What should I do if I don t get along with the people in the dormitory?

I have very little contact with the people in the dormitory, as if I am from two worlds with them. I'm often not in the dormitory, but I don't have conflicts with them, and my friends can't be enemies, hehe. Everyone has their own circle of contacts, which is determined by personality.

Since I don't like to be with them, I play with the people I like, so I often go to the neighbor's bedroom to play, and I have a good relationship with them. I don't like to be submissive, so I'm still going to be myself. If you divert your attention a little more, you won't pay so much attention to them, and you won't care much about these things after a long time.

Don't always let unworthy people dictate your thoughts, we have to live our own lives and styles. (Due to time constraints, I won't say much, you can add me as a friend to ask, if you have any doubts, you can ask me, and I will tell you in detail).

I'm in junior high school now because of some things and my roommates have conflicts, but they take advantage of my absence in the dormitory to talk bad about me, when the teacher asks, they still put all the fault on me, and always say that I have a big lady temper, they say as if they don't have the same, just because of some small contradictions, they feel that all the fault is on me, they stay up late at night to look at their mobile phones, the second day is very sleepy, want to sleep to tell the teacher that I have been arguing that they can't sleep at night, and they will be sleepy during the day, Don't they feel guilty when they say such things? Behind his back, he said that he was unhappy and didn't dare to tell me, look at me who was unhappy, did I recruit them to provoke them? It's really bad luck to meet this kind of roommate.

There is a fake face there every day, you are good to me, I am good to you, and behind my back I say which one is not good and which one is not good. Saying that person is not good behind your back, don't you feel disgusting when you talk to her head-on and have a happy chat? Being there with a mask all day long, I look at me with disgust.

In the past, I only knew that I had a good relationship in the dormitory and came to chat with me, but now I have a conflict with you, so I only know how I am doing, which is really disgusting. When I met this kind of roommate, I would have wanted to stay out for a long time, and it wasn't because of the distance from home, otherwise I wouldn't have tossed with them here, and I really could vomit out their overnight meals when I saw them one day. Originally, the food and vegetables were fragrant, but I couldn't eat it when I saw your fake faces.

I really don't know if you will feel disgusted when you go out of society and think about what you have done in the future.

Summary. 1.First of all, we must examine our children correctly and objectively, and accurately understand the child's personality characteristics.

Different personalities will bring different partners to the child. 2.Parents should communicate more with their children and talk to them about what is happening in school, so as to relieve the tension of their children's school life, and also let their children actively share themselves and gradually become willing to communicate.

3.Parents should give their children confidence and not let their children be weak and bullied. Also teach the right perspective.

4.The right way to communicate is an effective way to foster good student relationships. Parents should let their children learn to empathize and understand the personality and emotions of their classmates.

You should also be a positive role model, such as behaving in front of your children. 5.Tell your child that there are not many friends, and that you can talk and play; You can't guarantee that everyone will like you.

Moreover, let the children cherish the classmates when they were classmates.

The child goes to college and fights over changing dorms. How to teach your child how to deal with problems. Relationships with classmates.

1.First of all, we must examine our children correctly and objectively, and accurately understand the child's personality characteristics. Different personalities will bring different partners to the child.

2.Parents should communicate with their children and talk to them about what is happening in school, so as to relieve the tension of their children's school life, and also let their children actively share themselves and gradually become willing to communicate. 3.

Parents should give their children confidence and not let their children be weak and bullied. It is also necessary to teach the right point of view. 4.

The right way to communicate is an effective way to foster good student relationships. Parents should let their children learn to empathize and understand the personality and emotions of their classmates. You should also be a positive role model, such as behaving in front of your children.

5.Tell your child that there are not many friends, and that you can talk and play; You can't guarantee that everybody will like you. Moreover, let the children cherish the classmates when they were classmates.

Basically, it is the one who has just sent these articles, and the child is relatively young and can only be used to guide the potato, and the tough measures are useless, and it is likely to backfire.

Some children will slowly learn to get along with other people as they get older, so parents should keep a normal mind and not put pressure on their children.

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The three views are different, and there is no need to force them. College roommates are just roommates, but they don't necessarily make great friends. If you get along, you can deepen your friendship, and if you don't, you can be okay, and there's nothing wrong with that.

It is recommended that you enrich your life more, you can go to the library to read more books, and find like-minded friends; You can also join the clubs you are interested in to enrich your extracurricular life. These are all wonderful college life. Don't let this little thing affect your mood.

Life is your own, there is no need to envy others.

When communicating with roommates, you must pay attention to communication skills, do not hurt his self-esteem, and the most important thing is to be kind, not to be angry and throw your face. For example, after the lights go out in the dormitory, some roommates are still watching movies with loud noises, you don't go up directly and have a conflict with Muchang, like a quarrel, you can tell him softly that the lights are out and others are going to sleep, let him put on headphones, so the effect will be much better.

For example, after the lights go out in the dormitory, a classmate is sleeping, and a roommate is still watching a movie outside under the bed, and the short-tempered classmate may directly say, "Your voice is quieter, and you are noisy to death." As a result, everyone guessed, how could the roommate who watched the movie stand it, and said directly, when you were like this before, did I say about you.

In fact, the roommate who watched the movie knew that he was doing something wrong, but he just couldn't stand the attitude of that classmate. If that classmate can walk over and talk calmly and ask the classmate watching the movie to put on the headphones, the senior sister thinks the effect will be much better. Even if it's his fault, you must control your emotions and communicate calmly.

There is no such thing as a deep hatred between roommates, everyone takes a step back and becomes different, but first, you have to learn to communicate with people.

If we can endure these things and exercise our endurance, why don't we take this opportunity to train ourselves. There are a lot of things that are not good to be observed, and you will be much more open-minded from another angle. What you have experienced now may be an asset in the future, and many years from now, when you look back on it, maybe you will be grateful.

Sometimes we have to change the angle of things and learn to have fun in suffering.

1.College dorms are like opening a blind box, and you don't know what kind of people you're going to be with. This can be seen as a training camp before you officially go out into the world. You're going to grow up with several people and learn how to get along quickly when they're immature.

2.Focus on the weaknesses of human nature. Human nature has a lot of weaknesses, and everyone has some.

It's not that someone is bad, but human nature is **. For example, most people will be vain, jealous, and so on. You may have a good family, but if you spend lavishly, others will think you're showing off, even though you've lived that way before.

What seems normal to you may be another in the eyes of others. Again, there are grades and so on, it's all the same. Actually, this is normal.

You need to pay proper attention to the feelings of the people around you so that it doesn't hurt too much.

3.If you do have roommates who are difficult to get along with, don't push yourself. To put it bluntly, everyone happens to live together.

It's fate to be able to get along. But after all, there are differences between people. If they don't deal with each other, that's it.

If you push yourself too hard, think about it every day, and be overly sensitive, you will become more and more uncomfortable. Just jump out and don't take it too seriously.

4.The human heart is a bottomless pit. This is true not only for roommates, but for anyone.

You don't want to be kind to others, and others will treat you just as well. Don't try to be honest with everyone, but stick to the bottom line. Only by having the right expectations for people can you not let yourself be disappointed by expecting too much.

5.Try not to get involved in other people's emotional problems. For example, if your roommate comes to you to complain about relationship problems, and you are indignant, the person breaks up. As a result, the next day, the person gets back together, and you are embarrassed. Sometimes people get along with each other, and the other person just needs emotional value.

6.Do you know what you want to do in college? The most important thing is, of course, learning.

Learning includes not only classroom learning, but also various practices, professional areas of interest and so on. You should focus on how to improve your true abilities. Under this premise, nothing else is too big.

If you can be inclusive, you will be inclusive. Don't take it too seriously.

7.Spend more time with students who study hard and study hard. Learning here also includes a variety of learning outside of the classroom and major.

A student who usually actively participates in various practices is also studying hard. If you have such classmates in your dormitory, study together and influence each other. Avoid negative interactions with the dorm, such as not studying.

Otherwise, only when you enter the society will you know the truth of the world, and it will be difficult for people with poor learning ability and weak ability to be competitive.

Looking back now, among my roommates in college and graduate school, there are classmates who started my own business together, classmates who are doing well in major companies now, and classmates who are about to go public. Everyone has their own growth. Each classmate, at that time, may have their own personality.

Under one roof, there will inevitably be all kinds of stumbles, but looking back after many years, everyone is actually fine.

Keep a sincere heart, and of course, protect yourself appropriately, so that you can get along well with others.

So we should cherish our university life.