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I think you should try to understand him, and then don't deliberately approach him, but pay attention to him, let him know that there is someone watching him in a corner, and then he will naturally approach you, but this is only for most people, if the boy is very withdrawn, or very cold, then I don't deliberately approach him, he will not find out that you exist. The question of how to make him like you is a bit complicated, although liking is a very simple feeling, but it does not mean that whoever sees it will like it. I think that this has to involve the word "fate" again, don't say that I believe in evil, this is indeed the case.
You can first meet him through his friends, and then try to chat with him online, try to like the same hobbies as him, so that slowly you will get to know each other, but whether you can be together really depends on your fate with him.
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A boy doesn't feel envious of a girl at first sight, is it possible to be together?
Let's take an example: when I first met my current girlfriend, I really regarded her as a big sister, a confidant to talk to, and I didn't have that kind of affection for her.
Maybe it's because I liked a few girls earlier, and they were all very attentive, but then they were all started by others first (it should be that I don't look good, and I don't have the front of the land that attracts others), and I seem to have lost that sense of initiative towards girls.
Gradually, I can't do without this girl. I want to share everything with her as soon as possible. And she is also very sensible, and she will be the first to think about me and my family if there is any problem.
In this way, we unknowingly established a relationship (okay, I chased her) and became closer and closer to each other. Sometimes I'll say things to her that weren't possible before. It can be said that she made me discover my sullen attributes (cheeky gradually revealed).
Now we are very happy, and we have a clear understanding and plan for the future. Although the long-distance relationship will be very hard and uncomfortable, if I can marry her back home in the end, I think everything will be worth it.
All in all, feelings can be cultivated, and it doesn't have to be love at first sight to last a long time. There is an answerer who is quite right, most of the love at first sight is the intention of seeing the color, without in-depth understanding, the ending is generally not particularly good (personal experience).
If you are a girl and meet a guy you like, shyness is inevitable, don't have the courage to know him. Slowly understand his hobbies and personality, and boldly pursue it if he still thinks it is appropriate. Cheekily said that it is generally not difficult for girls to chase male assurance.
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1. Learn to attract. If you want to attract a guy, you don't have to be nice to him all the time, but you have to find a way to make him be nice to you. When you are in trouble, you can go to him for help and make him feel that he is valuable to you.
If it happens that he can solve your difficulties, then there will be a sense of accomplishment in his heart. Men have a heart of pity and cherishment, and they all hope to show their advantages in front of others. So you can be bold and ask him questions without worrying that he will find it troublesome.
After he helps you, you use the excuse of gratitude to invite him to dinner or watch a movie, which creates a lot of opportunities for you to get to know each other.
2. Learn to praise him. Men are like children, they like the praise and praise that others give them, think about when we are children, if we are praised by our teachers, can we be happy all day. Even if it is a very ordinary boy, he must have his own shining points.
His clothes, his smile, and his conversation can be praised generously, don't be embarrassed, hearing your praise, he is very useful. Especially when two people are alone, you can casually compliment him to make him feel that you are paying attention to him and make him feel that he is different. Most boys are very fond of this, and who doesn't like someone to worship them.
3. Don't take the initiative to confess. As a girl, even if you like him again, don't confess it first, let alone show that you like the other person very much at the beginning, even if you like him again, you must be reserved and control yourself. Otherwise, when you show your cards, you will have to be slaughtered by the other party.
You have to let him know that although I like you, if you don't take the initiative, I won't like you anymore. Someone who doesn't like me, why should I be my all.
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There are the following ways to let the boy know that you have a good impression of him:
Take the initiative to chat with him: Communicate with him through a variety of social** or face-to-face chats to let him know that you are interested in him.
Give him a little hint: You can send him some ambiguous messages or small gifts to let him know that you have a crush on him.
Let him see your attention: You can show your attention to him by being around him, for example, by paying attention to his life luck, work, or hobbies.
Adjust your words and deeds: You can adjust your words and deeds appropriately to show a more positive, confident and attractive side, so that he will have a good impression of you.
It is important to respect the wishes of the other person and not force the other person to accept your favor or inadvertently cause discomfort or embarrassment to the other person.
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