Why is my boyfriend friend who has been with me for a year picky about my appearance!

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
45 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It may be that after watching for a long time and there is visual fatigue, you can change your hairstyle, or leave him for a while! See if he's still fussy?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Because time will allow you to expose too many shortcomings in front of him and downplay your strengths.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Maybe his friends don't think you look good. He felt faceless. Many reasons. You have to tactfully ask him to go ...

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It means that I am not satisfied with you and do not want to get along with you anymore.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    His feelings for you faded.

    Forgive me for being direct.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Maybe it's aesthetic fatigue.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Aesthetic fatigue, try a different hairstyle.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    What fatigue! Or maybe he doesn't love you anymore!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    People are also animals!!

    Liking the new and hating the old is the common nature of people!!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You will live your life without him.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's okay to be picky once in a while. But it's always wrong, that's not right, that is, he is very dissatisfied, and he wants to break up in his bones, but he hasn't made up his mind for the time being.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I wanted to be with this girl, but I just felt that the girl's dress taste didn't match me. If you feel that it is someone who has nothing to do with it in the future, then you don't bother to care.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Maybe he's just talking about it. Maybe you have a different sense of appreciation. There is also the possibility that he doesn't know how to socialize with girls.

    There are actually quite a few such boys. If his girlfriend has opinions and opinions about his dress and feels that he should be free and happy in this way. Just talk to him.

    I think he understands his girlfriend and should respect her.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Is it wrong for men to want to make their women more beautiful, men love face, if someone says: "Your girlfriend is so beautiful, she dresses very well for her" Do you think men are very face-saving.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    At first, it may be that she wants to improve, and often this is an excuse.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Don't think about it so much, he really doesn't know how to cherish and enjoy the beauty of love, what's there to be picky about, so just let him find a model to fall in love.

    Tell him so.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Look at the tone of his speech, whether it's a suggestive tone, a joking tone, or a tone that really dislikes and despises, if it's the first two, it doesn't matter, just adopt his opinion, if it's the third one...At least that's not what he's doing.

    Of course, it's best to communicate with him and ask him about it. A little shallow opinion, I hope it can help you, I wish you happiness!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Why do you like the Cold War? You shouldn't have bothered when you went out, think about it, when you and your sisters and colleagues go out, are you happy, will you remember to report to whom? Men have to hit ** when they are together, and they will be laughed at when they report to their girlfriends. You can only let him tell you in advance.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    This is normal, mainly because you care too much about him. A man is like a kite in his hand, if you hold it too tightly, the kite doesn't fly high, he feels depressed, if you put it too high, the kite string may break, it just flies away, so you have to relax a little when it's too low, and close the line when it's too high. You'll be much better off that way.

    Your boyfriend will value your relationship.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you don't quarrel, it means that you don't know each other well enough, dear, the best way to get along is for you to tolerate each other. No way, that's the reality.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If he really knows that he is wrong, and you have been dating for so long, and you give him a chance, he may repay you with a lifetime, because he will feel guilty, so he will love you even more in the future! Now that we've talked about marriage, you should have reached a stage, so don't give up easily...Think it through.

    Hope it helps.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Your fiancé, you can see that your status as a wife is unrivaled, but your boyfriend can't find the feeling in you or like to go out to steal food, it's not a matter of forgiving him, but how to stop him from happening again, is it your relationship or something missing? Calm down and think about your emotions and future, breaking up is not a good way to go.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I also think that it is not a question of forgiving him, but how to stop him from happening again, is there something missing in your relationship?

    Calm down and think about your emotions and your future.

    Most people nowadays like to have an affair on the Internet or want to keep a backup.

    Like you, I found a chat history between my boyfriend and a girl on the Internet, although he admitted that he was wrong, but I really couldn't let go of this matter, and I didn't dare to think what if I hadn't found out?

    Will we find her as a comfort when we are arguing?

    It's hard to build trust anymore.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Some things do have to be taken care of, but I don't think you can care too much, if you love him, you have to tolerate his little faults, try to let him know that he is wrong to do this on the premise of being with him, women can't be too hard, try to express your thoughts euphemistically, I think he will understand.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    In fact, there is no trust between you anymore, and a marriage without trust can't think of any benefits except for some financial compensation.

    Do you think it's a must-have knot?

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Women sometimes don't think of men too absolutely, men sometimes have ambiguous relationships with multiple girls, but he knows very well who is the most important in his heart, so that's it, you want a boy to have only you in his heart for the rest of his life, that's impossible, unless the man doesn't have that ability,

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    What do you mean by that? Do you want to be with your boyfriend's friends?

    If your boyfriend is critical of you, it means that you may not be the one he likes the most, and if he does, he will not find fault with you, and the rest will follow his heart.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Love needs to be pursued by himself, it doesn't matter who he is, whether he is poor or rich, good or bad, whether he is a man or a woman, if his friends also like you, it will be easy to do.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If you feel that you are suitable to be with whomever you want, you can be with whomever you want, and you don't have to worry about anything else.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Picky about you? He may be trying to change you into what he is happy with. Don't be sad and follow your feelings. Think about it well and don't let yourself regret it.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Unfortunately, you failed to impress him. Now you can only wish her happiness, wish her happiness. But you have to tell her that my love for you is still there. Come to me whenever you need my love.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Give up, look for another relationship, and find a girl who loves you is happiness.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    You also find a boyfriend to get revenge on her.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Impress her with your sincerity and influence her.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Water-based poplar, even if she is with you and marryed, she can't guarantee that she will be loyal to you, but it still depends on your own meaning, do you really love her? Does she love you? Or is it her test of you?

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Hey, brother, this kind of thing, you can confess to her again, tell her everything you have done for her in the past year, this may be an opportunity.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    See if she still has you in her heart, or if she really likes that boy, but if it's neither, then don't want this kind of superficial girl.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    If a girl doesn't like you, why bother fighting for it, she doesn't really care about you.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Well, I feel that your idea is right, if I were you, I would also think so, so it seems that he listens more to his family's opinions, tell you, you can't find a husband, you can't be too filial, you listen to the family, do you say he is looking for a wife, or is his family looking for a wife? Listen to everything at home, then what his parents did not do is right to you in his eyes, you are right in everything, he also thinks that it is wrong, and he will not be sad for you! Divide it, find someone who really loves yourself, how can there be a very formal job in your current job?

    Most of them are contractual!

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Break up, don't want such an assertive man. Even if you marry him, your in-laws will still be able to break up the two of you in the future.

    You have to work hard to make money, and only financially independent women can live a righteous life without relying on men.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    It's better to leave actively than to break up passively.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Such a boyfriend, why should you care too much about work, you can find it after work, and if your girlfriend is gone, it won't be a good essay topic.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Give up, the long pain is better than the short pain, the man is not as heartbroken as you, and it is not ruled out that he is dragging you, you have these thoughts, it means that you are a good girl, you are going to marry more than just a man, there must be a family behind the man, don't force it if it is not suitable, talk about it once, get together and disperse.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    It usually doesn't work well.

    If you're friends, would you like her to always talk about what's wrong with her boyfriend when you're together? Your heart was broken then.

    It's okay, the slow blow hits you and you will be numb, and you will give up later! Find someone who feels for you as soon as possible.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Dude: I understand you very well I am in the same situation as you now, and the woman I love also has a boyfriend, but I still confessed to her. It doesn't work well.

    If you really love her, it is recommended that you maintain a good relationship with her all the time. Don't break it. You wait for her, and when her relationship breaks down, it is your best chance, good things are grinding, don't be in a hurry to confess.

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