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Some friends said, "After three years and five years of marriage, the relationship between the couple is weak, the two are busy with work, busy with small friends, busy with life, and the communication between the couple is becoming less and less. Some words are as few as possible, and some words would rather hold Big Brother to chat, the Internet, and acting, rather than be good at communicating with the other half. So what can be done to regain the sweetness?

Start with the details and care about each other's every moveAs mentioned earlier, positive communication between husband and wife is the bond that strengthens each other's relationship. We try to understand how that positive pattern can affect the intimate relationship, and we try to understand that even if the couple is uncomfortable, they can respond positively to each other, and when the relationship gets better, they start to feel each other's love. There is a loving response, and even if the couple quarrels, the emotional tone of the quarrel is positive for two people.

But it is also important to understand that it is difficult to rebuild this bond when there is no active daily communication between husband and wife. At this time, the husband and wife must communicate with each other in detail.

In the process of getting along, looking for each other's advantagesIn the early days of marriage, the two love each other, easily accept each other's interests, thinking methods, and behavioral habits, and integrate them into the life and value system of their children, so that their children themselves have also grown. This feeling of growing together makes the relationship between the two more intimate.

However, if both parties have an understanding of the same tea, this state of mutual expansion and growth will stagnate accordingly. At this point, there are steps you can take to awaken the feeling of growing with the part-time worker. You don't know what kind of qualities and ideas the other person has.

Through the questions that you and the other person are interested in, and work with the other person** to understand the other person's thoughts and thinking methods.

When encountering conflicts, empathy, calmly dealing with each other, changing ideas, and aligning the mind are effective ways to resolve tensions, not only for intimate relationships, but also for other relationships. When the marriage is difficult, the relationship between the couple is weak, or the quarrels are increasing, do not develop negatively, act, try more, rebuild the positive bond of intimacy, and re-establish the relationship.

In the relationship, two people must communicate frequently, so as to solve each other's contradictions, and also to understand each other, tolerate each other, only such feelings will return to the original sweetness.

Two people have a good talk, open each other's hearts through communication, eliminate the mustard in their hearts, and let the feelings return to the past.

In life, two people are gentle with each other, and then they will often give each other some gifts, so that the relationship between the two people can be adjusted.

Personally, I think that if the relationship is weakened and always quarrels, and we want to return the relationship to the original sweetness, then we can do something that we have not done before, and find a pleasant atmosphere.

After the relationship fades, they will start arguing, and they can be separated for a while and then look at it again.

Some people think that if a couple quarrels a lot, it is likely to make the relationship between two people very weak, and in fact, not all couples will be like this. Because the reason why two people quarrel is because there is something that can be reconciled between the two parties, so through this quarrel, the relationship between the two people can become closer and closer. The quarrel is to get a solution to a problem, and after the quarrel the problem can be solved well, so there will be one less problem between two people, which will be so helpful to keep going.

And most couples will have a stronger relationship after every quarrel and reconciliation, because both parties will have emotions when they quarrel, but they will be closer to each other after they are reconciled, so this kind of quarrel is conducive to reconciling the relationship between the two parties. However, it should also be noted that not all people have to adjust their relationship through this kind of quarrel, after all, some couples usually do not quarrel, as long as they quarrel, something very serious does happen, and this kind of quarrel is emotional. <>

Arguing with emotions is a very serious quarrel, and this kind of quarrel can easily hurt the feelings between two people. This emotional damage is irreversible, and every argument can make two people feel exhausted, and over time it may lead to two people not wanting to be together. Therefore, it is uncertain whether a couple often quarrels with each other to make the relationship better or to make the relationship lighter, because the essential nature of such quarrels is different.

Frequent quarrels can help resolve conflicts between two people, but frequent quarrels may also make conflicts between two people explode faster, so how this quarrel will make the relationship become depends on how the two people quarrel. If two people care about each other very much, then there will be room for this kind of quarrel, and after the quarrel, the hearts of the two people will be closer. But if the feelings of two people for each other are consumed, then this kind of quarrel will only make the relationship bigger and bigger, and eventually they may break up.

Couples often quarrel will of course make the relationship fade, because two people often quarrel over some trivial things, in fact, it is easy to consume each other's feelings, and in the end, the two people will also embark on the road of breaking up.

It will make the relationship fade, because if you quarrel often, there will be a lot of topics missing between the two people, and the relationship will become weaker after there is no topic.

Couples often quarrel and weaken the relationship. Because if it's just an occasional little quarrel, it may only be an increase in feelings. On the contrary, if two people often quarrel, the relationship will become weaker, and they will quarrel because of a trivial matter in the future.

Of course, a frequent quarrel between couples will make the relationship fade, but different people will have different methods, and some people will quarrel more and more.

If you quarrel often, the feelings will definitely become bigger, and if you have resentment between each other, you can't release your heart if you stay in your heart, so the feelings will slowly disappear.

Yes, if you do this often, it will cause two people to understand each other less and less, and then it will also lead to less and less love between two people, and it is very likely that they will break up in the end.

Yes, a lot of fights between couples can make the relationship fade, so be sure to maintain it well, and the relationship between the two of you can add a little more fun.

Yes, if the quarrel is not dealt with well, there will be more and more conflicts, and everyone will feel very tired and not feel happy in this relationship.

The relationship is inexplicable, some people will break up because of quarrels, and some will fall in love because of quarrels. In the early stage of the relationship (that is, the sweet period), you will understand each other better because of the quarrel, and you will cherish the other party more because of the fear of losing, and the quarrel will increase the relationship!

Once the lovers quarrel, there will be a period of estrangement between the two, and one of them will even become extremely indifferent. At this time. It is necessary for one party, especially the man, to put the feelings of both parties first, and not completely negate the deep feelings that have been established because of the impulse of the moment.

Husband and wife live together, there are some small quarrels and small vacations are normal things, there is no husband and wife who do not quarrel, there is no husband and wife who do not have contradictions, if two people really respect each other as guests do not quarrel and do not contradict each other, then this relationship is also abnormal and difficult to last.

However, after a husband and wife quarrel, if the consequences of the quarrel are not properly handled, the relationship will also fade. After the husband and wife quarrel, one party has these four performances, and the relationship will naturally fade.

Performance 1: No apologies.

Even if there are times when you quarrel, you don't necessarily have to fight to the death, whoever is right and who is wrong wants to have a step down! But if the husband and wife quarrel without apologizing, if none of them bows their heads first, then this quarrel will be forever in the hearts of two people, becoming a hurdle that cannot be passed, and in the future years of life, it will come out from time to time to stalk you, so that both of them are uncomfortable.

Performance 2: Play a game after a quarrel and treat it as if nothing happened.

After being together for a long time, teeth and lips will collide with each other, let alone two people. After a husband and wife quarrel, if the man pretends that nothing happened, goes to play games, and goes out to eat and drink with friends, it means that the man has no pity for the woman at all. A man who argues with himself as if nothing has happened will not care about his wife, and he will not care if she will be sad or sad, it is really ruthless.

Performance 3: Make a change.

A couple often fights through quarrels, so that they can solve the problem of conflict resolution. The so-called contradictions cannot be resolved simply by quarrelling. If the problem is exposed through quarrels and is not resolved, neither party is willing to make changes for it, and the relationship between husband and wife will naturally fade.

Performance 4: Hit the child after a quarrel to vent.

Once they have children, many couples quarrel, and men will take out their anger at the children and scold the children. Such a man is not only small, but also too ruthless. You must know that when husband and wife quarrel, the child is innocent, and such beating and scolding the child will only leave a psychological shadow on the child.

Feelings want to last a long time, it is not enough to move one party alone, a lifetime to say long is not long, short is not short, learn to accommodate each other, when you are in a bad mood, I accommodate you, comfort you, mutual accommodation is the best way to manage feelings. Did you say so? Hope it helps.

Quarrels do not necessarily make the relationship fade, because in the process of your quarrel, you can understand each other more, and you can also talk about many problems that you usually can't ask in person at this time, so that the other party knows the reason for their anger, and the patience that is usually tolerated, so that both parties can understand their image and status in each other's minds, and improve in the future.

Actually, I also often talk to him.

Quarrel. Hehe.

Not generally noisy.

I quarrel every day for a little thing.

Hehe. It's annoying.

But. How to say it.

Noisy is noisy. But I still miss him very much.

Loved him a lot. Because I care about him.

So. I'm always angry.

Always quarrel over a little thing.

Mine he said to me.

We quarreled. It's because they care about each other too much.

Too nervous about each other.

If you don't care.

Words that don't love each other.

There's no need to argue.

Isn't it. But what about some lovers.

The way we care about each other is different for everyone.

Some noisy just care.

Nervous each other. Some.

There is no need to argue, it is a sign of love for the other person.

What about you. It depends on what the foundation of your relationship with him looks like.

If you still love him.

He loves your words too.

How noisy. After the quarrel, I still think about each other.

I felt my fault at first.

Still in love with him.

If not love him so much.

Like you said, feelings will change.

Because you didn't love him that strongly in the first place.

Got it? Hehe.

Don't know what I'm saying.

What do you think.

But I still hope that you can do what you want.

Everything must follow the heart.

That's it.

A small quarrel in 3 days, a big quarrel in 5 days.

Sooner or later, the relationship will gradually fade.

Why bother? Isn't it good for 2 people to take the time to communicate calmly?

Telling the other person what you really think in your heart is the solution, if this relationship is worth cherishing.

Two people will become dull after a long time at the banquet, and if they are quite familiar with each other, they will find that he is getting worse and worse, and there are many differences in life, it is best for the two of them to make changes together, understand each other, and deal with problems calmly.

When the relationship enters the quarrel period, the two parties must understand each other, and when they quarrel, they should not attack the bottom line of the high stool in the other party's heart, which can be a good change.

Both people should calm down, and don't rush to quarrel when they encounter things, they should take a step back first and resolve these contradictions calmly.

When two people want to quarrel, they should calm down and discuss some things peacefully, which will make the relationship more stable.

For this period, it is necessary to choose the right way, and the two people should communicate well to solve the problems of both parties.

You have to think that you regretted that you were together because of the special love between the two people, think more about each other's goodness, and then put yourself in each other's shoes and think about something, and slowly it will change your upright status quo.

Be more tolerant and considerate of the other party, and control your emotions when you quarrel, and don't say things that hurt the other party.

Problems should be dealt with positively, and macro defeat is not a cold war. Think more from the other person's point of view. In this way, you can get old and have a better dry holiday.

At this time, two people should understand each other, be considerate of each other, and must deal with problems calmly and not quarrel at every turn.

At the beginning of the relationship, everything is so fresh, and couples have the desire to explore, which seems very **But with the passage of time, the initial ** will slowly dissipate, which is the disadvantage of being in love for too long. So what should I do if the couple's relationship fades? I'll share a few ways to do it, let's take a look.

How love is sweeter

1. Be proactive

The relationship between couples has weakened, and many times it is because there is less communication, and they have been in love for too long, and they know each other too well, and they don't need to understand each other through communication. At this time, if you don't want your relationship to fade, then take the initiative to talk to the other person about topics that the other person is interested in, and then maintain communication between you.

2. Improve yourself

Improving yourself is useful no matter where it is, and if your previous relationship has faded, then improve yourself and make yourself better, so as to attract each other.

3. Always have a little romance

It doesn't have to be an anniversary or the other party's birthday to play romance, but to have a little romance from time to time, usually write love letters, go out together on weekends, etc., as long as you are careful and sincere, you will be moved by each other.

4. Kiss before going out

Kiss each other lightly before going out every time, so that love can be expressed in action, but a small action will seem very sweet. Hugs and kisses are direct expressions of a couple's love and are the most indicative of your love for her.

5. Travel to unfamiliar cities

In a strange city, you are strangers, and the environment is not familiar, at this time the other party can rely on you, which will deepen your relationship and make anonymous love more sweet.

6. Keep your curiosity about her

Keep your curiosity about your partner, let yourself know him a little more every day, everyone will have a different face on different occasions, he is different at work and leisure.

7. Integrate into his circle of friends

You love him, but also accept everything about him, including his friends, to reach out and integrate into his circle of friends, to become an integral part of his life.

8. Amplify each other's strengths

Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, don't just stare at each other's shortcomings in life, that will be very tiring, learn to magnify each other's strengths, and shortcomings can be slowly corrected.

9. Complain less

Don't always complain about the other person, if the other person really changes, maybe you still don't like it, don't always think about letting the other person do what you think, it will cause conflicts.

With the passage of time, it is normal for feelings to fade, after all, "old husbands and wives" feel that there is no need to do many things, but in fact, feelings still need to be maintained.