Why do people live hard? Do you have to be tough?

Because people have to live to be seen by others. Some people may like to flatter others, because the benefits always come very quickly, and you think this is the way a smart person should live. But do you know how many people scoff at the way you look dogged?

Because he thinks that you don't have a little bit of hardness, and you don't deserve to be a human being at all.

I think as long as it is something that can be done within the scope of people's ability, then no matter how hard it is, don't take those shortcuts that others dislike, because this also means that you will lose some of people's toughness, and other people's mouths evaluate this kind of thing is not something that money can exchange.

Secondly, it is also to make us stronger in life.

Everyone can't predict what kind of tribulations will happen every day, and people can only cope with these tribulations if they are hard, and you will find that your weak self is not as vulnerable as you imagined.

Because of the hard spirit, you want to fight many things, and let the sky know that you don't admit defeat. The miracle of life is created in this way, there is no so-called smooth sailing, just because I don't accept my fate and want to break through.

You must be tough.

People are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden.

In fact, others bully you just because you are too soft-hearted, you always say to be a good person, but good people also have their own temper. **。

You can be a good person, but not too good.

Sometimes, good people get liked by others, but sometimes, good people also give others the opportunity to cheat.

Sometimes, kindness receives praise from others, but sometimes, kindness also gives others the opportunity to take advantage of you.

Be a man, be tough, and be better for yourself!

You always help others unconditionally, and always swallow your anger when others provoke you, which will only make others gain an inch, and you really can't be too soft.

If you have a good temper, others will bully you more and more, on the contrary, if you have a little temper, others can respect you, and this is the reality!

People are used to it.

Nowadays, people like to find soft persimmons to pinch, and when you are tougher, others will naturally stop bullying you.

In this era, honest people are bullied;

If you don't have a heart, you will be deceived.

Those who are not content should stay away, and those who know how to be grateful should be closer.

It is said that suffering is a blessing.

However, it is no longer a blessing to suffer losses every day, and it is really good to be willing to suffer. Don't be stupid, suffer a lifetime of losses, and let yourself suffer for a lifetime.

Despite people's suspicions, we must be frank and unrestrained.

To be a man, you can be soft or hard, in order to win respect.

Only by sticking to your own principles and sticking to your own correct direction can you not be a soft bone or a wall grass.

Be a tough person, no matter how old you are, you must be tough, others look up to you, you are not rejected by others, you are not ridiculed and ridiculed by others, be a tough person, and enjoy a happy life.

Treat bad people and ugly phenomena with toughness; Be kind to your family and friends. Whether it is hard or not, it should be divided into occasions and situations.

It mainly depends on who you are and what the occasion is, if you like it, you don't need to be so tough, but you must be tough when you are outside.

Yesterday I negotiated with the client again, and this time, the other party changed a so-called project leader.

Mr. Li, the person in charge of the project, said some lukewarm handover official words at the beginning. And then when we started talking about our project, it was really a big joke.

1. I like to take credit.

Think about this Mr. Li, because of the transfer of internal personnel, she was replaced in the middle, and other personnel were arranged as docking people, and kept saying that the things that Bi Lingyun did in the current project are the same as the original system, which is really speechless.

The person in charge, who has not taken over the project for half a year, has no understanding of the project progress and project situation, but here he arrogantly tells us that the system does not match the business logic originally planned. I can only say that they have a unified business logic.

Second, they always use unwarranted reasons as excuses.

Every time we contact people, they always talk about their own ideas, but we become some of the participants for some reason, they always talk about things with a haughty attitude, and if they say it, forget it. However, we have been working on additional functions in the later stages. In this part, people don't admit that it is an addition, and they also rely on the account, and they still talk about these things that they don't have, which is really embarrassing.

3. There are always some people who eat hard and not soft.

Life can't always be like this, if you are good to him, they always take it for granted, and they always like to find other people's problems to elevate themselves, and then boast about themselves.

Some people, when they see the situation, always treat convenience as casual, and give a dollar, they want a 10 yuan service. I'm really tired, my heart is so tired.