My boyfriend goes to work in another place and asks me to go too, what should I do?

It's for your own good.

Living together, many things are different from what you think, and it is easier to have conflicts when the distance is close.

For example, what if you are pregnant? What if you can't find a suitable job then? How to deal with the housework of two people? And so on, and many other thorny problems, you may have to face them at that time.

Most importantly, I don't advise you to follow him. Because you have made a large part of the concessions and sacrifices in order to maintain this feeling, then you must ask for him. For example, I love you more, take care of you more, and care for you.

If you can't restrain your desire to follow, let him meet your parents to settle the matter. It also reassures them, and more importantly, gives you peace of mind. I don't know if you've ever experienced that feeling of not being able to grasp everything.

Girl, really in the past, take care of yourself, the focus is still on yourself, as if you can live without him.

Make any choice to find a reason that is truly for yourself. Because without that fervent hope, the heart will not be deeply saddened that others are not what you imagined.

Happiness.

You have been with him for three years, the relationship is very good, and your father has agreed to get married, and the distance between the two places is not far and it takes 1 and a half hours by car. What's wrong with this, it must be to accompany him! You're a little too sentimental, so I'm afraid that the happiness in your hands will be lost that day.

Straight talk, don't mind!

Go on! Highly recommended to go! A long-distance relationship is a breakup that is very likely! Hurry up and follow up! If you don't want to break up, go quickly! I'm more direct! But many of my friends have broken up in long-distance relationships!

Many things are not worth it, they should not be worthwhile, only willing or not, stick to their hearts, I believe you must understand!

Dizzy, the train is only so far.

If he is worth your effort, face it bravely.

But protect yourself.

For example, for the purpose of getting married, I have met both parents.

I wish you happiness.

Your dad was right, do what your dad says.

It's better to go if you want.

If your boyfriend goes to work in another place, but the other party is unwilling to let you go with him, then the other party may feel that your ability is not enough, and he thinks that you may not be able to find a job after you go, so he doesn't want you to go.

His work in the field has not been completely stabilized, and if his food and clothing cannot be completely solved, he will definitely not drag his family with him. If you want to work in the same city as him, you also take the initiative to go to the other city's city and take the initiative to find a job by yourself. If you fall in love and break up, it is also a career plan for the future, and work and feelings are slightly separated.

My boyfriend went to work in another place, why didn't he take me with him? I also told him that I want to go with her, maybe you don't have a suitable job, she won't let you go, let you stay at home.

After graduation, you need to work with your boyfriend in two different cities, this relationship wants to be better maintained, the most important thing is to use a proper way to communicate with each other better, only if both parties know how to understand each other from the perspective of others, respect each other and help each other, then the relationship will be more stable, and everyone can make progress together.

Therefore, the most important point is to get along and communicate properly and amicably, and we must actively learn.

1.Learn to empathize.

When we all know how to empathize, our tolerance will be effectively improved, and the chat will become more pleasant and efficient.

2.Talk about topics that interest the other person.

When you communicate with others, you have to talk about topics that the other person is interested in, which is also the common language we often say, chatting with common topics is usually more pleasant, and the resulting sympathy will make people expect more communication from us.

3.Learn to praise others from the bottom of your heart.

Wise people must learn to praise others from the bottom of their hearts, and it can only be unwise to oppose others, even if you do not agree with other people's views, but it is best not to say it in public immediately, if it is not a very important thing, you can also not say it, learn to praise others from the heart, and the communication will be smoother and happier.

4.Learn to listen to others.

Everyone has the idea of expression, when you meet others who need to express the content, you can learn to listen, remember that when you learn to listen, you will become more and more wise, and will be liked by more and more people, pay attention to what others say, listen to others' words attentively, communication will become smoother, and we will know how to respect others.

5.In the conversation, approve before making suggestions.

When we have good suggestions, we must first recognize the other party's point of view before putting forward any reasonable suggestions, and use euphemistic suggestions to achieve better communication results, and communication will be smoother and more efficient.

It depends on how you want to develop in the future, if you decide to get married, and your boyfriend's job transfer this time is more promising, then you can follow him to live and work in that city.