My girlfriend made an agreement with me, but I don t want to do this, I want to give up on her, shou

Updated on society 2024-02-09
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think it's better to separate as soon as possible, because from the current situation, your she is now in need of money, and with your current situation, you can't satisfy her, and this girl will not suffer even if she follows you in the future, she is a very important person who regards money, so there is no need for you to keep her, because she is not suitable for you, you should find a person who really likes you to start a business with you

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's so extreme, there's no so-called agreement, what if you work hard, she can make 2 for a sugar daddy.

    I'm not an idealist, but I feel"Love and the future"It's a joint effort of two people, and since both sides are blank family backgrounds, it's even more important to advance and retreat together.

    As a man, there are responsibilities and obligations that a man should fulfill, and she should take on more responsibilities, and girls should have a stable job themselves, even if they don't have a big house and a sports car, they can live happily in distress, and when they have a foundation, they can change to a big house.

    Your girlfriend may also be looking for an excuse to dump you She is Marxist-Leninist to others Liberal to herself Why don't you go to a job and make a lot of money The basis for two people to be together is not money.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    She is so interested in a man's career, first of all, she has to find out whether it is his own reason or the family's sake, sometimes the family doesn't care, you better talk about it, you should love her, don't let your true love have left you.!!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Not necessarily, girls really need protection, how can they protect her if they don't have money? She may really love you, but she also loves money, so well, you should think about it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Dude tells you that this woman can't love you, dump her as soon as possible, like a man

    Everyone who supports it is on top.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think you should have a good talk and see how the results determine what you do.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Just think of it as a breakup.

    Who knows what it will be like in a few years?

    Who knows if she'll find a rich man?

    Who knows if you're going to meet a red face?

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Since you've all chosen that, what else do you want to ask us?

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Summary. My girlfriend suddenly told you that I didn't want to fall in love on a day like Double 11, and I was really unhappy, and then what you need to reflect on is why he suddenly told you like this The teacher can also understand, when you are asked by your girlfriend to make such a request, you are unhappy, and you also feel some regrets, and you must be very conflicted and entangled in your heart, and you have been thinking about what is wrong, but what this thing reflects is that if you can think about what the girl's inner needs are? And then what is the reason why he feels disappointed and tired, and feels that he doesn't want to fall in love with you, then you can better redeem him, and the most important thing is to see whether you like him or not, if you like him, then insist on improving the ways and methods, and you will be able to hold the beauty, so do you now have an understanding of the three major needs of girls?

    My girlfriend suddenly told me that she didn't want to be in a relationship, but I didn't want to give up or that the relationship was just beginning?

    Hello, I am Teacher Fei Fei, ask a professional answer in the field of emotion, I am a national second-level psychological counselor, a first-level emotional counselor, I have served more than 10,000 people, 7,000 hours of service +. I am good at answering questions about marriage and family, emotional redemption, love breakup, and personal growth direction. I've received your question, give me some time to think about it for you to answer!

    My girlfriend suddenly told you that I don't want to fall in love on a day like Double 11, and I was really unhappy, and then what you need to reflect on is why he suddenly told you like this The teacher can also understand, when you are asked by your girlfriend to make such a request, you are unhappy, and you also feel some regrets, and you must be very conflicted and entangled in your heart, and you have been thinking about what is the problem in the end, but what this thing reflects is that if you can think about what the girl needs in his inner roll? And then what caused him to feel disappointed and tired, and felt that he didn't want to fall in love with you, so you can better redeem him, and the most important thing is to see if you like him or not, if you like him, then make a lot of trouble and insist on improving the ways and methods, and you will definitely be able to hold the beauty, so do you now have an understanding of the three major needs of girls?

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There is a kind of beauty called giving up, a silent abandonment, giving up a favorite but no fateful friend;

    Giving up some kind of invested but unrewarded feeling;

    Let go of some kind of spiritual expectation; Let go of a certain thought.

    There is a kind of sadness in my heart, but this sadness does not prevent me from starting again, and I will re-listen to ** and tell the story again in a new time and space!

    Because it is a natural farewell and abandonment, it is full of detachment, and therefore sad and beautiful!

    There was a feeling that I wanted it to be forever.

    It took many years to realize that it had faded away.

    Only then do we know that what we hold in our hands is not necessarily what we really have;

    What we have is not necessarily what we really inscribe in our hearts.

    There are many times in life that you need to consciously give up, because there are still too many beautiful things in the world.

    For the beauty that we don't have, we have been yearning and pursuing.

    Busy for the sake of getting.

    In fact, what you really need is often not understood until many years later.

    And for the beauty we already have, we have a sense of apprehension and worry because of the experience of often gaining and losing.

    The sigh of the passing sunset, the troubles of flowers blooming and falling, and life is unhappy!

    Because when we have, we may be losing, and when we give up, we may be regaining.

    We can't be absolutely sure of everything.

    If you deliberately chase and own, it will be difficult to get out of the misunderstanding of gains and losses.

    Life needs to be sublimated into a quiet and detached spirit, those who understand know how to give up, those who are true know how to sacrifice, and those who are happy know how to detach.

    Although I did not come to this world because of you, I am more attached to this world because of you!

    If I could be with you, I would be grateful to the world;

    If I can't be with you, I will walk away silently, but I still won't lose my love and gratitude for this world.

    Thank God for allowing me to meet you, to say goodbye to you, and to complete a poem that God has created!

    Life has given us endless sorrows, but also given us eternal answers.

    So, Enron gave up and stuck to a detachment.

    No matter how the worldly life changes, no matter how personal choices are, and no matter how heavy the things in our hands are, we are brave even if we escape, and we are happy to be sad and happy!

    We go to the depths of life as usual, we give up and firm as usual.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Just like your name, quietly waiting for her!

    Maybe she loves you very much, but you don't get along well!

    Think for yourself where you are asking.

    Otherwise, you will never know why a person who loves you would choose to leave you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Dude, isn't it a man? If it's a man, you have to be able to afford it and put it down.

    Why does she love you and don't want to be together? What's nostalgic.

    It's so unrealistic.,It's like **.。。。

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I don't know what's wrong with you, how can you be separated. If it's just a general parting, just be tough and leave. If the problem is very serious, you should be dead when you should be dead face, and don't be rash.

    Separation is not a breakup, right? So that the problem is not serious. A man should behave straightforwardly, and the more you rely on and are reluctant, the more she will refuse. Getting along with men and women is also a process of psychological games. Either the east wind overpowers the west wind or the west wind overpowers the east wind.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you really can't keep it, give it up, it's always bad to be reluctant in everything, let go and give yourself a chance to choose again, but the first thing to make sure is that you are really not suitable for being together, good luck.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Love is like two people who pull rubber bands, and the injured ones are always unwilling to let go.

    That one, since she doesn't love you anymore, why do you insist on it? It's better to let it go, we don't love just one person in our lives, but a type of person. There is still a long way to go, and you will meet many people, and you will meet the person you love.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Ask why she's leaving, and if the reason is that she doesn't like you anymore and likes someone else, then there's no need to keep it. Actually, it's better for yourself to do this.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Nothing is just a matter of putting up with it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Brother, whether you should give up or not, the final decision is yourself. I only express my opinion, just for reference:

    I think there is a kind of truth about the choice between persistence and abandonment, if you do something good and you are excited to do it yourself, then it is worth failing and persevering; If what you're doing isn't necessarily good and you're tired of doing it yourself, then it's a mistake and you need to stop.

    Coming back to your problem, if you think that you love your girlfriend very much, and you are willing to work hard and have the ability to communicate with her to solve the current problem, then even if you are a little tired, you must persevere, because the joy of happiness after perseverance and final success is great. Of course, on the other hand, if you think that the process of dating your girlfriend has made you exhausted, unhappy, or even more lonely, then you are tired, which means that the current relationship is not what you really want, and you have no way to change it, then you can only stop, even if your girlfriend is perfect in the eyes of others.

    I also went through many relationships before I found my other half, which is normal, whether it is suitable or I know best.

    Hope it helps.

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