How to find a topic, how to find a topic

First of all, you have to be generous, so that you can speak, second, find common hobbies, and third, if you can't find a topic, you can make jokes or brain teasers, and mediate the atmosphere.

Ah, what a feeling! Tell you something: A quiet boy recently had a conversation with a quiet girl (who also knew each other before) and liked to talk about his heart, and once the girl said to the boy:

When we walk with other friends, they always tease us and play with us, why can't we tease them and play with them? "I said:"Our eloquence is not good enough for them.

They can always say that. We say less, no. ""Eloquence is practiced, they have such eloquence, can't we have it?

The girl said. Boys often think of what girls say, and every time they talk to girls, they can think of words to tease and play with girls. But, it's all after the conversation.

What I want to say is: what you always think in advance will never appear in reality! Do you know what I'm trying to say?

Let's see what he likes! Then you get to know that side of the story, and then take advantage of some seemingly serendipitous opportunities to talk about these topics!!

If you want to find a topic, you must first find a common hobby. Then try to create opportunities to get along with each other and do something together to facilitate the addition of future topics.

It's a topic of conversation, and it's up to your friends to make jokes? Anything under the mouth is a topic.

What topic? Then you'll have to practice your mouth more.

1. Object characteristics.

It is the most direct and fastest way to start a topic by observing the other person's physical characteristics and behavior through the identity attributes of the other party.

For example, your name is so special, does it have any special meaning? You are a ** person, how is that place; Your clothes suit your temperament, they seem to be custom-made; Your shoes look cool, which brand are they?

In short, please don't keep your head down and do it in a hurry, look up and take a good look at the person you're talking to, there's always something for you to talk to.

Second, the surrounding environment.

Look at the things in your surroundings, and if it's on the street, you can talk about any interesting and special thing you see, such as a restaurant that you often go to that tastes good, a street that you find interesting, an interesting playground, a certain clothing brand, something that happened on that road, can be a topic of discussion. If you are in the other party's office or home, carefully observe, the indoor **, ornaments, layout, everything may imply the other party's values and experiences, which can be a good topic.

3. Hot topics.

Take a moment each day to read the headlines and broaden your horizons about events that people might be discussing. If you're traveling to other areas for business or pleasure, check out the local news online to see what's local and what's happening there. When it comes to conversation, "knowing everything" is more important than being "equally proficient".

This is not to say that we are proficient in every topic, we don't have to be experts in each field, but if you know a little bit about each field, you can be an interesting person.

A lot of people ask me to talk about chat skills, but I just want to say one thing: atmosphere is more important than skill. A good chat atmosphere is much better than using so-called chat skills, so I want to teach you how to create a good chat atmosphere more than chat skills.

Tell about the harvest of the past two days, and ask her what she has learned about the past two days.