Is it really so hard to find a girlfriend It s so depressing, who has a solution?

Updated on technology 2024-02-09
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hehe, meeting is fate, just meeting someone and saying to her how is it, how does it feel? It can well be imagined.

    It is possible that she is a married woman, or a person with a BF. People like her bf so much, seeing that you suddenly came up and asked this and that, and asked such an offensive question, what would you think if you were a girl? Of course, it is to retreat, go and stay away, such as following, scolding (afraid. )

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I have a car, a house, a stable job, and I still look good.

    But what is your character? How's your deal? What's your personality? How's your health? Why did they all leave you? You know why? Find out for yourself!!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Women generally want men to be honest or have a sense of humor, and then they will choose whether to date based on economic conditions

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Go out and participate in more group activities, and you should have more contact with them.

    Always nestled in one place.

    Those are the only people you know, who are you looking for?

    The more people you know, the more goals you have to achieve.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Eldest brother. I'm still very beautiful, I'm in good shape, but I don't have a boyfriend, and these things are not in a hurry, wait for fate.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Some women also complain all day long that a boyfriend is hard to find.

    Go find those lonely women.

    But if you just feel that you should find a girlfriend and go for a girlfriend.

    Not only can't you find it, but even if you do, you won't be able to do it for long.

    Love is still about fate.

    Don't rush to ......

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Maybe the women you meet are those who can't see your strengths.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It can't be a bike, right? You don't work in the toilet either, do you? You don't look like a pig in spring, do you??

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I agree to participate in more group activities, are you also an introvert? Not good at communicating with strangers? Find the right target and attack slowly!

    I'm looking for it too!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Love is hard to come by.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    In my opinion, the reason why some people find it particularly difficult to find a girlfriendIt's because their social circle isn't big enough, or they're not active enough, and they're not persistent

    First, the social circle is not big enough

    If you have been in a very small social circle and know very few people, then it will naturally be difficult for you to find a girlfriend, after all, there are so many people in this circle, and if you can't find it, you can't find it. But even so, some people are still reluctant to expand their social circle and do not want to meet strangers, so they naturally feel that finding a girlfriend is a very difficult thing. On the contrary, if you can expand your social circle and let yourself know more girls, it will be relatively easy to find a girlfriend.

    Second, not proactive enough

    Although it is not uncommon for women to chase men in real life, if you have been waiting for others to chase you, you will lose the initiative, so in such a situation, it will naturally be difficult for you to find a girlfriend. That is to say,When looking for a girlfriend, you have to take the initiative to find it, and you can't wait for fate to come to the door, but you have to fight for it yourself。So, if you can't find a girlfriend all the time, you can change your strategy and try to take the initiative.

    What's more, it's nothing if you take the initiative to confess and be rejected, after all, how do you know if you won't be rejected if you don't try, if your confession is successful, then wouldn't you find your girlfriend.

    Third, I didn't insist

    Some people may not dare to confess to the girl or find a girlfriend again because they have been rejected by the girl. Actually, such an idea is wrongBecause girls usuallyCheekyIt's relatively thin, and sometimes she is likely to be embarrassed to face a confession so she rejects you, not that she hates you. So if you can confess a few more times and impress her with your persistence, then you still have a chance to succeed

    In other words, some people feel that it is difficult to find a girlfriend because they have not persevered, and this kind of retreat as soon as they are rejected will actually lose a lot of opportunities to get out of the single. In addition, if the confession is rejected two or three times, it means that she is really not interested in you, so don't pester her anymore, and leave with grace is the best thing to do.

    In general, I think the reason why some people have a hard time finding a girlfriend is because they don't expand their social circle, and they don't take the initiative and stick to it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Because these people want to find a particularly good girlfriend, but in fact, they are ordinary girls in life, so it feels very difficult.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Because everyone's criteria for finding a girlfriend are different. Some people want to find a girlfriend who matches the three views and can talk to. Such a girlfriend is usually difficult to find.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Because these people are busy with work and don't have time to contact the opposite sex, they feel that it is particularly difficult to find a girlfriend.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Summary. As long as you live well on your own and work hard to achieve your wishes.

    What if it's too hard for me to find a girlfriend.

    1. Insist on yourself and find a girlfriend is also a test; 2. Expand your social circle first, participate in more activities, and chat more with female friends; 3. Face this problem head-on and take the initiative to act; 4. In practical actions, analyze their own strengths and weaknesses and overcome weaknesses; 5. Appropriately adjust their own ideological concepts, change the original way of thinking, and expand the scope of communication.

    In fact, I think the biggest thing is the personality problem.

    It would have been a little harder for an introvert to find a girlfriend.

    This is just one example.

    In fact, self-confidence is the most important thing.

    You see which guy with a girlfriend is not confident.

    Believe you can't find it.

    Don't always think that you can't do it, but think about it, maybe you can give it a try.

    I'm in the countryside.

    So what's going on?

    As long as you live well on your own and work hard to achieve your wishes.

    Then you can be a very confident person.

    There are not a few people with hukou in rural China.

    They can't find a girlfriend.

    Don't. There are few girls.

    You're not saying you have to look for it in one place.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Now women are more showing RV money. If you don't have it, it's hard to find a good woman...

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Because now women have a very high vision and like to be rich and handsome, but in fact, they don't have the capital to find a rich and handsome, so you can rest assured, it's normal to not find a girlfriend, if you don't mind the leftover women who are old and urgently need to be married, it will be relatively easy, but it is estimated that they will not be able to enter your eyes.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The fault is that men don't invest in themselves, wear good clothes, shoot better, spend more money on themselves, and don't spend money on women. It's as simple as that, buy a house, don't buy a car,

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Alas, my situation is just the opposite of yours, why is it so difficult for me to find a boyfriend who loves me?

    God, earth, just have mercy on me, let me fall when I sleep and open my eyes, and let a boyfriend who hurts me fall when I open my eyes!!

    Hehe......

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    The ratio of men to women is 1:3, you will start later?? Now junior high school girls are basically booked.。。

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Because everybody is too realistic.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    As the old saying goes, there are only leftovers and no leftovers for men and women, and now the times are different, and the popular leftovers have to be packed...

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    To expand your circle of friends, have time to participate in more dating activities and meet more friends of the opposite sex, and the key is to be thick-skinned, hehe!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Pretty, Cher 332+ obedient, nineteen years old, women's affairs, preferably late.

    On the office, ?Mark's daily training is nothing more than lifting heavier and heavier things and ......When it is placed on the ground with a bang, the whole yard will tremble. As early as three months ago, the surrounding residents moved to another part of the city to a greater or lesser extent.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Due to historical reasons, there are more men and fewer women, so don't favor sons over women.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Whoever you like to care more about and talk more.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Because a lot of people are more homely now.

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