Should I give up on this relationship? Should I give up on this relationship?

You should find a suitable time to talk to him.

See what it means to talk.

I believe that your love will be better.

If two people feel harmonious together, how can they give up for the sake of a little temporary difficulty? Have you ever heard of the happiness of suffering together? Don't just stare at the difficulties under your feet, look at the sky in the distance, and look forward to whether there will be rain and sunny between you, and whether there will be a future for the two of you?

If you love him, be a little more supportive and understanding of him. I've always believed that emotions are the most important thing.

If you really love each other, this difficulty is nothing. Do you care about him, or do you care about his work, or are you worried that your parents are against you, find the right focus and solve the problem. If he really loves you, he needs your encouragement the most.

No, you try to fight for your own happiness, and you have to help him and understand him.

If you really love him, you should help him regain his confidence, help him get out of trouble, and wish you a bright future!

What kind of boy do you like?

Does he have these qualities now? Or is it possible that he will change to what you like in the future? Think about the answer and it comes out :)

If you love him, accompany him through the difficulties, and believe that the light will come eventually!

I really don't know how to go a** to talk.

On September 20th, my parents, who were far away from home, drove to my place of work, and the parents and intermediaries had dinner together.

After dinner, I went back to my own house, and I didn't make an appointment with my girlfriend a few times in the middle of the day, saying that there were various reasons, and I was a little angry, and I didn't look for her for the next two days, and she didn't hear from her, and then asked her out to talk about what she thought. In this conversation, I mainly expressed whether she could consider my feelings in the future, and she was cold to me every once in a while, saying that it was difficult to accept. Also ask her what she thinks.

She said that the parents of both sides met and felt that the two of them were going to enter another stage, saying that they had not thought about it and had no plans to get married for two or three years for the time being.

In the next 10 days, she didn't take the initiative to look for me, and she basically ignored her, and she didn't respond when she went out to play. On October 5th, he resolutely mentioned breaking up, on the grounds that the concept of time was inconsistent, the personalities were incompatible, and the two parties didn't like it enough, so they were directly blacked out, and there was no room for recovery.

So far, basically my relatives, friends, classmates and colleagues don't know that I broke up, because the contemptible interpersonal relationship is not bad, and everyone is very concerned about my marriage, and I can't talk about it. My parents don't even know, and every time I go home, I have to pretend that I have a good relationship with my girlfriend. Until yesterday, my father said that the marriage bed at home was bought and installed, and according to the custom of my hometown, I really couldn't hide it, but I didn't know how to say it.

The main worry that I dare not say is that the parents are under too much pressure in their hearts, and they will think that the breakup has a lot to do with them, otherwise how could it happen after my girlfriend met them (I have met my girlfriend's parents many times before).

Personal current state, as long as you go home from work, you are in a very irritable and anxious state, you can't see hope, you will be 31 years old soon, in the countryside of your hometown, you really belong to the older unmarried youth, most of the people of the same age in the same department of the unit are married and have children, and now you only hate your girlfriend, and the pressure of the world wants to enter the next paragraph as soon as possible, but you really feel tired.

1.I don't have the right to make you give up, because if we choose, we have to bear it. For love, we cannot interpret it in terms of right or wrong.

2.Giving up is a kind of understanding of life, the most difficult thing for people is how to learn to give up, giving up is not a simple abandonment and escape, but also not an excuse for a negative life, we can not stop pursuing in life, but we also have to learn to give up. Giving up is a rational choice, a rational cherishing, a transcendent beauty, and a profound love.

3.Every choice is always accompanied by pain, because the choice is lost. In life, we always keep choosing, keep giving up, only give up, we can find the opportunity to truly belong to our own life, only give up we will not miss the person waiting for us at the next intersection, only give up we can get out of the past and no longer indulge, only give up can be painful and happy, in order to live happily.

4.When we can't have or give him or her happiness, or when having it becomes a pain, then why can't we choose to give it up sensibly? Although every choice is accompanied by pain and regret, after experiencing these, we know how to cherish, know how to bear, learn to make trade-offs, understand the true meaning of life, and make our lives more fulfilling.

5.Therefore, I would like to say that only those who know how to give up can truly heal the pain of the past, and only those who feel the pain can have true happiness. Pain and regret make us feel more deeply about life.

If you and I are destined to have no chance in this life, if you are destined to be a hurried passerby, then please let us learn to let go of each other and know how to cherish it.