I feel like my boyfriend is only with me for sexual purposes, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-19
40 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If this is the kind of love, then you have to think about it, because love is mutual understanding and mutual trust between the other party, not for any purpose, persuade you to give yourself a space, and also give him a space, that is, to see if the love between you can stand the test! Here's wishing you a happy day.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Normal!!! You can completely reverse it, change from you to take the initiative sexually, he doesn't give it when he wants it, and you take the initiative when you want it, or don't you get it? You have to believe that the vast majority of men are very cheap, (I am not a cheap man) the more you torture him, the more he loves you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The premise is that if you feel that it is better to confirm it, and if you don't approve it, change it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Substitution. Of course, if you're all about the same frequency, you don't need to.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    He's with you for sex, so what about you? No one knows your answer, so you already have the answer in your mind and just want to be recognized? I'm right, right?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Refuse to molten with him for a while.

    See how he reacts.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you feel that the purpose is not pure, of course, you should keep your distance.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Is it fun to be together for couples who can't trust each other? Can you still be happy?

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Because you're a woman, he's a man, and of course he's with you for a purpose.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Is it for the purpose of marriage?

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    That's strange, don't you have a purpose for him.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Then try to find something else to do, otherwise this marriage will soon be numb, and the marriage must be maintained by both husband and wife, and the purpose should not be so single

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Being young is for sex, and only when you are old do you support each other.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    How old are you?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Trust a woman's instincts, and if you can't do it, you will divide it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    In fact, if you grasp the rules of feelings, you will find that a person with you has a picture or really loves you, through the details of life, you will find that if it is suitable, you will continue to date, and if it is not suitable, you will separate early.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    What purpose? Can you tell us more?

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Breaking up never requires both people to agree, you just need to break up, and disconnect with him, there is never anything that cannot be separated, only what you don't want to break.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Ignore him, and it's just a matter of dividing it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you usually don't ask or care about you, forget it, just ignore him and don't contact him, and if you are in love, you don't think it's appropriate for both parties to separate early.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    He doesn't agree, you can go on your own.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If there is no emotion, it is like this.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    You have to communicate more, if he just likes sex, then you don't do those things with him, communicate with him more, hang out with him more, drop his taste, slowly get to know more about it, see if he likes you, if yes, continue, if not, it's better to let go early.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Let him feel sexually dependent on you, feel that he can't do without you, it's better to leave him, a man like him is not worth paying for him.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You sister-in-law cool, how to say hello, you said your boyfriend, such a big person, in his ideology, love is vigorous, unforgettable, is a very sadistic game, how do you know you don't understand the rules of the game, take the initiative to catch up, he learned the cheats of the sister very carefully on campus or in the circle of friends, did not play at all, you have gone to his pocket, this he can't accept it psychologically, other people's love is so bumpy, he has not experienced any ups and downs, this is too bad to give him face, so, he actually hates you in his heart, because you deprive him of the process of pursuit,

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Maybe he's not that great, it's just that you've glorified his image. There's nothing reluctant to break up, if he doesn't like you, he won't love you with his heart, a woman must have backbone and find someone who will take care of her.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Try to change him slowly and make him feel affection for you.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Don't be too proactive, a gang is cold and hot for a while.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Slowly you get used to it, and that's how the spare tire is.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    How can you be sure what's going on in his heart?Some men are not good at expressing themselves, but in fact, they may like you and love you very much.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Be careful to keep your distance, otherwise you are very dangerous, if you just play it doesn't matter, but what you want is emotion, then call him gun

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    A man must eat a peck of salt with his friend before he knows him.. If I were you, I would definitely have the same thoughts, and I would also mention breaking up. But as an outsider, I still advise you to take a break, two months is still too short. Remember, the hearts of the people will be seen over time. Communicate more, if it still doesn't work, at least don't regret breaking up again.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Hey, woman!If you have a good feeling, you can play with others, if you can be a little reserved, don't let the husband who works hard for you eat other people's leftovers in the future!That's not good.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Have a good chat, if it's suitable, you'll be together, if it's not suitable, you'll be separated early, and it's not a way to go on like this!

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    If you can't give and can't fulfill your promises, give them up!The cake is tempting, but you can't eat it, so don't even think about it.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Break up, girl. If you lie to yourself, you will suffer yourself.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    If you love you or not, you should feel it in your heart, and don't believe it if you don't take action just by saying it, in fact, you already have the answer in your heart.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Love is meant to make people feel happy and spiritually in life. If you think carefully about whether he really cares about you in the small details of life, love is that no matter how busy you are, there will be time to send greetings. Even if it's just for a minute.

    In fact, he knows in his heart whether he loves you or not, sometimes he doesn't want to face reality, and he can always find one or two reasons to convince himself that he still loves you. Since you can't feel his love, it's better to let go early. The world is so big, why find someone who makes you tangled.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Beauty leave it, he doesn't really love you for your body.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Do you live a life without love?

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