At the age of 22, I have entered the society, how can I make myself mature

Maturity is basically a state of mind, experiencing some things, gaining experience or lessons, and what to do after summing it up.

This can only be regarded as basic maturity.

There will be a lot in the future, which will take time to sharpen, and I can't say a sentence or two, this is something that can only be understood and not easy to say, and when you are really mature in the future, you will feel that maturity is not a very happy thing, and many of them will mature at a price.

In short, relax your mind and take things lightly, you should be able to face it.

Improve communication skills in contact with different people.

Enhance adaptability in different environments.

Improve judgment on cognitive issues.

I think the most important thing is to have a strong tolerance for setbacks and the tenacity to never give up.

It's still the same old saying, listen more, learn more, do more!

Listen to what others say and do and find out the strengths.

Then learn to say and do it yourself.

In the end, I gradually turned it into my own

Be flexible and be steady

Good luck! Hm, bro, being in love will only make you mature in terms of men and women!

—ok

Can't be whimsical. Work hard to achieve the goals you set. Talk less, listen more, watch more, ask more.

Self-confidence is very important, followed by habits in life, and some images to pay attention to in terms of dressing.

After experiencing a few more women, you will naturally mature.

Lost love. Basically, it's OK about 3 times....

Recently, on Zhihu, I saw such a discussion topic "Should you learn to mature at the age of twenty", and found that there are many discussions below, some say that you are already twenty years old, and you want to say goodbye to the ignorant self and plan for your future; It is also said that it is only twenty years old, and it is only two years before the age of eighteen, so don't be too anxious to learn to mature, youth is worth wasting.

In fact, there must be a thousand strange answers to this question, and there will not be a special set of standard answers, and everyone should have different opinions due to the influence of factors such as family and society.

However, since the answer is not unified, I can only say my own opinion on the age of twenty. For me, twenty years old should be mature, I can't be nostalgic for those seventeen or eighteen-year-old youth ignorance, I can do not have to worry about the price, calculate the gains and losses to complete a thing. At the age of seventeen or eighteen, our parents may be able to clean up the aftermath for us, but at the age of twenty, we can only rely on ourselves.

Moreover, the age of 20 is another starting point in life, and the life we want to live at the age of 30 is often determined by our efforts in our twenties, and we are responsible for our future life, as well as for our aging parents. As far as I am concerned, for a person who was born in a small county, the family's economy is mainly dependent on my father to spend, which also determines that I have no capital to squander my own. I had to learn to mature and not let my sensibilities take over me.

I am responsible for my own future.

So, I'm still in favor of twenty years old, we should learn to mature and take responsibility for our future.

It's time to part, I'm parting, see you tomorrow!

Learn to have others in your heart, both in words and in deeds, because it is always easy to hurt people, but it is always difficult to earn friendship and respect. It is always necessary to learn to have some people around you to move forward;

Learn to let go, and it's not the things that you let go of but the mood. Don't bother with anything. There are always difficulties in life, but there is always sunshine.

Maturity is not what kind of person a person becomes, but how to get along with others. Actually, maturation is very simple.

As for personality, everyone has it, don't care, that's your trait. Learn to respect people, and you'll soon understand what maturity is.

Learn to be tolerant Tolerance is not only a symbol of maturity, but also a state of state. The childish mind is never tolerant, they are extreme, angry, blindly acting, "evil as hatred", and they themselves repeatedly make mistakes that cannot be "tolerated", they strive for perfection, but they do not understand their own shortcomings. In addition, tyrants and powers are never tolerant, they are narrow-minded, blood-hungry, murderous, and in the end, stupidity can only lead to their destruction.

Moderate self-denial Learning to moderate self-denial and constantly denying oneself is a necessary condition for maturity, and it is also an important sign of maturity. Self-denial is a profound ideological activity, which is motivated by the knowledge of truth and self, not by self-effacing and self-contempt. Denying oneself is the result of thinking, not "touching the situation".

As long as you reflect and face yourself from time to time, you will deny yourself from time to time. It is not easy to know oneself, it is equally difficult to deny oneself, and people are most likely to be self-righteous and stubborn. In reality, people almost always think that they are jealous.

No one has the right to be conceited before the truth. As the saying goes, what we need to change the most is probably what we insist on the most. However, people often think that they are always right, regard arrogance as maturity, stubbornness as personality, and in the end can only "regret it".

In fact, people's understanding is shallow, and everything is constantly changing, how can you not change? Things are changing, times are changing, and the truth is changing, which requires you to keep changing your original understanding and denying what you once insisted on. I've shown people the trick of making fewer or no mistakes on big issues, and I said that when you're faced with a difficult problem, you have to do the opposite of what you do, and the result is right.

That is, when you think something is doable, you don't do it, and when you feel you can't do it, you have to do it. If you think it's right, you have to be sober, because you think it's right, so.

If you think it is wrong, in the same way, you have to understand that it is right. People didn't believe it at first, but then they tried it again and again in practice. If you don't believe me, you might as well try.

Let life go with the flow, be the best version of yourself, you should know how to understand sooner or later, read more, try more new things in society, you haven't done anything crazy to try, want to be a mature person is not just by saying it can be understood, even if you say it, you may not be able to do it, the easiest way is to experience all kinds of sadness given to you by the society. Once you get used to it, you will see through everything, and slowly you will become more and more mature and stable.

You're going to be more mature anyway. It's just whether it can be more "ideal". If you want to be more "ideal", you can't let go of the bits and pieces of life.

Try to connect everything around you (even if it has nothing to do with you) with yourself, and you will have a lot of different discoveries and experiences. As soon as you feel differently you will change, and this change will push you to improve, and of course, it can also be depressing. However, never lose sight of a "motivated heart".

At the age of 32, he matured.

1. Pay attention to promises: Mature men will never go back on their word, he attaches great importance to each of his promises, and carefully considers whether his words can really be fulfilled before making a wish. Every word he says makes you feel reassured and trusted.

The man who runs the train with his mouth, fires empty cannons indiscriminately, and can't take action for a long time, has nothing to do with maturity. ­

2. Don't talk exaggerated: A mature man never talks casually, he will grasp the appropriate silence, and speak clearly but not shouting. Just drink a little wine and tell a little story about your own little experience all over the table, and half a room can hear it without a loudspeaker, this kind of man, at most, will make the audience laugh, and no one will put your various so-called "road of struggle" in their hearts.

3. Knowledgeable and subtle and introverted: they read, accept new things and new information, and constantly enrich their connotation. But they are unassuming, their talents are only shown when necessary, and they are never deliberately showy in order to satisfy their vanity.

They are like mellow wine, the more you taste it, the more you taste it. ­

Fourth, broad-minded: mature men don't care, don't covet small gains, don't care about small losses, and don't chatter about this and that. Their vision is never stumped by trivial matters, and they are often the "angels who turn back first" when it comes to small quarrels in the family. ­

5. Not self-centered: Mature men respect themselves and know how to respect others. They are good at empathy, will consider problems from the standpoint of others, do not force others to accommodate themselves, and are good at cooperating with others.

All men who are "how I am", the typical little emperor's temper, have not grown up yet. ­

6. Have the courage to admit mistakes: mature men are not stubborn, can accept different opinions, and are good at adopting good suggestions. They have the courage to bear the consequences of their own inappropriate decisions, and never make excuses to prevaricate. ­

Seventh, the will is firm: mature men have the psychological quality of not messing up, once they determine their own goal, they will work towards it, encounter setbacks, they analyze the reasons, learn lessons, and correct the direction in time, but never give up easily. They will be tired, but after resting, they will set out with confidence.

8. Clean and tidy: Mature men respect their appearance. They have a hairstyle that suits them best, a clean chin without stubble, a face that is not greasy, and no long nails.

The clothes don't have to be brand-name, but they are neat and generous, and they won't be crumpled like a courier. They will never wear black leather shoes and white socks and wear suits to travel. ­

9. Respect the old and love the young: Mature men are caring, have a sense of social responsibility, and have the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation. He will give up his seat to the elderly and pregnant women, donate money and materials to the affected areas, help out-of-school children, and donate blood ...... voluntarilyThey don't necessarily do all of these things, but they don't do nothing.

10. Have hobbies: They are not robots who only know how to work, they know how to use hobbies to regulate their tense nerves, and work and leisure are not wrong, which makes them interesting. No wonder women say: Men with hobbies are not easy to become bad. ­

In fact, a person does not need to be very mature, what is the inner being, we are really.

The self should be the same as the self should be. Cry when you should cry, laugh when you should laugh, naturally, sincerely, there is no need to assimilate yourself for various reasons of reality and become exactly the same. You see that the old urchin is still so naughty and mischievous when he is old, but you can't help but say that he is very happy.

The best way is to go out and do assistant work, so that you can deal with both the upper and lower levels at the same time, which is very training.

Go to the society to experience, don't rely too much on others, maturity is a by-product of setbacks, and if you don't experience enough setbacks and adversity, you won't learn to be truly mature.

I'm older than you, and I don't think I'm mature, like a child, but that's what I was born with. I'm happy, I'm living well, and I'm okay with people, so there's no need to mind. Besides, you're only 22 years old