent who does not want their children to become talents, maybe they just hate iron and steel! It's just that the way of education may be too extreme!

Parents are also from being a child, it is very likely that they inherited the education method of the previous generation from a young age, everyone has such an experience, and they are at a loss in educating their children, because they may also be a generation of uprisings and struggles, but now the role has changed, we always feel that we have grown up in our teens, and we don't need too much interference from our parents, nor do we need the guidance of our parents, in fact, this is the root cause of the most problematic problems in the education of two generations, one does not let it go, One does not let go, it is easy to have contradictions. Parents should not blindly follow their own ideas, listen more to their children's views, and look at problems from different angles.

If there is a disagreement, at least you have to communicate well and be reasonable in everything. Some trivial things are the same for everyone, and there is no need to waste time and energy on unnecessary things. Parents are the teachers of their children, and they should set a good example for their children.

In education, we must achieve all-round development of morality, intelligence, physical fitness, art and labor, have a grateful heart, have a spirit of struggle and progress, and have a broad mind to serve the society. Now it seems that the hearts of parents in the world are pitiful, not a casual word, we are now living a carefree, healthy and happy life, do not forget the kindness of our parents.

Children's psychological activities are particularly important, and children's pants hole interests and hobbies are particularly important, such parents are very good, and their children will succeed, their behavior will also make children change to a certain extent, they will also support some of the children's hobbies, and will also tell children some truths, pure and pure to let children go the right way, but also let children be free.

Accompany the child often, teach the child to be honest through some small stories, guide the child from the front, and often take the child to participate in some educational activities, which can correct the child's mistakes in time.

Be a good role model for your child, play with your child often, spend time with your child, read useful books, and understand your child's thoughts.

1.Condescending.

Many parents always look like they are on top of their children when they face them. However, parents and children are equal in personality, and if parents always use their identity to pressure their children, even if the content of the education is very reasonable, they will not be able to make the children accept it. Therefore, parents need to communicate with their children on an equal footing and respect their children's feelings.

2.Demand perfection.

After all, the child has not grown up yet, and may not do a very good job in tidying up the room, etc., but parents should not be too the child. If parents always say "you are too bad" to their children, it will invisibly hurt their children's self-esteem.

3.Frequent compliments.

Appreciative education is not about constantly praising children, but more importantly, about respecting and encouraging children. Excessive and unnecessary exaggeration will only make children complacent, and if children are used to listening to their parents' exaggerations, they will not listen to other people's advice after entering society, and they are prone to frustration.

4.Too many restrictions.

Children see the world differently than adults, and if parents always restrict their children's behavior of exploring the world, it will make children very disgusted.

5.Caring too much.

Many parents always like to ask questions, even asking about their children's diaries, but this kind of excessive care will make children disgusted. Children will feel that their parents have been bothering them and have no independent space, which will cause them to lose the opportunity to develop themselves, and even have a rebellious mentality.

6.Throw out the baby with the bathwater.

Many parents tend to talk too much when criticizing their children, such as saying "you are the stupidest in the family" to their children, which will make their children very unhappy, and naturally refuse to accept their parents' teachings, and even have the idea of "breaking the jar and breaking the pot", unwilling to correct their mistakes.

7.There is no distinction between right and wrong.

This kid loves to drink just as much as his father", does this sentence sound praise or criticism? In the child's understanding, the parent may think that he is praising himself. Therefore, when criticizing the child, it is important to clarify the problem and let the child know what he is wrong.

8.Derogatory to others.

It is okay to occasionally compare one's own child with other people's children, but if parents only see the good in other people's children and ignore their own children, education is likely to have the opposite effect.

9.Everything is in place.

Many parents don't let their children do anything, and they have full authority to make decisions for their children. Although the starting point is good, I am worried that the child will be frustrated. However, children need to learn and grow from their mistakes, and children always need to face their own choices one day, so not starting to cultivate protection from a young age is not conducive to the child's future.

10.Don't be a role model.

Many parents do not set a good example for their children when they educate their children, and when their children imitate their parents and do bad things, parents have to blame their children. The so-called teaching by word and deed, parents need to set a good example for their children, so that their children can be imperceptibly edified.

In homeschooling,FatherMother's emotional problemsIt also has a certain impact on children, which many parents may not think is too much of a problem. So that's what it leads toThere are children after adulthood, theirsThe personality will become more withdrawn, which actually has something to do with their upbringing when they were young, especiallyIt has to do with the environment in which their family grew up

Parents' emotional problems can affect their childrenof the future characterThis is more obvious in many children, such as the character of children in those happy familiesIt will be more gentleand also like to be in contact with others, but in someoften quarrel at home, the child's character will be more withdrawn, and at the same time his character may beIt's also going to be very polarizing。This is not obvious when you are young, but when the child grows upwill be presentedTherefore, parents must pay attention to this problem in the process of educating their children, and do not always bring emotional problems to themGo to the quarrel in front of the child

Parents who often quarrel forThe danger to children is very great, the child is likeIt's a blank slate, Parents holding paintbrushes, what this painting looks like in the end, is completelyIt depends on how the parent draws。The paintings drawn by parents who often quarrel are naturally full of resentment and even very unfortunate, and we cannot see them in this paintingAny look of happiness

On the contrary, in some happy families, the paintings they present are extraordinaryHappy for the child's education, is a great influence, presumably parentsI also have a deep experienceand sometimes find childrenUnwilling to face yourself, which is actually also with parentsThere is a certain connection between relationship problems

So for parents, if there is really something wrong,Difficult to solve through communication, and if you come to the step of quarreling, it is best to avoid the child and not let the child see the appearance of the parents arguing. When a person quarrels,It turned out to be a hideous face, without any happy appearance in Silly Qin.

If you let a young child see itThis is its imagethen they will onlyQuestion why parents are arguing, whether parents don't love themselves anymore, so they quarrel in front of themselves. So in the future, if the parents of Daishan are reconciled again, and then in the process of educating their children, they may find that their children are unwilling to listen to their own speeches, and evenReluctance to communicate with oneself, this is actually a kind of trauma brought to children by parents' emotional problems. Parents need to knowThis is completely avoidable

In marriage, quarrels are inevitable, sometimes because of the firewood, rice, oil and salt in lifeThere will always be some problems。But it's best not to let children know about this matter, there are many children because of itI saw the unhappy appearance of my parents, so their personalities will become more withdrawn, and at the same timeI don't like to listen to other people's opinions。That's what parents areEmotional problems have an impact on childrenThis impact is not only in the education between parents and children, but even in the education of childrenIt is very evident in the child's personality