Why would the old peasant think that he would rather marry a little girl than marry a second marrie

Because everyone still has thoughts about divorced women. I'll still mind.

Because the people in the old countryside really have prejudices against these women who marry for the second time.

Because the countryside feels that divorced women are not clean, and it will bring something bad.

I think it's because they think that the reputation of the second-married woman is not good.

When people talk about a second marriage, there are always several aspects that are discussed.

First, a woman who can manage her own family, become noble, and divorce because of a man's deception or bad habits. In short, this kind of woman is good, and most of the responsibility for divorce lies with the man.

The second is those women who are deceived by men's rhetoric and get married. After getting married, they find that their husbands can't give themselves happiness at all. If they are too poor, it will be difficult for the men in the village to get married, because the men are too poor for the women to take the initiative to do it. I have no comment on that.

Third, there are women who are lazy and short-tempered. They can't say what they say or do. They also have a lot of chores.

This kind of woman will not divorce because her man is incompetent, and a man with a little skill will not tolerate it. Of course, you can't speak too absolutely. Marriage is managed by two people.

The divorce must be the responsibility of both parties. No matter how someone chooses to divorce or remarry, it is not a crime, because the law does not stipulate such a provision. If you are morally speaking, there is no saying that you can't remarry or remarry.

Because as long as both parties are willing, getting married and divorced several times is not a problem.

In general, girls over the age of 27 are older young women. Whether you admit it or not,China is a family-oriented country。Being single now is a failure.

It's a leftover girl, don't say you don't want to get married, or don't want to get married or something. Who wouldn't want to marry a good man, but why stay at home? As a woman, we can only break through in one fell swoop if we understand ourselves and ourselves!

There are many divorced women now, and after a woman divorces, men are generally reluctant to marry, unless they are helpless, old or forced to marry, they will marry some women who are married for the second time.

1. Traditional thinking is at work.

In fact, in the hearts of many men, traditional thinking occupies a particularly serious position, and what they want to marry must be a woman who has never been married, and some men will have some special complexes. After a woman divorces, they think that these women will naturally depreciate, so they are not willing to marry a second-married woman at all, and if they marry some second-married women, they will think that there are all kinds of troubles, so some men would rather marry some older leftover women than marry some second-married women.

These are because of some men's traditional thoughts, in fact, this kind of thinking should have been eliminated a long time ago, what era is it now, society is developing, your personal thoughts should also follow the society forward, women whether they are married or not, they should be respected and loved by others, and they will not increase or depreciate because they have been married, or they have not been married. I hope women know this in their hearts.

2. A woman who is married for the second time may not have forgotten her ex-husband.

Although some women are divorced, they always have the shadow of their ex-husband in their hearts, and they have always loved their ex-husbands in their hearts, and some men are unwilling to marry such a second-married woman, because such a woman's mind is not on her body at all, and if she marries him, she will not be happy at all.

Men are relatively smart, when they marry their other half, they all want to marry a woman who loves them wholeheartedly, if this woman still loves another person in her heart, then after marrying her, their lives will not be happy at all, so he will not be stupid enough to marry such a woman.

3. Second-married women are generally more selfish.

Some second-married women, because they got married once, understand some truths, and when they experience the next marriage, they become smarter, and they also become very selfish, thinking about everything for themselves, and will focus on their children.

Because it is a second-married couple, it is impossible to work together on trivial matters in the family, and the second-married woman always thinks about how to live a better life in the second half of her life, how to seek greater benefits for her children, and the reason for the second marriage is actually to find a support for the second half of her life. This also determines that her motives or purposes in the future will be considered for herself, and it is impossible to think about this family at all.

It is precisely because a man understands this truth that he is reluctant to marry some second-married women, because he knows that if he marries such a woman, it will be difficult for two people to go to the end, and it will only bring endless harm to himself.

Divorce is now one of the most common topics, with the rise of divorce year by year, divorce seems to have become a commonplace thing, so the ensuing divorced men and women are also a large group. No one gets married for divorce, but when they have to divorce in the end, many people are helpless. There is an imbalance between men and women, and there are many unmarried men, but even if they don't find a partner, many of them are still reluctant to marry divorced women.

In fact, in reality, this phenomenon cannot escape the following reasons.

1. Face issues.

Many people do not accept second-married women mainly because they feel that divorced women are second-hand, and they feel faceless after marrying, and the people around them will always talk behind their backs, followed by pressure from their parents. As parents of the generation, they are usually more traditional and have more concerns about second-married women. In their eyes, second-married women are usually less valuable, who would be willing to marry a second-married child who has worked hard to "discredit" the family, unless their sons are not in good condition, and they are very old and can't find a partner, otherwise it is rare to meet an old man who is very tolerant of his son marrying a second-married woman.

Some men themselves hold this view, so they would rather marry an older leftover woman than a second-married woman.

2. A woman who is married for the second time is more realistic and more difficult to make friends.

A woman who has had a marriage, after the marriage fails, the longing for love has been worn out, replaced by material, reality, and money, especially if you have children, it is inevitable that your selfishness will be heavier. Some women would rather suffer a little for themselves, but they will definitely think about their children, so as the saying goes, "a halfway husband and wife will always be a thief". Because of selfishness, it is inevitable to look at things biasedly, and always feel that the other party will be like this, so they tend to be wary and hateful of each other in marriage.

Looking at things from the material point of view, this is one of the main reasons why many men are reluctant to find a second-married woman.

3. The relationship between a woman in a second marriage is complicated.

The reason why some men are reluctant to marry a second-married woman is because they are afraid that after the woman marries home, she will always be entangled with her ex-husband. Unlike first-married women, second-married women have ex-husbands, and some have children, as the saying goes, "a husband and wife for a hundred days", and after the breakdown of some marriages, one of them may regret it and want to redeem it. In this case, it will be difficult for a man who has married a second married woman to accept the disconnection between the two people, after all, many situations can occur after marriage, and men will carefully consider the possibility of these situations before marriage.

In real life, second-married women are often labeled by some people, even if they are still young and beautiful, but in the eyes of these people, they have been greatly devalued. In this case, Yanyu is greatly opposed, because a woman who has not been married may not be able to go to the end with you. There are many reasons for the failure of marriage, and many divorced women are also very good, and her character cannot be denied just because she has been divorced.

So don't judge a person by divorce, everyone has their own most unbearable and painful experience, which is not their own wish, but everything will pass.

Flip goods, make money with first-hand goods compared to second-hand goods, and you must not want to wear old clothes if you have new clothes. The principle is the same, the words are not rough.

Divorced women have been emotionally traumatized, for the second marriage, talking about feelings is very extravagant, remarriage is nothing more than to find a reliance, to put it bluntly is reality, to put it mildly, it is material, men with slightly better conditions will not focus on this kind of people, so some remarried women regret the hasty divorce at the beginning.

Divorced women, except for a few people, they themselves have a certain reason, either a bad temper, an eccentric personality, or greedy for pleasure, so the receiver should consider your parrying ability, maybe she is a pit, making you physically and mentally exhausted.

Divorced women are financially dragged down, that is, children, although the children are innocent, but the children are the obstacles in the second marriage, and only blood relations are an important component of a family.

There are also women's ex-husbands, or men's ex-wives, because of the problem of children, they will be more or less connected, and this kind of relationship will also affect the family life after remarriage, and emotional matters are sensitive and delicate.

Therefore, if you are married and have children, and you are not to the point where you have to divorce, then it is easy not to divorce. The best time to choose marriage is only once, just like taking an exam in the examination room, answering questions within a limited time, you must hand in the paper at the point, wrong is wrong, right is right, no matter how you alter it, it is impossible to go back to the beginning. To be honest, some of the second-married couples around me are basically making do.

There are many boys who just like pure girls, and second-married women involve a lot of things, which is more complicated!

If you can marry the first marriage, why should you marry the second marriage? The second marriage is not as good as the first marriage.

For older youth in rural areas, finding a target is already a problem on the table. In fact, the difficulty of marrying a wife is mainly due to the bride price. For women, the bride price is too high, the ratio of men to women is unbalanced, and the standards of girls continue to raise after seeing the world.

In general, this is not a single aspect, but a complex cumulative cause.

Because these "bachelors" think that the little girl is very demanding, but in the face of "the difficulty of finding a wife", they find a good group to find a daughter-in-law, which is the woman who is "married for the second time". "Bachelors" believe that married people understand the value of family better and are more considerate and caring for family. However, older people in rural areas feel that they would rather pay more to marry a little girl than a woman in a "second marriage".

They believe that second marriages, regardless of gender, are disagreed with their ex and are not to be trusted. If there are children, then there is a continuous connection. The worst of the exes seems to be drifting awayAnd the ex's beautiful moments for himself will always remain.

Some people say that this is because human nature is too "cheap", but in fact, it may be said that this is an eternal concern in the heart.

While the material conditions in the countryside are getting better, the demands of girls are increasingly in line with those in the cities. Clearly, traditional farming methods are no longer sustaining family livelihoods. Many farmers choose to work in cities to support themselves. This has made the "hollowing out" of the countryside more and more serious.

The first sentence of this sentence, "a man pities his wife", refers to the fact that after a peaceful divorce between a husband and a wife, or after the unfortunate death of a wife, the South, for the sake of family integrity, often rebuilds a new family and finds a partner for himself. Therefore, in the traditional consciousness, men are the pillars of the family. Much of the family's livelihood depends on the person's efforts.

After ending his previous marriage, he will devote himself to a new family and love his wife even more. He was also able to tolerate many of his wife's shortcomings. In fact, his only purpose is to make life harmonious and beautiful.

Because if the reputation of marrying a second-married girl is not good, it will be better to marry a little girl.

The landlord didn't learn the language well, so he would rather -......Also ......Misnomer! There are little girls. Who will take the second marriage!!

Because the little girl is still relatively good-looking, and she is also very young, naturally they are very willing.

Because in fact, women who are married for the second time have more demanding requirements.

This should be because people in rural areas are very concerned about the aspect of second marriage.

Getting married is not an easy task for rural people. Not to mention the first marriage, the second marriage is already very good. Now there is a serious imbalance in the ratio of men and women, and many young men in their early thirties do not have wives, not to mention that the family has no money, and the family can still do it, even if it is 100,000 or 200,000!

1.There is an uneven ratio of males to females, with more males than females. In order to find a daughter-in-law, the boy and his parents worked hard.

Now there are fewer girls in rural areas, and many people stay in the city directly after graduating from college, so many single young people in rural areas have become bachelors! Most children in rural areas go to school or work, especially girls, who are generally reluctant to return after leaving the countryside. The employment and education environment in big cities is much better than in rural areas, while boys are very different.

The boys also have the responsibility of passing on the family lineage, as well as their parents and elders. In general, they do not go far and can only stay in their homeland.

2.Although the living standards of many peasants are now better, and many people can earn tens of thousands of yuan a year by going out to work, it is still very difficult to spend hundreds of thousands of yuan at once. Nowadays, rural people are very open-minded, and many people don't think that getting married is a very shameful thing, so many young couples will think of divorce when they are unhappy.

Some even divorced after a few months of marriage, and some went out to work to separate the two. There are also many people who cheat. In short, divorce is easy, and finding a man is not worried!

3.Without rural resources, farming can only provide food and clothing, especially in mountainous areas, where transportation is inconvenient and remote, and no woman is willing to marry in mountainous areas. The reality for women today is that there are high requirements for marriage, and if you have money, it is better to have a house in the county seat.

Think about how many young people in the countryside don't have good fathers and how many young people have money. Moreover, the bride price is very high, and you have to borrow money to get married. It's hard to marry a daughter-in-law.

Many people will never be able to marry a daughter-in-law in their lifetime and will be poor all their lives. Women are different, they have a wide range of options, and they begin to choose good conditions.

There are many boys who have dropped out of school and have not had a stable job. Some people's family conditions are not very good. They don't mind if they find a second marriage or even have children.

There is an imbalance between men and women in rural areas, so relatively speaking, even if a woman is divorced, it is easy to find a partner in the countryside.