How can a woman maintain a long marriage?

If a woman wants to be happy in marriage, she must do the following: First, she must learn to manage her marriage and family, don't worry about everything, and learn to be tolerant.

Two: Learn to empathize, think more about your husband, and don't always be selfish and only think about yourself. Three:

Don't always be suspicious, give your husband enough trust, and don't always run into a bad shed to be vexatious. Four: Don't always complain that your husband is useless, encourage your husband more, don't always hit your husband, support your husband more, and don't always complain about your husband.

Five: Don't be disappointed in your marriage, don't always be disappointed in your husband, and don't always be dissatisfied with your wedding. Six:

If a woman wants to be happy in marriage, she must manage her marriage and family well.

A successful woman should know how to maintain her marriage and start a happy life, and the following is how a woman should maintain her marriage in my compilation? Welcome to read for reference! 1. Gentleness and noble elegance As a wife, virtuous and virtuous is a must, but now it is not ancient, let alone a woman who is virtuous without talent, and can be called a perfect woman.

Men want women to be gentle and delicate, because it is determined by the physiological characteristics of women, and it is a natural demeanor. This type of woman is feminine, at least feminine on the inside, not a monster who is neither male nor female from the inside out. Men prefer that while their wives are gentle, they are born with their bones'Noble and elegant, this kind of woman is the most conquest desire for a man, and the sense of mystery is more likely to arouse his curiosity.

2. An independent job Although men want women to grow up with them, over time, they will feel that they no longer have the sky to breathe freely. The two are often tired of being together, and there will be times when they get bored. Therefore, sometimes men prefer that women can have their own independent careers, even if they don't earn a lot.

The two have room to grow each other, and they have the characteristics that they can rely on each other to survive, and they will not be estranged because they are not often together, but because they haven't seen each other for too long, they will miss each other. 3. A smart woman A simple, silly and naïve woman doesn't mean that no one loves her. But this kind of white-eyed is too much, coupled with pretending to be stupid, who will love it gradually as time goes by.

The key point is that some men like smart women, and they want women to flash the spark of wisdom from time to time, this type of woman is financially independent, mentally strong, capable, and shrewd, like this kind of female white-collar workers in the urban workplace, but it can arouse men's desire to conquer. Of course, the man himself is also a very smart mature man. They like quick and hassle-free relationships, so much so that this type of woman is also very popular.

4. A woman with a soothing heart Everyone has different tastes, so there are many types of women in the world, but there is a kind of woman that men can't resist. This kind of woman doesn't have to be pretty, it makes people feel very comfortable at first sight, they are the perfect candidate for a wife. At the same time, she is a good mother in the eyes of her family and children, and a good wife for her husband.

Because they know what kind of occasion, what kind of person to treat, and what way to use. Although her husband is already wealthy, he will not linger in the land of fireworks, and even his entertainment will be reduced and he will go home directly, and this kind of comfortable woman can be called perfect!

In the marriage continue to change themselves, make themselves better, but also for the other party to make appropriate changes and compromises, in order to make each other's love more long, not long after marriage to conceive a baby, due to malnutrition, but also because I don't know how to cook, my husband has no time to take care of me, so I can only go to my mother-in-law for a while to go to my mother's house, at that time I feel that I and my husband slowly began to appear estranged, I told him many times, his mother is not my mother, It is impossible to treat me like my mother, but he doesn't listen, he always says that his parents are very good, how is it, but when I arrived at my mother-in-law's house, my mother-in-law played mahjong every day, and the cooking was not on time, and my father-in-law smoked at home every day, and it was useless to say, and at this time he always said that I was not sensible and so on, and slowly found that I was unwilling to call him ** to say these things.

Second, later I went back to my parents' house, and my mother took care of me, she had a lot of things to do, but she was also dedicated to taking care of me, because I was pregnant and vomited too much, my appetite was really not good, and I was very picky, so I could feel the distress of My parents, and then after giving birth, my in-laws did not say to help take care of the confinement, nor did they say to help take care of the child, in short, my confinement was taken care of by my mother, and he felt that his mother's waist was not good, and I had to understand if he couldn't come.

Third, then we and I can't take the baby with a thrilling shirt, and it is true that a person will not take care of it, so I took the baby back to my parents' house, his parents ** did not hit one, at first I and he will be a day **, and then slowly I don't want to pick him up **, and I don't want to talk to him too much, we have been separated for about ten months After I went back, I felt that the two of them could not be like the feeling when they were in love, at that time we had just been married for three years, and at that time I felt that I wanted to return to a person's life. I never got tired of it and loved my home and family very much.

If you have such a clear relationship before marriage or have made it clear what it will be like after marriage, you have agreed and given enough after marriage, of course, you can continue. If you get along well before marriage because two people are married, but after marriage changes a lot, and only one party wants to be loved, you should not continue.

For example, if your husband has 1 million and only gives you 10,000, you are definitely not happy and want to divorce. Your husband has 12,000 and gives you 10,000, and you are absolutely happy. 1 million to give 10,000 is not love, 12,000 to 10,000 is love.

Material things are the measure of love. At the end of the day, I want love.

Whether the marriage should continue depends on whether you are happy or not, and if you can't please others, please yourself.

If you continue to accept money, the woman will become more and more troubled by gains and losses, more and more doubtful of herself, and after a long time, she will be called a man's accessory and lose her self-worth! But bravely say no, bravely leave, start to be beautiful and confident, start to work hard to earn money, realize their own value, many women divorce, more than men.

How to look at a marriage that only gives money but not love.

A normal marriage should consist of two parts, "material and emotional", both of which are very important. All happy marriages, happy couples, are both "material and emotional". Conversely, all unhappy marriages, or failed marriages, are either short material, less emotional, or neither.

Of course, not all marriages can have both "material and emotional" abundance at the beginning, and many marriages start with only material or emotional feelings, or one of them is relatively scarce. For example, many couples who are in love and married have more feelings and less material; Many couples who marry on a blind date get married first by material things, and their feelings are zero or only a little bit.

No matter which one is relatively short at the beginning of the marriage, as long as two people work together to make it abundant, don't let it be in short supply all the time, don't throw it away, then the marriage can slowly become happy. Couples who are in love and married, have more feelings and less material troubles, so they can make money together to support their families while maintaining their feelings; Couples who marry on a blind date should focus on cultivating their relationship while making money together to support their families after marriage.

Hello, I myself have not had the experience of flash marriage, but I have seen the experience of flash marriage of people around me, two people should be a kind of marriage at first sight, when they like each other, soon enter the marriage, both parties do not understand the situation, they enter the marriage, because life is a very cumbersome problem, if there is no long-term understanding into the marriage, when there is a conflict, it will not be able to better communicate and solve, many times it will lead to the breakdown of the marriage, too quickly determine the relationship will not last. The reason why I think this is because of the lack of understanding of each other, the lack of emotional basis for determining the relationship too quickly, and the lack of sufficient investigation of each other.

1. The two parties of flash love lack understanding of each other, so it is difficult to last long.

Both parties in love can only be in love for a long time if they fully understand each other and make it clear that each other's conditions are suitable. The two parties of the flash love lack enough understanding of each other, and in this case, it is easy to have disagreements and even contradictions because of the differences between each other, so it is difficult for the two parties of the flash love to be together for a long time.

2. Determining the relationship too quickly will lead to a lack of emotional foundation, and it will be difficult for each other to last long.

Love needs a solid emotional foundation to rely on in order to last for a long time. This can only be achieved after a relatively long period of interaction between the two parties. Between two people who are in a relationship too quickly, the emotional foundation is relatively weak, and the development of a romantic relationship in such a state is easy to cause various problems due to a weak foundation, which ultimately leads to the relationship not being long-lasting.

3. The two parties of flash love lack mutual inspection, and it is difficult for love to last long.

Both parties in love have their own unique personalities, so they need to conduct a comprehensive and long-term investigation of each other, and after determining that the other party is suitable for them, they can clarify the relationship and fall in love together for a long time. The two parties of flash love lack of full investigation of each other, lack of knowledge and understanding of the differences between each other, and in such a state of communication, it is easy for two people to have contradictions between them, which will affect the relationship between two people. Therefore, it is difficult to maintain the relationship of flash love for a long time, you must be sober and rational in the face of this situation, you must understand more, you can't just flash marriage into marriage, you must choose a suitable person, after a long period of understanding to avoid the impact of flash love on yourself, find a suitable person yourself, after marriage, two people will be more tacit, understand and tolerate each other, and the marriage will be more harmonious.

That's how to do it.