Personal emotional problems, do not discriminate, personal emotional problems if you are not clear

It's his problem, if he told you the truth of the matter at the beginning, would you still have such love for him? I believe that in that case you will choose to leave sensibly, or define it as friendship.

I think that feelings and marriage are sometimes two different things, but the order should not be messed up, it is necessary to stop the marriage first and then start another love, but not to start love, and stop the current marriage. Stop the marriage first, you can prepare for the next love more rationally, and you will have more experienced love. If another love is started before the marriage stops, it is a mistake and an irresponsibility to the current family.

Personal opinion) advises you to stop, although it is not easy (it is really not easy). You believe in love so much that if you choose to be with him, you will be haunted by your choice later (even if nothing happens in the future). Stop earlier and allow more time to heal.

It's not that "after this village, there will be no store", true love will still come quietly.

Then take some time to think about it, and make a decision as soon as possible, the longer it drags on, the more complicated things will be.

I hope you can get out of this shadow soon. Bless you.

Maybe he really loves you and really doesn't want to hurt you But the reality is cruel He's married You should be selfish and think about yourself A woman's youth is not long You should plan for yourself Since he can't give you the happiness you need, you can find happiness for yourself He loves himself more than he loves you Because true love is selfless I wish you happiness.

No one can doubt your true dedication to your feelings, there is just a difference between being worth it and not being worth it. If love is destined to bring pain, then this kind of love is a kind of bad love (poisonous love). It's not your fault that a man who has a wife is out there showing mercy everywhere.

If you don't want to be hurt, if you don't want youth to become nothing, if you don't want to live a miserable life, breaking up is too late, time is the best medicine, if you don't want to leave, then he must give you marriage, which is the only destination of love.

Perhaps, you don't need advice, maybe you just come here to vent your worries.

Life will go on.

Give it up! If it doesn't work out, even if he is willing to divorce you now, he thinks he will leave you for someone else. Maybe what you can't get is good, but there is a gap between reality and ideals.

Even if you get it now, you won't necessarily be happy in the future. You have so much to face. You can't live just for yourself.

Yes, you are right, everything is nothing! Unless he has actual actions, that is, divorce, does not care about giving up everything to be with you, and shows that he is determined to be with you, otherwise he is selfish and is harming you! What does he have to do with you now, right?

Break it off quickly, something will happen in a long time!

You're still young, turn around gorgeously, and leave in style.

You still have ideals, and you can work hard.

If this man really loves you, he will understand who is the most important.

Let him prove his words with practical actions, and you have to have confidence in yourself, first settle down, have the ability to support yourself, and then with or without him, let him understand that you can live well.

Bless you.

I believe you are a person with high IQ and low emotional intelligence.

When the interruption continues, you must be the last victim!

For women, realistic marriage is much higher than romantic love.

Since you are on the marriage network, it means that you are not small, and you are the one who wants to get married.

So, be realistic, you should think about your future life.

Completely cut off this relationship.

Learn to say no, and you can have a happy future!

It's hard to come across something like that!

In fact, what can others say, cause and effect are all created by themselves.

Fade out of his life, you've done it, but just needless interruptions can really achieve what you want?

Only by making their own positions clear, perhaps only time can give each other a clear head.

Now there are a lot of such phenomena, not because of confusion but because of the failure to let go of oneself. There is a classic saying: ...Alive, and happy. What else do you ask for, can you get it? A belief. Happiness, I seek.

Loving and being loved are all happiness, you are loving someone you shouldn't love. Be strong and get out of the whirlpool of love, and you will live better.

You're going to have some loyal listeners!

Then work hard to build a solid foundation for her and your future.

You say this girl has low self-esteem, but I don't think so. I think she is a good independent girl, she does not accept or reject you, she does not want to affect your mood, so please understand her good intentions. I also hope that you can work hard and get admitted to an ideal university, and when you have the ability to face everything, you will also wait for the happiness you want.

Isn't it what a real man should do to rely on and bear on the woman he loves?

Unless she doesn't like you, the shoulders will be wider and firmer if she does.

Keep moving forward.

Mature yourself and she'll see the change in you There's no one who doesn't want someone to take on things with, it's just that you're not that person.

You can put love in your heart, you can't say anything you like irresponsibly without the college entrance examination, have you considered that this will affect her studies? If she is interested in you and will be together after the college entrance examination, it is useless for you to worry about it now. Think more about her.

Separation is better.

Love does not have to stay with each other for life, but give the other person the most needed yearning, if you love a bird, it longs to fly, you should not put it in a cage, if you like an eagle, it longs for the sky, you should not cut off its wings, love him should let him live the life he wants to live and bless him.

If the two of you are really together, you still have to face family problems, the most important thing you should ask yourself is that harm is inevitable, and respect your own inner choice.

As long as you really love each other, why care about anything else, to be honest, children, families, and relatives can't replace your other half, why do you have to get married, that's a piece of paper

If you still love your husband and children, then you should give up on him, keep your love for him in your heart, and love your children! The child is innocent.

Never destroy the family on both sides, put the family first.

First, friendship is second.

I think it's better to change parents, as long as everyone is more generous.

It's easy to get into trouble if you test it.

Listen to whom, this is the most quarrelsome between husband and wife, we say that we are not free after marriage, most of it is because we can't make our own decisions in life. Husbands and wives have to decide things together, and then there will be quarrels.

The light flavor of cooking is also a matter of who listens.

The same is true for going to A or B.

So your question boils down to: who to listen to.

Men in the south have Jiangnan feelings, and they like gentle, bird-like, and obedient women in their bones, and he thinks that such a woman is the one who loves himself, is what he loves, and he is the husband, leading the family to happiness.

Women in the north are more straightforward, clean and neat, have strong hands-on ability, like a free and casual life, and are used to being independent, so they don't want to be a little woman under the little man in the south.

There is a natural contradiction here: no one listens to anyone.

What to do? I think the only way to resolve it is with love, with noble love. If two people love each other, then they naturally respect and be considerate of each other, not only will they naturally listen to each other, but even hope to meet each other's requirements.

The power of love is infinitely powerful, and people who really love each other will not have such a question of "who to listen to", but will try their best to be humble to each other.

Maybe you don't love very much yet, so there will be problems in every detail of life. Just like if people's qi and blood are smooth enough, then the human body will be healthy and unhindered, and if qi and blood are insufficient, problems can be seen everywhere.

Cultivating love also cultivates noble sentiments, so that both parties can learn to be humble, tolerant, accepting, accommodating, considerate and considerate. If the new becomes the new "if you want a heavy taste, I will give you a heavy taste", then the habit of "do you want a light taste or a light taste" will be formed. Life is a habit, humility cultivates humility, and snatching training is snatching merit.

Love solves all problems.

In fact, affection is to accommodate each other and be considerate. Because there are no two exactly the same people, no one is right or wrong, only the point of view is different, she doesn't accommodate you and you can't say that she doesn't love you, so everything is in yourself, for her is it worth it or not, if it's worth, I'm very sure that she will become your lifelong partner, then continue to insist, if you are shaken and feel that you are wronged, then end it immediately, even if you are reluctant to be together, there is always resentment in your heart, and this matter will become the fuse of all your contradictions in the future, no matter what, the most important thing is to make a decision immediately.

First of all, it is easy to understand: the man is willing to return to place B for the sake of the woman. Does it mean that he really cares? - I think so.

Naturally, when it comes to taste, although light eating is advocated now, you also have to take care of his opinion, and if it doesn't improve at all, of course it's your problem, right?

The important thing may be that the two people keep arguing. Some people say that there are no couples who don't quarrel in the world, and there is also a saying that couples who don't quarrel are not husband and wife. But it's not good to quarrel all the time, and to quarrel often; If you can't control your emotions, it will seriously affect the relationship between husband and wife.

So, quarrels are also purposeful.

Think about what you usually quarrel about? And for what is the uncontrollable quarrel?

And then think about it, how many problems have been solved by quarrels? Is there a good way to communicate - except for quarrels?

It's not terrible to quarrel, but it's terrible to not know what to quarrel for?

Happy to you. Let's talk about something big and empty:

In fact, to solve these problems, it depends on two points: 1. Whether you really love each other; 2. How much are you willing to pay for each other? And can really go.

Do. Note: How much does it cost? Is it true love? To understand these two points, it is not interesting to quarrel a little.

I think it's better to make sure of the relationship again, distance is not a problem, habits can be changed, if you care about each other, you won't be awkward because of these

Whether the sexual orientation is normal or abnormal, love is pure, but the person who happens to love is of the same gender as myself, I respect all true feelings and accept all homosexuality and heterosexuality! There is no discrimination!

None of you, everybody, or your own way of life, has no one else to say.

There will be true feelings, but in youth, it is easy to separate and accept the love of the opposite sex.

Don't, there are very few women left, leave us some way to live!

There are some people we will never understand, and we are not qualified to discriminate!

It's normal to be sympathetic, you don't care about other people's feelings.

How can you make China embarrassed by a bachelor who can't marry a wife?

You have a lot of ideas, I wish you happiness.

Falling in love with someone happens to be a woman.

As long as it is a true feeling, it is worth blessing.

It's good to like it, and live for yourself.

This is a TV series that I have watched a lot, and I have watched too many domestic TV series, I have watched people in one mode, and I have a routine to look at problems, and I emphasize that I don't care about the rest. Alas, everyone is blocked, and there will be more and more such landlords.

Landlord. Xiaosheng feels the same way as you. It's really annoying. I'm struggling with this too.