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Ethical constraints, moral concepts, to be honest, there is no age limit for love, but your parents, don't think so, 14 years old, I said ugly, the mind and experience are not mature enough, maybe in your eyes, you think a certain is love, but in fact, if after many years, you think back to your thoughts at the moment, you will find that it is very naïve, of course, not everything is certain, love, is a feeling in the heart, but one thing I can be sure of, The probability of a relationship starting at the age of 14 is 5%, because the most important point of "responsibility" is that you can't experience morality at this age, if you just want to experience or feel some love taste, then it's completely fine, you can try, but if for long-term consideration, I advise you to give up, do your duty, and think about it when you think your mind is mature, regret the word, when you really mean it, it will be the most painful feeling.
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Are you worried about anything? Are you worried about falling in love, for your studies or for your family, or about yourself in some way? What are the consequences?
And you must like so-and-so now, right? That's why you're asking? How so?
I won't leave you alone! I just want to give you some tips on how to better deal with your mindset ... I think the most worthy of giving and cherishing in human nature is family, friendship and love...
This seems like nonsense, but many people don't feel how to cherish it ... Sometimes I'm in the middle of it. This is undoubtedly an unreal and contradictory feeling that cannot be felt!
It's like you who don't know what to do, and I think the so-called ambivalence is very frequent, and it's everywhere in life! Besides, I also think that the ** of desire is born out of contradictions! It's just my opinion, maybe someone isn't like me ...
Your present state of mind is in contradiction, that is to say, it is clear that your current thoughts are deviated from the natural nature of the facts, that is, your current thoughts are not true, nor are you really thinking, but are unreal thoughts that are emanating from contradictions in your mind! I think you can let go of such contradictory thoughts now, let your mind calm again, let your mind rest for a while, and the contradiction will naturally dissipate! At the same time, I also think that it is very rational to let go of contradictions and focus on the feeling of the heart!
So I think you don't need to get the answer to whether you should be in a relationship or not! Rather, let one's mind be given rational thinking to clearly understand what is the unreal feeling of contradiction? What is the feeling in your own heart?
Follow your inner feelings, I don't think anyone will oppose you, even if there are boring people who oppose you, I think your own reason should know your own mind better! Unreal contradictory feelings, in many places, many times and many aspects, not only family, friendship, love... There are many places and many places and many ways ...
As long as you can have rational thinking, the contradictions will naturally dissipate, and the heart will radiate true feelings to your mind, so that your hands and feet will follow the heart ... Remember to think rationally! It will be the care of true love...
My follow-up to nature is "Rational Thinking, Affectionate Mentality, Flat Emotions", you can refer to it. . . May it help you a little ... Um, I'm 14 years old.
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Nowadays, many girls don't think about giving their bodies to their boyfriends when they fall in love, but at that time both parties can't keep it.
Let's find a girl to fall in love with! Don't think about it! Have a great day!
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I've encountered this situation, in fact, the other party borrowed money my first feeling was embarrassment, I don't know why, I don't seem to be too embarrassed to ask why I borrowed money, and if I asked, it would be the same as the other party's self-esteem, and then I was afraid of saying too much or showing hesitation after the two of them were embarrassed, so I borrowed. However, it turns out that there is nothing, people said to borrow money, when I was embarrassed and hesitated to ask the reason, they told me the reason directly, and the money is also very good, no need to urge and do not need to ask, people have money in hand and then directly replaced, and did not say that they want to set up a note, stipulate the time, and did not say that the two people are still there for a long time, so it depends on how you feel, if the borrowed money does not make me bankrupt, I can accept it. But seeing so many news reports of financial disputes between couples after breaking up, I feel very entangled, so if you lend a lot of money, make a note or something.