Why is there more and more divorce in society?

Marriages that lack love or do not grow in tandem are mostly divorced due to financial problems or major changes in life.

Social attitudes have changed. Nowadays, people's lives are becoming more and more exciting, and they feel that they can live a good life alone, and they have a certain financial ability, and it is not a big deal if they get divorced.

Some time ago, my friend told me that he was getting a divorce, and during this time, my good brother and his daughter-in-law were also getting a divorce.

People's desires are growing. When you are poor, you will work hard with each other. Once you are rich, you will be dissatisfied with the other party at this time and go to divorce.

The first is the policy, society, everyone thinks that divorce is a relatively normal thing. Second, many people are too casual about their feelings and get married without thinking about it.

Because modern people are more and more aware of the need to live for themselves, even if the previous people had an unhappy marriage, they were afraid of gossip and did not dare to mention divorce easily, society is progressing, people's thinking is also constantly improving, and they can better understand that happiness is their own business and has nothing to do with others.

The first is because there is a term for "divorce" in modern society, and in the past, it could only be that the man divorced the woman.

The second is because modern society no longer forbears after encountering problems, and it used to be the woman who adapted to the man.

The third is because there are many opportunities in modern society, if you were suspended before, you basically couldn't find it, but now it's okay, and soon it's going to be again.

Because there are more and more people who are unwilling to make do, there are still single women who can earn enough to support their children. It's also easier to remarry.

When you meet this third-married girl, she will definitely become a fourth-married Cai Jinhua.

The majority of ordinary people should have lived an ordinary life, but now they can't stand the ordinary life, so they have to go their separate ways to pursue the so-called good life.

Today's women are too realistic, and if a man is rich, he is his husband. If you don't have money, you're someone else's husband.

People's concepts are changing, social changes make people restless, in this materialistic open society, it is difficult to find people who can get along tacitly, everyone has their own personality.

As the standard of living improves, the requirements become higher and higher, so the divorce is high, and in other words, it is money

In the end, it's all selfishness.

Because the Internet makes people look down on people.

There is less sense of responsibility, more money, and they all live in comparison.

I don't know how to manage a marriage.

So if you go to divorce, you should usually manage your love with your heart to make your marriage last.

First, as the core members of the family, both husband and wife should first treat each other with sincerity and trust each other. The relationship between husband and wife is a new relationship of a big family, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and parent-child relationship are derived on this basis. Therefore, mutual trust between husband and wife is particularly important.

Second, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, there is a text saying "ten years of mother-in-law, ten years of daughter-in-law". Because of the differences in living background and family environment before entering this big family, their living habits will also be different, and stumbling and small frictions may also be inevitable. But as long as everyone trusts each other, I believe that they will understand each other and be considerate of each other.

Third, as a parent-child relationship, trust is also essential. Parents believe in their children, children trust their parents, and an atmosphere of positive interaction will slowly form.

Fourth, trust is a kind of hope, hoping to be treated sincerely by others, hoping to have some words secretly to someone, hoping that someone will help you when you are helpless, and hoping that someone will sincerely wish you when you are proud, which is the basis of all good feelings between people.

Fifth, trust is the foundation of getting along, people live together, mutual trust can come together. If you don't trust the doctor, then why go to the hospital. You don't trust your teacher, why should you learn culture from him?

How can a friend help you if they don't trust you. Your parents don't trust you, why should they give birth to you and raise you. Good feelings are limited and draftable, and the same is true of trust, which needs to be cultivated slowly and carefully.

There are many reasons for the increasing divorce rate in today's society, involving social, economic, cultural and other levels. Here are some of the main reasons:

1.Changes in the concept of marriage: With the progress and development of society, the traditional concept of marriage has been gradually challenged.

Modern people are paying more and more attention to personal happiness and freedom, and the expectations and requirements for marriage are also getting higher and higher. Divorce becomes an option when marriage fails to meet the needs and expectations of the individual.

2.Economic independence: As women's economic status increases, they have more autonomy in marriage. When things go wrong in their marriage, they have the ability to choose to leave and seek a better life.

3.Reduced social pressures: In the past, divorce could be subject to social and family pressures, but modern society is increasingly accepting of divorce. Divorce is no longer seen as a stigma, which makes it easier for people to resort to divorce when faced with marital problems.

4.Impact of the Information Age: The information age has made it easier for people to access a variety of information, including divorce cases. This makes it easier for some people to have the idea of divorce when faced with marital problems.

5.Lack of effective communication: The accelerated pace of life in modern society has led to less time spent communicating with their partners as people travel between work and home. Lack of effective communication can lead to increased misunderstandings and conflicts between couples, which can eventually lead to divorce.

6.Domestic violence and extramarital affairs: Issues such as domestic violence and extramarital affairs are significant causes of divorce. With the development of society, people's attention and tolerance to these problems have decreased, and divorce has become a means to solve these problems.

7.Legal protection and simplification of divorce procedures: Modern laws have become more and more perfect in protecting marital rights and interests, and divorce procedures have become more simplified. This makes it easier to get divorced, which increases the divorce rate.

To sum up, the increasing divorce rate in modern society is the result of a combination of factors. In order to reduce the divorce rate, we need to make efforts in various aspects such as the concept of marriage, family education, and the legal system, so as to achieve harmony and stability in the family and society.

Nowadays, there are all kinds of relationship and marital problems in society, including marital breakdown, extramarital affairs, singleness, etc. These questions reflect the complexity and pluralism of contemporary society. While these issues may cause some people to lose faith in love and marriage, we can also see that there are still many people who pursue and defend love and marriage.

Love and marriage are one of the basic human needs, with deep emotional and social significance, which can not only bring personal happiness and satisfaction, but also promote harmony and stability in the family and society. Just like anything, there are risks and challenges in love and marriage that need to be taken seriously.

Therefore, we can believe in the existence and value of love and marriage, and when facing various problems in reality, we can think rationally and deal with them, and gradually establish a healthy view of love and marriage, in order to achieve personal and social happiness and development.

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2.Mobile payment is convenient, support mobile phones, tablets, computers and social software WeChat friends use easy communication, you can also bank card transfer, online imitation Xiang shopping app is also more, ordering takeout is also convenient for online ordering, life purchase channels naturally have no worries, what to buy are electronic payment, it can be said that what to buy is only lack of money, you must be busy moving bricks every day, no heart to find.

3.The means of transportation are convenient, you can buy trains, planes, high-speed rail tickets on your mobile phone, it is more convenient to travel and work, you can enter the station by swiping your ID card, and you don't have to queue up to buy tickets, which can be said to have brought economy to first-tier cities, and women have also seen a lot of things.

4.Every year, the number of women receiving university education has risen significantly, receiving a lot of new knowledge is relatively wide, and they have more contact, upgrading to a bachelor's degree, studying for a master's degree, preparing for graduate school entrance examinations, and studying for a doctorate, as long as they study hard, hoping to find the other half of the similar academic qualifications. Many people with low academic qualifications are difficult to match, and they can only rely on money to have a chance to marry.

5.The most important point is that if you get married, the speed of earning money will never keep up with the increase in the price of buying a house, unless you are rich.

6.Women are mainly independent women with successful careers, and it is not too late to find high-quality men to marry again.

7.I am afraid that after marriage, the man will not work hard before marriage, and suddenly he will not be motivated, and the relationship between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be difficult to deal with, if he handles it well, there will be a lot of things that waste his career time behind, and he will be under pressure from all parties to urge him to have children, and if he does not give birth, he will be annoyed to death, and his work will be affected.

The summary is that the development of the Internet has developed relatively rapidly in recent years, mobile phones have been upgraded, and then mobile phones have spread the fastest information, and the number of educators has risen.

Everyone longs to have a sincere relationship, so this sincere relationship should have a standard, that is, it can develop for a long time. But in today's life, you can find that not only the breakup rate remains high, but also the divorce rate is getting higher and higher.

So what is the reason for this? In fact, there are no more than these three reasons.

In the past, information was not so developed, and the level of education of women was not as high as it is now, so it can be said that in the past, women's ability to earn money was much less than that of men. In the era of manual labor, women were congenitally disadvantaged, which led to their dependence on men.

At present, many highly educated and high-income women choose not to fall in love, not to get married, and to live their own lives, and this situation is becoming more and more common.

In China's traditional society, people pay attention to the beginning and the end, and guard him like jade. In the current society, people's concepts have undergone a very big change, in the past, things at home were broken, then we may want to repair it, but now it is directly replaced.

This situation is also very common in marriage, many times there is a problem between men and women, and the idea is not how to resolve it, but to divorce directly. It has to be said that it is in the current society that people's more and more indifferent attitudes towards divorce have led to the increase in the divorce rate.

We often say that in the past, the carriage and horse were very slow, and there was only enough time to love one person in a lifetime. At the moment, it can be said that the Internet is fast, you can fall in love with one person in one second, and you may fall in love with another person in the next second. It can be said that even if many couples enter the palace of marriage, then they may not love each other much.

Even after getting married, then they may still have some small calculations in their hearts, thinking about whether they can find a better home. This huge change in concept has also led to a sense of responsibility for both parties in the wind, which can be said to be very low, so that everyone will not work hard to manage the marriage, which will naturally lead to a high divorce rate.

Because many people have a fearful attitude towards marriage, some contradictions and conflicts occur, and they choose to divorce like a frightened bird.

Because people are becoming more and more independent, people feel that they can live well even if they are not with each other.

Because people are now more open-minded and divorce is accepted by more and more people, the divorce rate is getting higher and higher.

It is mainly caused by the asymmetry between social development and social ethical development.

In today's society, equality between men and women is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, but women hold their daughters to marry men cheaply, ask men to pay a lot of dowry, prepare a garage, and can't follow three or four virtues, that is, in the name of equality, give men a lot of housework, and justifiably ask men to earn much more than women, and give them to her, what is even more hateful is that many women still hide money in their parents' homes for the future. Some don't even know how to do housework or cook.

Men are stupid, but they don't guess that they can always suffer dumb losses. Men do all kinds of things when they resist, and it is the majority of women who file for divorce, and men also have tempers, and they are not used to getting divorced.

Some women say that if they earn no less than men, they will not be so angry if they are financially independent. This is also the reason why there are many divorces. As soon as a woman gained economic status, she thought that she wanted to abandon her previous traditions and be free.

It is a tradition for men to support their families, you don't want to be traditional to support your family together, when men occupy the position of the master, you have to do your best to support your family, and women don't have to support their families when their status improves? What logic, raising offspring is a shared responsibility of men and women. The fact that women's ideological progress lagged far behind the improvement of their economic status was the main reason.

If you want power, you have to take responsibility for the corresponding tasks, otherwise you will die alone and will not leave offspring, because you have violated the laws of nature.

This is an era of alternating old and new ideas, where men lose a certain amount of ground and still want to take full responsibility, and women get some resources but don't want to take any responsibility. In about 20 years, I think it will enter the stage where both men and women don't want to start a family, men will recognize their status and will not do their best to support their families, and women themselves will be selfish, let alone support their families. Everyone happily fell in love, and when they got tired of breaking up, they had no worries, and everyone was happy.