How can I become mature quickly?

If you really want to become mature, read more books and learn more knowledge through books. Learn some principles of life, understand more things, and you can mature.

People's experience is limited, and you are still young now, so there must be very little experience, want to have more experience, it is impossible for you to go through it, so you have to read books or watch movies and television, in the process of watching, think about what you would do if this thing happened to you, see how the protagonist did it, if you do it right, you have to learn, and when you encounter the same thing in the future, you can face it, if the protagonist does it wrong, you also have a reference, and the same mistake will not happen to you.

Not only can you learn in books, but you can also learn in life, as long as you can discover, you can learn, then you will mature.

If you want to mature faster, look at magazines like readers, youth digests, and so on, which have philosophical stories; There are also some life insights, and such books will improve faster.

Only when you find thinking in your studies, learn a little from one story, and understand a little from another story, then you will accumulate these bits and pieces and become your own for a long time.

If you make other people's life experiences your own, then you will become mature when you do things and think about problems.

"Rapid maturation".

Only the unripe fruit hopes to ripen; The ripe fruit is rotten if it is expected to ripen.

But let's talk about it, it's not in vain.

The so-called maturity is the mental age; The criterion of maturity is the amount of personal experience. Generally, maturity is judged by age, because it is suitable for the public, after all, everyone was born together, kindergarten, primary school, middle school, university, work, marriage, childbirth, pension, and death. If there are no accidents, you will not be mature, only look at age.

Of course, there are exceptions, and this is early and late maturing.

Precociousness is generally caused by the ups and downs of life at an early age, which leads to premature exposure to various social situations and human feelings, so that they can know things that their peers or elders do not know, and understand the principles that their peers or elders understand. This is precociousness, but it is also sad, because when he understands, his brain does not have the ability to learn this law of maturity, so there will be a certain mental illness and shadow. (Like when I was younger, I couldn't think about it, and now I'm also a little nervous and slightly paranoid, but fortunately, I didn't break it, hehe).

Late maturation is the extreme embodiment of early maturation.

To sum up, if you want to ripen quickly, it seems that you have to deal with adversity and taste the bitter fruit. In fact, there is no need to follow the example. As someone said above, "both internal and external cultivation" is a good way, but I personally think that reading is a good trick.

Books are the wisdom of our predecessors. The so-called predecessors planted trees, and later generations enjoyed the shade. Maturity can also accumulate the experience of predecessors in the world. Here are a few recommendations

1. Caigen Tan - the three wisdoms of Confucianism, Buddhism and Taoism are condensed.

2 Sun Tzu's Art of War - Thirty-six Strategies.

3 Thick Black Learning-Teach you to gallop the three ...... of business, official, and emotional

1。Read more books, reading makes one wise, read those books about the philosophy of life.

2。Expand your social circle, get along with different people, learn from different people, see how they do things, how people speak, and the important thing is to use it on yourself!

3。Talk to people who are more than 5 years older than you, and talk about life with people who are more than 20 years older than you!

Both inside and out.

From the perspective of dressing up, taking the mature route, from the inner point of view, self-cultivation, the so-called maturity is more often reflected in the psychological aspect, from the inside out. Change everywhere is not surprised, introverted and steady is the performance of maturity.

After more experience, it will be mature. Mature people must be able to afford to put it down. Mature people don't compare themselves with people who aren't up to the mark.

Mature people should be principled. Mature people have to resist the responsibility and pressure on their shoulders. When you are mature, you can experience it with your heart, and you can't teach it, but children need to teach.

Anyway, I'm only in my early 20s, but I'm ashamed to preach to you.

Hehe! Don't know how to mature? It's okay, you just think you're in childhood! Maybe it's happier and less troublesome! Hehehe.

Cooking in a pressure cooker will ripen faster.

It's easy to want to mature. Maturity is actually getting old.

I thought about this question for a long time, and I thought that I should participate in social activities more.

It is recommended that you go to Xinhua Bookstore and buy a copy of "The Weakness of Human Nature" to see. It will teach you how to mature.

Oh, too, how can I mature myself...

1. Be humble and cautious. 2. Be a down-to-earth person. 3. Be reflective. 4. Don't talk about people behind your back. 5. Be cautious in words and deeds. 6. Be generous.

A mature person has strong independence in thought, feelings, actions, and finance, and has little dependence on others. Understand what life is, know what you want to do, have a clear purpose in life, and have practical actions. Able to control their emotions, and have the ability to observe and perceive things, have a good attitude towards real life, and have a considerable ability to bear and resist setbacks and difficulties.

No longer be credulous, but practice. A mature person means that he has found himself and has handled his relationship with the outside world very well. I don't know what stage you're at right now, but there are many things you need to go through to be truly mature!

When I was growing up, a friend told me not to ask why it means that you are mature.

Maintaining a curiosity about the world and the things around you is not a bad thing, but it is a rare thing, but you need to know when to ask and when not to ask.

For a person to mature, it mainly depends on your knowledge.

Read more books, participate in more social communication activities, and know everything.

First, two, you don't have to be very proficient, just like someone said "three-legged cat", others will think that you have a wide range of knowledge, and will not think you are naïve. Also, when you speak, you must think clearly before speaking, don't always say something with loopholes, and it is more important to listen patiently than to try to express.

It makes you deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.

However, your own psychological maturity is very important, so you need to hone it. Eat a trench and grow a wisdom! To add: what's so bad about being immaculate? At the very least, you are happy and carefree. As a person matures, his troubles increase.

Do you like to be carefree? Or do you prefer to worry a little bit? It's up to you. I like to live a carefree life, but I can't go back to the way it used to be.

Have a nice day!