How parents can deal with their children s sexual curiosity

When the baby asks questions, we should patiently answer for him, and guide them correctly and in favor of the baby, the baby's curiosity is wide, and there will be a desire to learn if there is curiosity, rather than being afraid of instilling in the baby that is not a good idea, so blindly cover up, which will increase the baby's curiosity.

In the face of the baby's "sexual curiosity bureau fibrillation", parents can tell the baby some differences about gender at the appropriate age, and tell the baby what situations will be encountered in the process of development, and correctly guide Baotong to understand "sexual curiosity".

Parents should tell their children in life, and they should also tell their children some things clearly, so that children can get a good understanding so that they will not take detours.

Correct guidance, sometimes it is necessary to educate seriously, even if he is angry, most of it is because he is shy, but in fact, he listens to some of it.

1.Let children form gender identity from an early age.

When the child is young, parents can let the child have a preliminary understanding of their gender through different dressing, such as dressing the girl in a beautiful and bright dress, while the boy chooses some relatively dull colors, etc., so that the children know the difference between men and women from an early age.

It is also best to be accompanied by an elder of the same gender when bathing, and when the child is old enough to take a bath independently, the child should complete the bath independently.

2.Satisfy your child's curiosity.

Just like the above-mentioned child asked the mother the question "I am from **", if you just deceive the child in a perfunctory way, it will only suppress the child's curiosity about sex, and at the same time have a blind sense of mystery about sex, and the child who is too complicated cannot fully understand.

I remember that the famous parenting expert Yin Jianli once gave a perfect question on this issue: "After Mom and Dad got married, they wanted a baby, so they took a little bit from Mom and Dad and then kneaded them together and put them in Mom's belly, and the baby grew up in Mom Wangna's belly, so you will look like both Dad and Mom." ”

3.Guide your child to interact with the opposite sex.

Parents should clearly tell their children when they are young that they should not be touched by others, and if someone has touched their body, they must tell their mother.

I remember that there is a plot in the reality show "Where Are You Going, Dad": Wu Zun's daughter Neinei wore a coat with a sequin pattern on her chest, and if she rubbed it repeatedly from the navel to her chest, the pattern would change color.

Neinei's brother saw it and wanted to try it, but Nienie said, "You can't be a boy, you can't be a little mangosteen." "I have to praise the success of Wu Zun's sex education concept for children.

4.Sex education in adolescence.

Sex education for adolescents is more cautious than sex education in childhood. At this time, in addition to letting adolescent children recognize the law of their own physical changes, it is also necessary to cultivate children's multi-faceted hobbies to enrich their lives, so as to release their energy to work or sports activities.

In addition, children must avoid remote and desolate places when going out alone, and do not accept drinks or food from others when they go out. If you are convicted, remember to be brave and timely to ask your parents for help, and you must not hide it.

The purpose of sex education is to guide children to learn correct sexual knowledge and form a healthy sexual conscience and sexual morality. Family sex education often does not need to be lectured, so do not use the "preaching" mode, a good family sex education should be infiltrated and infected in the daily life of the Yanyan Hall, from the child's babbling period of clothing and posture, inappropriate language jokes, to the kindergarten male and female toilets separated, primary school about the opposite sex, about love strange words, and then to the hazy feelings in middle school. Little by little, guide the child to know how to protect himself.

When children grow up and enter the sensitive period of sex education, adults are often asked some questions about sex education. Many parents are often perfunctory because of embarrassment, or some parents feel that they are too professional and their children do not understand, and they are casually afraid of misleading their children, so they simply refuse. This is a good opportunity for sex education, parents can use some professional **, or picture books, etc., must not avoid answering.

If a child makes a big mistake because he or she can't get an answer from his parents and explores the answer on his own, he will regret it. Therefore, as a parent, the child should be given a reasonable body structure education from an early age, so that the child can understand more in life, and there will be no curiosity, and the child can grow better.