I want to know how to get my boyfriend back

After the breakup, many female compatriots want to get their boyfriends back, but the effect is not great, so how to get their boyfriends back? You can no longer numbly operate to recover, you take a wrong step, and it will be more difficult to recover. Then, many girls have doubts in their hearts again:

What should be done and what should not be done? Below, I will summarize the following misunderstandings that girls often step on when trying to win back their boyfriends!

One: play the family card.

From childhood to adulthood, many girls habitually develop a kind of dependence, and always like to tell their parents and family members about these things after being wronged and hurt, feeling that they can make decisions for themselves. Indeed, many times, when we can't make up our minds, it is right for us to ask our family members, but now, it is to deal with the emotional affairs of the two of you, these things are not decided by others, in addition, if you tell the other party's parents, it is invisibly equivalent to putting pressure on the other party, if the pressure intensity is greater, the other party will only become more and more disgusted with you.

Two: high-pressure way to threaten the other party.

In addition to the poor girl type, there is also a very extreme way to redeem your boyfriend after a breakup, they can't accept the fact of breaking up at all, thinking that you leave me and I'm sorry for me, for this reason, they will even threaten each other with death, and make all kinds of masochistic behaviors, this way is not only bad for recovery, but also bad for yourself, this method is not good for both parties, do you dare to use it again?

Different romances have different ways to redeem, and they must be transformed when they fully understand how to attract the object of redemption, so that they can have a significant effect. How do you really want to get your boyfriend back but don't know how to do it, you can ferry (Zhang Jiahong's bitter recovery history) to search for the knowledge in learning, I hope these methods can help you and save your lover as soon as possible.

Redemption requires skill, not casualness.

How should I get my boyfriend back?

1.Admit where the two of them are in the problem.

Like the subject, who has always refused to admit that the relationship is over, and tries his best to save the other party, this is counterproductive. Sometimes problems do happen, and continuing to avoid them will not help the relationship. If you want to save the relationship, you must first acknowledge the problems in the relationship, so that you can change and improve.

2.Disconnect, stop kneeling and licking the pattern.

After the subject broke up with his boyfriend, he kept begging the other party to get back together, and said that he would change. But he remained unmoved. Therefore, the first step to redemption is to stop this state of kneeling and licking, because this entanglement will not have a good impact on the outcome, but will only make the relationship worse and worse.

Why do you want to cut off the connection, because in the past, my impression of the boy has been fixed, which has caused a very bad impression. As you just said, continuing to contact doesn't help much, and continuing to do so will only make the relationship worse. At this time, the broken grip grinding IOT has two functions, the first is to dilute the poor impression you leave on the other party, and the second is to let both parties calm down, have a thinking process, and reflect on the shortcomings in the past relationship.

And during this period of disconnection, I should enrich my time and enrich my life. And at the same time, you should also improve your own shortcomings in the relationship.

3.Demonstrate high self-worth and stimulate boys' desire to compete.

In the past, due to personality, the subject has always been too clingy to each other, resulting in little attention to self-improvement. During this period of disconnection, you can improve your external and internal image, and show it on social **.

Including the possibility of redressing yourself and changing to a new image. In addition, you can also participate in more gatherings of friends, or participate in some sports such as running, or go on a trip, and take beautiful pictures of these moments of fulfilling life and post them on social platforms such as Moments.

On the inner side, read more books. Because reading is a ladder for people to become wise and temperamental, in the process, you can also cultivate and improve your emotional and emotional intelligence management skills.

When you go to a friend's party, you can take a picture with some people of the opposite sex, and keep a little distance when you are alone in the painting. The purpose of this is to make him jealous, and if after a lot of time he will think that you have let go of a new love. Boys often can't help but think of your past when they see such a **, and sometimes they feel sad.

Loving this thing is called appreciation in the early stage of love, and getting along in the late stage of love. The other party says that he doesn't love you anymore, it's nothing more than a problem getting along. The state of people's feelings towards people is always changing, today I may like it more because of one of your expressions and sentences, and tomorrow there will be other girls who appear to contrast their hearts, so what that person says at every moment only represents the state at that time.

So, when your boyfriend tells you that I don't love you anymore, you have to admit that the fact is that he doesn't love you at this moment.

To get your boyfriend back, you can consider the following methods:

Identify the problem: First of all, you need to reflect on your behavior, find out what caused the breakup, and take steps to solve the problem.

Give space: After a breakup, your boyfriend may need some time to calm down and think, don't be too urgent to ask the other person, and give the other person some space and time.

Improve yourself: In the process of getting your boyfriend back, you can improve your quality of life and image, making yourself more attractive and attractive.

Try to regret your face: If the time is right, you can try to meet your boyfriend and let the other person feel your change and charm.

Show love: In the process of getting back your boyfriend, you can express your love and concern through text messages, **, gifts, etc., but don't be too active and enthusiastic.

In short, it takes your own effort and patience to get your boyfriend back, and at the same time, you need to understand the feelings and needs of the other person, so that the other person can feel your love and care.

First: Try to stay sane.

People are always stupid when they are agitated. Including crying, making trouble, hanging each other, or threatening the other party. But this way is the most useless.

If you want to save a relationship, you must keep your sanity, meet the wise in a narrow way, and be able to clearly understand the contradictions between you, so that you can find a solution.

Second: know how to use your strengths.

What are the advantages of a woman? It's soft, it's weak. Men are masculine, and if women are equally strong, it's a tough one, and both sides lose.

Correspondingly, if a woman is weak, she can overcome her strength with softness. Don't think it's bad to show weakness, on the one hand, on the other hand, love, which side is more important, believe that you have a conclusion in your heart.

Third: Change yourself.

Why change yourself instead of the other person? Because only oneself can change oneself, and the other party can only influence the other party.

When you want to redeem your love, of course, it's better to change yourself. Think about it, if you were a man, would you like who you are now?

Fourth: Adjust the mode of getting along.

There will be conflicts, you will break up, it means that you have a problem with getting along, no matter what the reason for the previous breakup, as long as you can adjust your relationship to a state of peaceful coexistence now, then you are very likely to redeem him.

In love, there are many tests, and breakup and redemption is also one of them, only after experiencing the test of love, your love can go further.

You have to use your sincerity to get your boyfriend back. Treat him with all sincerity.

In love, girls are often emotional and rarely rational.

But smart women often don't pursue men's past, because the present and the future are what should be cherished. It's hard to keep a man whose heart may not be in you! And the things you have done may be deep in love for you, but for him, it may be too willful.

If he and his ex-girlfriend don't get back together, then you should pursue it again, give up the vexatious approach you used to, and pursue it with some reason. You can do so much for him, so change the way you love him, think more about him, be more rational. Caring from life is always yours.

You can get the approval of his family, as long as it doesn't make him feel overwhelmed or annoyed! Being vexatious will only make you irretrievable.

If he really doesn't love you, in my personal opinion, it's better to give up, sometimes giving up is also a kind of love, although it's difficult, but sometimes love can't be forced. Love is not all you have, if you are not his happiness, then it will always be another person's ......

Don't impose everything on him too much, he also has his own troubles, you have to understand him, since you chose him, why blame him for his poor conditions? If you care about the conditions, then you shouldn't choose to be with him. You have to learn to tolerate him, give him time for his problems, let him think about it, if he is already dead to you, you should let it go, if he still loves you, you have to try to change for him, don't be so willful, believe in him, understand him.

Move him with your true feelings, if you really love him, you must know how to give up, don't be embarrassed for him in some small things, men have a good face, take the initiative to admit his mistake and apologize.

Maybe you should think differently, maybe it's good to let go, and don't strangle yourself too hard.

You have given a lot for him.

He doesn't want you to be he's not conscientious.

For your practice! Every boy can't forgive! You're right not to let him contact your ex-girlfriend!

But you can't be idlers, and the family situation is not good! Everyone is dignified! If he loves you too!

I guess I'll hate you because of your nonsense! You could have kept him because his mom and dad liked you! Right now!

Not even a last chance! It's actually not that hard to let go! Loving him doesn't have to be together!

He's doing well! It's just anything! That's love!

Dizzy. I can't stand you even if I'm a girl. Women have to use their wisdom to win men's hearts. Don't take extreme ways, you will hate you even more so he will hate you. It's not that he doesn't love you now, but he hates you. Don't let men hate you. You're done.

You can't stand it if you're so willful! I guess you're out of play.

What you lost is not coming back, there is nothing to keep unless you do something wrong, you can't find the feeling you used to have, there are always pimples.

It's actually separated, and it doesn't feel any fun to redeem it anymore.