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You're fine, you're arrogant.

In our lives, once some people have the opposite sex and show a good impression of themselves, they will hate each other extraordinarily. The reason why there is such a situation is because I don't like the other party and want to draw a line with him.

We may be secretly happy in our hearts about our love and affection for others; But for those you don't like, you may feel disgusted, just because you don't want to accept the other person's affection.

In my personal opinion, I hate people who like me for two important reasons.

1. I don't like each other When someone expresses a good impression to us, there are generally two situations, the first is to be shy and happy, which is because I also like each other.

In the second case, you will be very unhappy, all because you and the other party are just ordinary friends, and you don't like each other.

For those who like it, being able to like yourself is naturally a happy thing; But for those who don't like themselves, if they like themselves, they may seem to themselves to be their own "disaster".

In such a situation, we will also show an unhappy look, and at the same time, the impression of the other party in our hearts will also plummet.

2. I don't want to have contact with the other partyAfter knowing that the other party likes me, I began to hate the other party in my heart, just to prevent the other party from having contact with me again, and I wanted to convey two signals to the other party with such behavior.

One is that I don't like the other person, and I hope that the other party can understand my mind and stop continuing to interact with me in the name of liking myself.

The second is to make the other party completely dead, not to use the identity of a friend to get along with him, and pursue himself.

Therefore, when we face someone we don't like, we must reject the other party simply and neatly, and don't hesitate, which will only give the other party hope and make the other party keep pursuing themselves.

The main thing is that I feel a little higher than him, and I also feel that he has no attraction to him, so I feel this way.

Because I don't like each other, when the other party says that I like me, I will be disgusted, and I feel disgusted when I don't like him or her.

Personally, I think this is a girl's instinctive reaction, because I often do this, so I think boys chasing girls are necessary to use certain skills, you can get along with friends first, if appropriate, and then confess at a certain time, if you go directly to confess, you will be particularly disgusted, and you don't recognize this person.

There is a saying that is very good, and what you get will never be cherished, so when the opposite sex expresses a good impression of yourself, you will make yourself feel that the other party is particularly cheap.

First, you tend to be shy. This situation may not be found between people of the same sex, or between acquaintances. However, as soon as an unfamiliar person of the opposite sex comes to greet you, you will feel very flustered.

This shows that you still don't have a lot of knowledge! The second is that your guts are too small, and you can't let go of all kinds when you play with the opposite sex! Also, there is a lot of ridicule, and you naturally form a habit!

Second, you yourself have a very aversion to the opposite sex. It may have something to do with what you experienced as a child. Or maybe you have a serious cleanliness habit, and you are very flustered about the hormones emitted by the opposite sex!

It's not unreasonable to say that it has something to do with the experience you brought with you when you were a child! It is possible that when you were a child, you saw something that you shouldn't see, and even when you grow up, as soon as you see the opposite sex, it will cause you to be disgusted! I think it's the psychological reason why you've been sick for a long time.

If you have time, you should see a psychiatrist! Whatever the reason for this situation, you can take the initiative to find it and try to correct it. That's a good sign!

There are simply so many things that need to be experienced in a person's life, and some things can crush your life. But so what? Life still has to move forward, we still have to move forward!

No matter what difficulties come your way, don't bow your head! Don't look back! Walk forward with your head held high!

This situation may be due to the environmental influence of your family of origin, or you have a certain prejudice against them, which leads to rejection and contempt.

Except for being related by blood.

In fact, I don't believe that there will be pure friendship between men and women, if a person of the opposite sex is very close to you, find a way to get close to you, he absolutely likes you, only people who like you, will try their best to get close to you. If you have feelings for the other person and you may develop a relationship in the future, then you can try to get along with the other person as a lover for a while (but not in a relationship). If you have no feeling for this enthusiasm, or even have a firm grasp that you have no future, it is recommended that you tell each other your thoughts, which is responsible for yourself and others, otherwise after getting used to it, it is not only yourself but also the other party who will be hurt.

If there is a person of the opposite sex who was originally very good with you, and suddenly distancing himself from you, such a phenomenon is not uncommon in daily life. Perhaps the reasons are as follows:

1. If you decide to give up your friends of the opposite sex who are very good to you, most of them will secretly like you in their hearts, and they will take care of you in life. It can give you a lot of hints about what you like, but you don't respond to it, or even have a rejection. She thought that her persistence would be able to impress you, but after a long time, she has been hit countless times, and she has no illusions about you.

2. Meet your other half In life, many people will have some friends of the opposite sex who play well, and when they or the other party are not in love, they will play very close to each other. But after having an object, the subject will inevitably mind. I don't want to quarrel with the subject every day because of these relationship issues, in order to give the subject enough security.

After that, keep your distance from friends of the opposite sex.

On the road of life, few friends of the opposite sex will always be by our side, after all, everyone's lifestyle is different. If you can't become lovers, you must keep a corresponding distance as a friend, which is also to give each other enough security.

It may be because you have done something very bad, or it may be because he has a girlfriend of the opposite sex, so he will suddenly become estranged from you at this time.

It could be because of what your partner said, it's likely that someone else has a partner, and it could be because you accidentally offended him.

This opposite sex should have had a good impression of himself from the beginning, but later for other reasons, he chose to give up, and naturally became estranged.

This kind of person may not like you enough, and his attitude towards feelings is also very casual, so he will suddenly become estranged from you.

The main reasons may be the following:

1. You can have been hurt when you were in love before, so you have resistance to the opposite sex.

2. Play and contact with friends of the same sex for a long time, and rarely have contact with the opposite sex, so you may not have that special feeling for the opposite sex.

3. It is also possible that what you say does not like any of the opposite sex, that is, you treat all friends of the opposite sex as the most ordinary friends, rather than the so-called love psychology.