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It's very simple, you can also buy a house between you and his family, and of course ask their family to pay some money. In this way, in the future, it will only be your child's surname and your wife's surname, and nothing else.
In this world, who can guarantee that they can live in their hometown for the rest of their lives? ?
I think that as long as it is for the love of you and the people you love, no matter how much you give, you are also happy. Because you get what you want.
Even if you find a rich wife in the future, but it is not the person you really love, although you have no worries about food and clothing, you are not happy.
What happiness is – like unsweetened coffee, bitterness is also a pleasure.
One day when you and your rich wife see in the car the person you once really loved, and the person he loved in the rain with clothes to protect them from the rain, you understand what happiness is - this is not a movie.
Of course, there are also people who will change, and there are changes before and after marriage, because there are more people who pursue romance before marriage, and more people who pursue material life after marriage. It must be enough to be responsible for the other party before marriage, and even more responsible for the family after marriage.
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To be honest, after reading your narrative, I know what your girlfriend is like, but I still don't know what kind of person you are. I don't know how long you've been in love, and I don't know how much you love. I only know that she loves me, but she wants to go home and get married; You love her, but you're worried that you'll fall in love with someone else in the future.
I just want to say that if it is true love, you will grasp it, if it is a man, you have to be responsible, love is not loved, the important thing is the responsibility behind love, if you can bear it, then I believe that her family must be urging her to marry you quickly, not with others. If she is also really in love with you, I am sure she will still wait for you, but hopefully she will be able to make a clear judgment, love or not, wait or not. In short, come on brother, you can lose anything, but take responsibility.
Regardless of whether the previous one is yours or not, I would rather let others fail me, and I will not fail others, and men's love should be treated like this.
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You have your own way to go, if you can give up everything for her, you go with her, if you can't do it, then it's good to get together, and there is not necessarily only one fate in a person's life.
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Then you go through it first, and you can bring it back after you get married, and everything will be easy to do at that time.
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Then why can't you persevere, but time can dilute everything, and some people are better off in their memories.
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If you really love her, get her back.
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Actually, it's hard for me to say. It's good that I'm not like you.
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A person's life is all about fate, and everything is fate.
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The more people who care, the more they can't guess! Some things are unreluctant, if your girlfriend really loves you, why should you be afraid of losing her? If she loves you as much as you love her, she will definitely not leave you, don't worry!
Sometimes it's not that the other person doesn't care enough about you, it's that you care too much about the other person...We should look at everything a little bit, don't need to be too persistent, let your love go naturally!
Your girlfriend shouldn't be very old, 20 have, generally girls of this age like to play, if you can wait until she is mature, then you stick to your ideas, don't part with her, if you can't wait until she calms down, then it's better to let go, because you don't know when her heart will settle down, maybe a year or two, maybe five or six years, at that time you are also old, and feelings are easy to deteriorate, not to mention that you have only known each other for 20 days, time will change a lot of things......Good luck.
Then you can tell her, I can wait for you to graduate, and the most cruel way to treat your lover is not love and hate, not deception and betrayal, but love that gradually fades after extreme love. You can tell her this.
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Because you didn't promise her, you don't feel safe with such a person, if you love her, marry her.
Actually, you're all right, but you're not right, so why do you say that? Yes, it's because you already have the fact that you live together, so you feel that everyone is each other's, and the money doesn't matter, whoever doesn't take out the money just doesn't care about whom. It's not because I think your current status quo should not talk about marriage, and they don't live together with each other, they all have their own life circles, which will cause some things to be unknown to each other, if one party doesn't know your money plans and asks for help, it will cause conflicts, feel that you care about money, don't care about each other, and so on, these problems will come, I personally think that as long as you don't live together, money is still good for each other, don't mix together, there is a saying that is not good"Brothers settle accounts" means not to be unhappy because of money. >>>More