How to choose, love or reality.

You will regret choosing your junior high school classmates, his current family background may not be important, but he himself is not self-motivated at all, are you ready to suffer with him for a lifetime? Yes, you love him very much now, but if you get married, after the first few months or a year of sweetness, problems will come out, marriage is not in love, and then there will be contradictions. As far as the difference between your family and his family's background is concerned, maybe it will become a fuse of contradictions in the future, you can think about it yourself.

If you break up with him now, it can't be said to be a betrayal, it's just a breakup, and many people have experienced it. You should cut through the mess now and deal with this matter quickly, and it is better to have your friends feel sorry for you now than to get married and divorced and get married for a second time. And you also have a good impression of the man who is pursuing you now, don't you, marriage is about the right family, and sometimes it is not unreasonable for the ancients to stay.

LZ Actually, I've had that experience.

At that time, my girlfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years, and we have always loved each other, and my family is also good, but I have always been useless, and in the end, because my parents did not agree, I had to reluctantly separate.

Now I see very clearly, the reason for the separation is that I don't have the ability to keep a woman I like, and I don't have the ability to give her happiness.

And the man you said about the good conditions now, I don't think it matters if you have money or not, the important thing is to be able to live happily together.

You might as well persuade your boyfriend to tell him to find a job and give him a chance, and if he is willing to work hard for you, it proves that he really loves you.

If he doesn't say yes, I don't think he loves you that much, or maybe he's still very naïve and immature.

But the final decision is all in your mind.

I wish you can find a man to rely on for your happiness.

I think it still depends on the person, who has fewer vices, the general life is almost the same, the person is good, although the material conditions are one thing, life should be a little interesting, at least some aspects can be played together, if the difference is too big, the life will be boring. If you choose well, there is no reason to talk about it, if you are married and reasonable, you just don't want to live it, and if you agree and live a down-to-earth life, it will be the rest of your life.

Love is beautiful and full. But the reality is skinny, everyone is realistic in this society, you can try to help him improve his self-motivation and self-confidence, if he has no will to change at all, then he is not worth your life's time. Although it is a bit cruel, love will eventually become firewood, rice, oil and salt, and it is better to be painful now than to regret it later.

This kind of thing is completely yourself, don't care what happens to your friends when they see it, choose whoever you think you should choose, love is great, no one can stop it, in front of true love, there is no distinction between rich and poor, and I can only tell you this, I don't want to help you make a choice, I am afraid that I will become a sinner. In the end, it's up to you how you choose.

Love is sweet, but reality is cruel! Feelings can also be cultivated slowly! There is no right or wrong in love!

Nor is anyone who is the only one! For our own love, let's not be selfish, consider the parents who gave birth to me and raised us! I'm sure you'll know what to do!

Face it bravely! Go your own way and let others say go!

If you are your own struggle type, it is best to have love. If you're pampered, then listen to your mother. The environment is important. The main thing for girls is time. Know yourself.

There are many choices on the road of life, and there are multiple answers to each road, but in fact, the real answer depends on how you face the road ahead, having money may not be good for you, and no money may not have a future.

Choose for yourself Don't wait until later to regret it.