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Everyone knows that Lang Lang seems to have gotten married some time ago, and the other party is a beautiful and generous woman, and she is also very knowledgeable. The talents of the two can be said to be comparable, talented and beautiful. In June this year, Lang Lang posted about him and Gina.
Alice's wedding photo announced the good news that she was going to get married, and the wedding banquet was held at the Palace of Versailles in France.
But it was revealed by netizens that the picture showed that the two of them went on a trip, and they didn't know what they were doing? It was revealed that Lang Lang didn't help his wife with her luggage, and his wife Gina. Alice was wearing pink skinny long sleeves, blue jeans, and a lockbox with a black backpack on top of the lockbox and a large pink backpack on her back.
Look at Gina. It's a little distressing for Alice to bear such a weight with such a petite figure.
If you follow the conventional thinking, shouldn't it be a man's suitcase? When I arrived at Lang Lang, he was idle with empty hands, or the husband and wife should at least walk side by side. But it can be seen from the ** that the two people are quite far apart, and they don't look so affectionate.
At this time, netizens began to worry blindly, feeling that Lang Lang did not love ladies enough and Lang Lang was not a gentleman enough.
But I still think that after all, they are newlyweds, and it's not good for you to spread rumors like this, maybe the two of them are taking it in exchange, and you just caught this scene. If you don't love it very much, how can you get married, why are you still good, blessing people's love is not to spread rumors.
But Lang Lang, it seems that you still have a lot of knowledge to learn on the road to becoming a husband for the first time.
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Maybe Lang Lang's Western education has some influence, but just this little thing, how can you see the way two people get along, it's too extreme to say this, not to mention that the wife doesn't care about this, what else is the audience talking about.
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Maybe, the Western mode of getting along is relatively free and independent, he didn't help his wife with the luggage, and the other daughters-in-law didn't get angry, and we, the people who eat melons, don't join in the fun.
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I feel that the two of them are very sweet after they get married, talented and beautiful, although Lang Lang is educated in the West, but in terms of gentlemen, the concept of love must be similar to the public, and if they don't take luggage at that time, they may not be able to reflect the way the two get along.
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This should be the mode of getting along between two people, Western education itself is independent, do your own thing! It may be ingrained!
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I think it's possible, because Westerners are very clear about the relationship between two people, even between husband and wife.
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I think it's a way for two people to get along, but it's not necessarily because of Western education. Maybe it's traditional machismo or maintaining Lang Lang's face. After all, Lang Lang is a public figure.
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Not necessarily, maybe just this time, it was exaggerated by netizens, but you still have to be conscious about helping your wife with her luggage.
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This mode of getting along is different from our traditional one, in the Western concept of education, women pursue independence, and men do not have machismo, so they still appreciate this mode of getting along.
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Count, in the interview afterwards, Lang Lang said that it was because he was injured and his wife was worried, so he helped her carry her luggage, and Lang Lang also said: "Now when he takes something, I say you must let me take it, I said don't hurt me, you know, don't be too spoiled." I think the reminder from netizens is very correct, so I am very attentive now. ”
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This is indeed a kind of moral kidnapping, I think some netizens' statements are really too much, this is also their own business, you really don't need to say much.
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I think it must be a moral kidnapping, so I don't dare to let me take my luggage in public, but for the sake of face, my wife can only take my luggage, Lang Lang is really too much.
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I think this is a moral kidnapping, because fathers don't have that much responsibility between each other, and there is no need to divide them so carefully.
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It is the love of his wife, and generally taking the luggage is manual work, which is a bit tiring, and he is reluctant to let his wife suffer.
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If you don't take your wife's luggage, you have to divide the situation, and if you are really tired, you can let your wife take it for a while.
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No, it's just a small thing in life, and Lang Lang was injured in the arm at the time.
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No, you can't just look at the manifestation, you have to see the essence. If he happens to be inconvenient, then it's okay not to take it.
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Lang Lang said that he didn't dare to let his wife take his luggage on the hot search anymore, this time Lang Lang was full of desire to survive, even his wife wanted to take the luggage, Lang Lang hid far away, looking at the posture of Lang Lang and his wife, like a man who was full of desire to survive.
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It's normal for two people to help each other together, don't think too much, Lang Lang let his wife take the luggage because he doesn't love his wife, this conclusion is too arbitrary, too one-sided.
As long as two people live happily, don't worry about some small details.
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No, the love of two people should not be tempered by this small thing, and the other half cannot be denied because of a small thing.
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Being a public figure can sometimes have a lot of troubles and helplessness.
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What is this saying, raising awareness, it's pure hype.
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I think adult women should have been in love, when they are in love, when two people travel, the luggage is more than the boy, or the girl takes more, let's not talk about traveling, let's just say shopping, go out shopping is not bags and other items are basically all helped by the boyfriend, this is why, one is very tired to hold, the other is always that the boy is not used to taking anything, just want them to take things.
I myself am married and have children, since I got married, every year for the New Year to pack luggage and take the train back to my hometown for the New Year, since we got married, when we travel, basically I only need to carry a small bag of my own, which is loaded with mobile phones and things that will be used, and other things are all held by my husband, carrying, pulling, I think this is a very normal situation, and he is not willing to let me carry a big bag, pull the suitcase.
After having children, we have more luggage, no matter where we go to ** to play, the luggage is all held by my husband, and I only need to carry my own small bag, and then hold the child. I think this is the way it should be, boys take luggage because they can carry it, and they feel sorry for their lover who will be tired of carrying heavy objects.
But Lang Lang traveled with her wife, and his mother didn't take anything in their hands, Lang Lang even wiped his pockets with both hands, while his mother only carried a small bag of his own, playing with his mobile phone while walking, his wife was carrying a backpack, and he was also holding a suitcase, and there were things on the suitcase, do you think that in this family, does the boy love this girl, does he feel sorry for his wife, he definitely doesn't feel distressed, because as long as he cares for his wife, he won't see if his wife will be tired with so much luggage, so he is not a man who loves his wife at all.
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Because everyone thinks that if you love your wife, you have to let him do nothing and spoil him like a little princess. In fact, this is just the way couples get along. It may also be that Lang Lang's wife wants to save his face.
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How to say it, it can only be said that this kind of person is only worthy of carrying luggage for a lifetime, there has never been any standard for the way husband and wife get along, how comfortable it has always been, why use narrow thinking to look at people? If you don't help your wife with your luggage, you are uneducated? Character is not good?
Not a gentleman? Moral decay? Should it be humanely destroyed?
I can only say that I am full of food.
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Because in our opinion, men should have a gentlemanly demeanor, and these tasks of taking luggage should be done by men, such as many things, eating and paying bills, etc., and it is easy to cause dissatisfaction if you don't do it well.
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It can only be said that there is a problem with the concept of those people, and they have to use their own mode of getting along with husband and wife to measure others, and everyone's life pattern is different, does it prove that he loves his wife very much when he helps his wife carry his luggage?
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After all, he is a public figure, and his every move is exposed to everyone's sight, I think netizens are too exaggerated, and this kind of thing is also very common for ordinary people.
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This is the entertainment industry, a little thing in life is infinitely magnified, maybe they think that loving their wives means not letting their wives do anything, and they are spoiled all the time, so they think that Lang Lang doesn't love his wife.
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Lang Lang just didn't help with the luggage, how could he not love his wife? This title is a bit serious, if Lang Lang doesn't love his wife, how can he marry his wife, Lang Lang is so good, there should be no shortage of girls around him.
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I can't say that, maybe I didn't take my luggage this time, but I may be a particularly considerate man at home, so I say it's not a sign of not loving my wife.
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Everyone thinks that if you like her, you have to spoil her infinitely, and you should rush to do the heavy work yourself! I don't think it matters, you just go home and pinch your shoulder!
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I think it's good for two people to bear it together, not to go into battle easily and carry the burden alone.
Before, Lang Lang was on the hot search because sharp-eyed netizens found out that he didn't help his newlywed wife with her luggage. I used to think that this was also someone's housework, but when I saw the hot search, I felt that netizens were too lenient, so why don't you just take a luggage? After reading **, I still feel that Lang Lang is not a gentleman enough, if the thing is very light, Gina is willing to take it, but Gina takes three bags by himself, and Lang Lang and his mother who followed behind are both empty-handed, and let all the heavy work be borne by his daughter-in-law, which is really a bit unbearable.
On July 31, Lang Lang and his wife Gina Alice appeared at Shanghai Hongqiao Airport, Lang Lang looked very good that day, and he didn't mind seeing the photographer shooting, and even gave a thumbs up to the camera, only to see the slender Gina Alice, not only a bulging bag on her shoulder, but also a box with a backpack, but also in very good condition. But some netizens found that Lang Lang was empty-handed, and Gina was not only carrying a backpack, but also a suitcase and Lang Lang's bag.
After seeing this meeting, some netizens were not calm and began to discuss the issue of "should men take luggage for their wives and girlfriends". Some people think that Lang Lang is not a gentleman enough, this should be a man's conscious behavior, a manifestation of caring for women, but he did not set an example. Some people also say that Lang Lang was originally a hand that played the piano, and he bought 100 million insurance, so naturally he couldn't take things, but Gina also played the piano, and he was also the hand that played the piano, so why couldn't Lang Lang take his luggage?
Some people also said that just got married like this, how will Gina live in the future?
I think it's not wrong for netizens to express their opinions on this incident, Lang Lang's behavior must be flawed, gossip is basic human nature, and it's very stress-relieving. But netizens' interpretations are often actually from the endless dramas in the later stage. It is quietly guiding, seemingly rational but in fact it is all based on imagination.
I will simply express my opinion on this matter, that men bear the burden, but with their wives, and not with one person. The point of view is vulgar, welcome to complain.
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Every family is different, but it stands to reason that boys are more powerful than girls.
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In real life, the man still has to take responsibility as much as possible, especially when it comes to manual work.
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Of course, this kind of thing is for boys. Men should be a bit gentlemanly and care about women everywhere when they are angry!
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Equality between men and women has always been one of the slogans of modern people, but the fact is often that women want to break the four olds, and men want to respect traditions, it depends on what you think.
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In the popular mind, as a man, he should shoulder the burden of the family, because it is an obligation and a responsibility. But Lang Lang doesn't help his wife with her luggage, it's a bit of a fuss, that's an internal matter of the family, and it's not a big deal to take something, when people have inconveniences, women just take a luggage, and there's no fuss.
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I don't think it necessarily has to be a man to carry a heavy burden, there should be something for both parties, and there is not much to do.
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This can only express my personal opinion, Mr. Lang Lang's hand must be cherished, we love Mr. Lang Lang, love to listen to Mr. Lang Lang play the piano, if I am present, I will definitely help his wife carry the luggage.
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Maybe during this time, Lang Lang's arm hurts and he can't lift heavy objects, outsiders don't have much to do, it's really nosy.
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Maybe the wife is not so squeamish, and the two feel that this is a very common thing, and they have their own life at home.
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Under normal circumstances, it must be a man's business to go out and pick up luggage, out of respect for women and do their best.
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I think this is what it should be, men take care of women's happiness, men are happy, women are happy, and two people have a good relationship.
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As a man, it is normal to take on certain responsibilities in life, and this is also a burden that they cannot shirk. So I think that in life the man has to carry a certain burden, but not all, because there will be a wife to help.
Of course, when a man's ability is enough, when he has enough ability to create a better future for his family, then he must bear the burden of the family。After all, if his wife has nothing to achieve and can only be a housewife at home, the work of making money to support the family is of course handed over to the man. It is indeed a very hard thing to work outside, and the burden on your shoulders may be overwhelming, but as a husband, as a father, it is normal and natural to bear a certain burden in life.
Of course, the wife will also take care of the family at home, so that the man has no worries. In fact, sometimes the burden on wives is greater than that of men.
So when two people are together, both parties often have to shoulder certain responsibilities。After all, it is no longer a person who lives, but two people together, and even a child will be born. So at this time, you must be prepared to take responsibility.
And when the ability of men is insufficient, the ability of women is stronger. Then the burden on the woman's shoulders is also very heavy, because he not only has to work hard for his career, but he also has to return to the family to take care of the family, in this respect, his responsibility is heavier than that of a man. But there is no motivation without burden, because of the responsibility on one's body, so I will work harder to move forward and create a better future for both parties.
So when two people are together, don't just see the responsibility on your shoulders, maybe your other half is heavier than your responsibility。Then at this time, it is time for two people to be considerate of each other and understand each other. So I think who's really carrying the burden in life?
Then both men and women, they can both take responsibility in one aspect or another.