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In the past, I was both looking forward to and worrying about the future that I was about to enter society. The future is full of uncertainties, so I prepared for the worst. We have been studying hard for more than ten years in order to survive better in society, but we have to survive, not only by knowledge, but also by social experience.
Therefore, when I was planning my life, my requirements for the first few years of my life were not arrogant or impatient, and everything was based on accumulating social experience. When I entered the society, more of us were dealing with all kinds of people, so I couldn't be too arrogant and self-righteous, and I was humble enough to learn from my elders, and when I was full-fledged, I could have enough ability to move forward. <>
Before I graduated from high school, I was unmotivated.
Because they are too well protected by their parents, many people and things are always very immature in their judgment ability. When I got to university, my circle of life became larger, and I finally met some particularly powerful people, and seeing their abilities, I felt superior.
A little bit of consumption, I feel that I am really useless, except for studying well, everything else is like a fool, I can't please people, and the young lady's temper, in short, I dislike myself more and more, so for a while I was reflecting on myself. Later I also learned something else from other people and hid my edge. <>
I was a little confused when I was about to graduate and enter the society, so I had a conversation with my sister, who told me about her past and all kinds of nails. I sounded a little scared, but I also understood that I couldn't rush. So after entering the society, I worked quietly, and I didn't have much desire to express myself, after all, I couldn't steal the limelight from others, and I didn't know who I was working with at first.
Therefore, in the past few years of my work, I have been honestly accumulating experience, and when I am recognized, my ability will appear little by little. <>
It's really hard to express my heart when I'm about to enter the society, but the only thing I understand is that I can't be too proud, so my plan for myself is to honestly accumulate social experience and contacts in the first few years of entering the workplace, and when I am full-fledged later, it is when my ambitions are presented.
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When I was about to enter the society, I first wanted to have a stable job, and then after working for a few years and gaining experience, I wanted to start a business and fulfill my dream through my own efforts.
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I will set a short-term goal for myself, and when I can achieve the short-term goal, I will set a long-term goal a little, so that I can create a better life through continuous efforts.
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First of all, you must have a job that suits you, constantly improve yourself in your work, and have the right opportunity to break into the world again.
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The first is to work steadfastly, set a small goal for yourself, but slowly achieve it yourself.
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I am about to enter the society, and I plan to go to the far south, not to live in the north, but to live in a different place and start again.
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I usually have a clear understanding to plan my life. The second is to be confident in yourself. Never be afraid of the challenges ahead.
I recommend you to watch "I Didn't Teach You to Blow Up", which writes about the sophistication of people in society and at work that adults should understand through the story. It's interesting and easy to read, and it's easy to understand. It is suitable for silly white sweetness and painful honest people who enter and exit society.
I want to pass on a lot of experience to students who have just entered the society, for example, everyone you know in society is not as simple as you think, for example, you must be down-to-earth in everything you do, don't be ambitious, and don't talk nonsense.
Maturity is basically a state of mind, experiencing some things, gaining experience or lessons, and what to do after summing it up. >>>More
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