Personal feelings! Depressed! For personal emotional problems, ask for guidance from someone else!

Well, after reading your relationship, I feel that the most important thing between the two is that the words are not spoken, maybe she may also feel that you are not very active, maybe he doesn't know that you have paid a lot for her, I think as long as you really say it, she will understand you! Also, do you think she has changed, but in fact, it is difficult for people in this society to remain the same! Some people will become more reluctant to try before, others will become withdrawn, and so on!

But basically, when people come out to work, they will become mature! I hope you can understand each other.

Also, you'd better be concerned about her current situation, so that you can have common topics.

Finally, I hope you will reconcile with her!

Maybe love is a sad fairy tale

It is not painful to give up someone who loves you very much.

Giving up on someone you love very much, that's the pain.

Falling in love with someone who doesn't love you is more painful

Escaping is not necessarily avoiding.

Facing it, it is not necessarily the saddest.

Loneliness is not necessarily unhappy.

Get, not necessarily long.

Losing doesn't necessarily mean not having anymore.

It may be sad for some reason.

But you can find a reason to be happy

Love is nothing more than to be happy.

Two people can't be happy, it's better to be happy than one.

It is better to fulfill the happiness of two people than to fulfill the happiness of two people.

Love is a feeling that makes you feel happy even if you are in pain.

Love is a kind of experience, even if the heart is broken, it will feel sweet.

Love is an experience that feels beautiful even when broken.

Some losses are doomed.

Some fates will never come to fruition.

Loving someone doesn't necessarily mean having it.

However, I just can't erase the bits and pieces you left in my heart Forget your truth, forget your purity.

Forget your hot kisses, forget the memories of the past.

Forget yesterday's laughter, forget your voice and smile.

Forget your affectionate gaze, forget your sad teardrops.

Forget your melancholy affection, forget your conniving gaze.

I'm not alone, I'm lonely.

Quiet thoughts, lonely enjoyment.

Let go of the clouds in the sky and leave behind the vows

Love is a kind of longing, no matter when and where, when you can't see him or her, you will miss him and her, you will miss him and her!

Love is also a kind of worry, when something happens to him, you will be more anxious than anyone else!

Love is a kind of tolerance, you will tolerate him and all her shortcomings, and in your eyes he and she will always be perfect!

Love is a kind of memory, when you think of him and her doing cute, romantic things, you will unconsciously smirk, feel so sweet!

Do you feel it? If not, give up! Let's start over!

Before love begins, you can never imagine loving someone that way.

Before the love ends, you can never imagine that love will disappear.

Before love is forgotten, you can never imagine that such an unforgettable love will leave only a faint trace.

Before love starts again, you can never imagine that you can find that kind of love and happiness again, only for those who know how to cherish it.

I don't know how to cherish. Not deserved.

Some of the texts that I have copied all year round.

Hehe, I hope you're satisfied

Hehe, the same as us, but this year I went to Wuhan, we talked for 4 years, the first 3 years I was in Shenzhen, and Hangzhou, he studied in Wuhan, now he graduated, I went to Wuhan to find a job, although the money is less but very happy two people, so I hope you can also be happy, it is recommended that you go to Huizhou District, there is a job to find some, the most important thing is that you can be together again.

Ay. Sad thing. How did it come to this? I haven't been together for 4 years, and I'm sure you're both a little rusty, it's normal. Let's see it in a few days...

I've always been optimistic about long-distance relationships

If you want to stay together, you should talk about it

Don't speculate

I remember when the English teacher was talking about reading on the test paper.

Said an idiom.

Out of sight, out of mind.

Something like this can only be answered if you say it boldly and directly, and don't think about it yourself, maybe it turned out to be what you thought, maybe it didn't turn out that badly

Only by saying it well pick up courage Sometimes a long-term love is not necessarily long-lasting

Personal opinion is for reference only.

What you should know is that affection, that is, love, is a distance that produces distance, and if you are separated for too long, you can't stand loneliness for young people, so it's best for young people not to fall in love in a long-distance way. And emotional things are not what you give and you get.

As you can see from your description above, money is bothering you, and you still want to go out and earn money in your heart. There are two reasons for the involvement: 1 Your girlfriend wants to marry you. 2. Worried about the relationship with my father.

First of all, you have a house, but you just didn't deliver it on time. If your girlfriend doesn't care about this, doesn't care how much money you have now, and can accept your current situation from the heart, then marry her first. After getting married, it is much better for two people to struggle than for one person.

Of course, this is based on the premise that you also want to marry her. Don't use money as an excuse to say you can't do this, you can't do that.

Secondly, about the question of your father. Nowadays, people are bent on going abroad to make a lot of money, and it is not excluded that some really make a lot of money, but they have also paid the corresponding price. When you were very young, your father raised you alone, and you know and know more about what your father is like to you.

I think it's because your parents have different concepts of life and have chosen different attitudes and ways of life. If you really want to improve the living situation of your family, in fact, it is the same there, as long as you have this heart, you must be no worse than anyone else. If you get married, it is recommended to find a good job in China, or do business with your wife or something, which is much better than abroad.

Finally, I wonder why your mother has only let you go abroad until now. Let you out when you can afford to work on your own to earn money. Speaking from the bottom of my heart, I feel that it is not easy for your father, raising you and paying a lot, maybe I hope you can live a stable life by his side.

With you by his side, it has also been his spiritual pillar for so many years!

Of course, the final decision is still up to you, and I wish you a happy family!

You can get a marriage certificate and go out to work, promise your girlfriend to come back and make up the wedding for her, and then you tell your dad what you think in your heart, let him believe in you, you love him, and he will definitely come back.

It's a complicated question! I suggest that you marry your girlfriend and go abroad to work together, father's problem! You need to communicate with him so that he understands your difficulties. I believe that your father will understand you, after all, there are no parents who do not want their children to live well.

There's nothing to say, who pulled you up from below. Whoever you talk to, money, that's all you can earn. Hundreds of thousands in two or three years? Then everyone has gone abroad, after all, it is not difficult to go abroad now.

Since you haven't been in contact with him, and you don't know her personality and habits, how can you really like it, it's just a hazy good feeling.

In my opinion, the most important thing for a woman is to be loyal to her feelings. You've abandoned her before. If she really loves you, she will care a lot about the fact that you have abandoned her. Since she cares about this problem in the past, it means that she is still right.

Find an opportunity to introduce yourself to her generously (e.g., you're new and want to make more friends in your new unit...). If the girl is not very interested or the next time you meet again, they will not greet you or avoid you a little, then you just give up and don't tire yourself out. (FYI).

Take the initiative to find opportunities or ask others about ** or QQ