What kind of woman is a man most afraid of marrying?

Men prefer to marry such women.

Life is too stressful, there is no freedom after marriage, etc. There is no reason why men are afraid of getting married, generally because they are afraid that life will be too stressful, after all, if they get married, the burden of supporting the family will increase, and they will be very stressed; There are also men who are afraid of getting married, probably because they are afraid that they will not have freedom after marriage, and they are worried that after marriage, they will not be as comfortable as when they were single.

The cost of marriage is very high, the cost of buying a house is very expensive, and the relationship between husband and wife is not good or the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law after getting married, and the problem of children's education will make men particularly afraid of getting married.

Afraid of contradictions, the pressure of life is relatively high, the hall companion feels that his conditions are not good enough, there will be contradictions in life, he is afraid of divorce and old marriage, and he is also stupid and afraid that he does not meet the other party's standards, so he is unwilling to get married.

Now after getting married, the wife will be very nagging, the economic pressure is also very high, the cost of raising children is very high, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not as troublesome as usual, and there are many people who are very sophisticated, so they are particularly afraid of getting married.

Now there is a lot of social pressure to bury the trembling, it is normal to be afraid of marriage, marrying a wife and buying a house, buying a car, and losing the bride price, the post-90s generation has no parental support, and it is not easy to gather a daughter-in-law when you can create money and find money by yourself, and now the price is high.

He is afraid that marriage will limit his freedom, and he may feel that the burden of the family in marriage is too great, so there will be some fear of marriage.

1) Fear of no freedom after marriage.

When in love, men want to have their own private space, and after marriage, they need freedom. For most men, the discipline and demands of the wife are a constraint and a burden, which means a loss of freedom.

2) Fear of not being able to take on the responsibilities of the marriage.

After starting a family, the man is the "backbone" of the family, and if he can't take care of the whole family, it is likely to cause the marriage to fail, and the man is also very affected in his heart. Therefore, when a man is not mature enough or the economic conditions are not enough to support a family, he will be afraid of marriage.

3) Worry about the pressure of returning to the family financially after marriage.

After marriage, men have to face a series of problems that have to be considered, such as work, disturbing children, and both parents. These financial burdens naturally fall on the shoulders of men, and even if their wives can support and help, few men can accept them. And because most of today's marriages require a house, a car, and a stable job, these men who do not meet the standards may be powerless about marriage.

4) Marriage can constrain careers.

Most ordinary men, in addition to supporting the material needs of the family on the one hand, also have to bear the trivial affairs of the family, as well as to deal with the sending and welcoming of relatives between the two sides of the family, so as to do a good job in the intricate relationships between the family and the family. The short-term handling of these parents usually makes men exhausted, so career and life naturally cannot be both. Most men whose careers are still on the rise are naturally afraid of marriage obstacles.

I'm afraid that I won't be able to take on the responsibilities of the family

Afraid of disappointing your lover, afraid of being let down. Insecurity.

Men who are afraid of getting married cannot afford to take on family responsibilities.

After marriage, men will have a lot of responsibilities to bear.

Yes, some men are afraid of getting married, which is a sign of evading responsibility or abnormal mentality. A normal man is not afraid of getting married when he reaches the age of marriage, but he is eager to get married.

Men are afraid of getting married because they are afraid of punishing their responsibilities.

The responsibility of being a husband or a former father.

Some people are accustomed to being free and don't want to be bound by marriage.

Because such a man is not capable of holding up a piece of the sky, he feels that marriage is a kind of torture for him. All will be afraid of marriage.

Some men may not be mature, marriage means taking responsibility, having children, and raising a family, and some men may have a more introverted personality, they don't like to integrate into the family, they may be influenced by their parents, and they are more afraid than or acorn, and they feel that they will not be happy after getting married, and they will be very stressed.

There are some men who are afraid of getting married, mainly because of their mental problems and not really mature.

There are no men who are afraid of getting married, because you will get married and will face all kinds of questions and questions, some men are used to being alone, they don't like to have hormones, they don't dare to face all kinds of problems, and they have social phobia.

The reason why I am afraid of getting married is that the joy and happiness brought by the difficulties after marriage is less than the hard work paid, and there are some unexpected things waiting for you, making you miserable.

Because some men don't like to be bound, there will be a lot of things to do when they get married.

There are also family responsibilities.

Why am I reluctant to get married, this is my situation.

One, there are many failures, and there is no enthusiasm.

To say that you don't want to get married is false. Seeing others in pairs, I still have some envy, and I also hope that there will be someone together.

Every time I put a lot of time and effort into it, I failed, and now I start to doubt that I can still get married.

Second, the inferiority complex in the heart.

When I just graduated, with a salary of 2,000, I always felt that 18,000 yuan was a small amount of money.

Now that I'm older, I'm no longer tempered by reality, I've lost my ambitions, and there's no light in my eyes. Looking at such a pitiful salary every day, I feel that it is difficult to support myself, and I have the courage to get married.

Now even if you meet a girl you like, you don't dare to pursue it boldly, for fear of rejection, and for fear that you are not able to take on family responsibilities.

It's still single to save money, nibble on steamed buns, eat a bowl of instant noodles, and the day can pass.

I feel that I have achieved nothing, my income is not high, I have no house or car, not only do I hate it by others, but I hate it.

Third, get used to being single and ascend to this life.

After so many years of being single, I have long been accustomed to living alone. In addition to going to work every day, I basically stay at home, and I usually don't like to talk or communicate with others. It's nice to be alone and quiet.

Once you get married, what you face every day is the woman's chattering and non-stop, and sometimes it's terrible to think about this kind of noisy and unbridled life.

I'm used to being single, it's hard to get along with others, and I don't know how to get along with girls. It's difficult to even communicate, let alone coax girls to be happy.

For my introverted personality. Chasing girls is much more difficult than taking exams.

There is a high probability that no one will want this kind of honest person, this kind of person is very boring, not the type that girls like, so it's good to be alone.

Because of fear, including the fear of the unknown life, and the fear of not being able to take on the responsibilities of the family.

Xie Ling replied, from the description of the analysis, because he is unwilling to bear the responsibilities and obligations from the family, and after getting married to pick up the spring, he needs to assume the responsibilities and obligations of the family, so the ruler man will be afraid of getting married.

My personal understanding is that it is mainly the economic pressure, such as housing loans, car loans, raising children, which is suffocating?

As a man, I think there are a few things that men are afraid of getting married

First: the cost of love is high. Having a girlfriend means taking time to accompany her and understand her, if you are an office worker, it is certainly unlikely to take care of it, it is good to meet a considerate girl, if you meet a girl who loves to care, in addition to being treated coldly by the boss during the day, you will have to suffer from all kinds of complaints from your girlfriend when you go home.

Second: high pre-marital costs. Maybe the woman asks the man to buy a car and a house in order to get married, in this era of rapid development, buying a car and buying a house is too stressful for the average family.

Third: the cost of marriage is high. After marriage, it means firewood, rice, oil and salt, and it means giving birth to a baby and raising a baby, which one doesn't need to worry about?

Fourth: After marriage, men have no freedom. The rest of my life was handed over to the mortgage and car loan, and if I wanted to travel, I had to weigh whether there were a few steel hammers in my purse.

Marriage means growth, it means responsibility and obligation, and in the future, the wife and children will be on their shoulders, which means that they will lose their freedom, they can no longer be unscrupulous, and it is no longer the time when they are full and don't have to worry about anything. So it's a bit hesitant!