Accompany the child through the three years of junior high school Liu Chenglian and Chai Yibing, whi

In this cold winter, I was fortunate to read the book "Accompanying My Child Through Three Years of Junior High School" on the platform of parental help, which warmed my heart and felt strong positive energy. One of the chapters in the book, Love Children, Need to Adjust the Channel, made me feel deeply. Loving children is something that almost all parents are doing, but how to love children to feel and how to make children willing to accept them is a problem that we parents need to think about.

When what we think and do is exactly what the child needs, then the child's life can be nourished, the parent-child relationship will develop benignly, and the parents will follow the education that the child will follow; If what we do is what the child does not need, it may lead to a conflict in the parent-child relationship, and if the parent-child relationship is very bad, there will be no education. Therefore, when we have a conflict with our children, as parents, whether we should make concessions or our children should make concessions, and how to make concessions, it is really worth thinking about. How can we build a harmonious parent-child relationship?

As parents, we should do the following: Treat failure sensibly When I was in the first year of junior high school, I scored 79 points in the history exam for the first time, although I was also disappointed and even a little angry at the time. But I admonished myself:

Be sure not to explode! Because I know that he must be very sad in his heart, and at this time, if I lose my temper again, he will be more frustrated and will not do anything to solve the problem. So, I sat down at the study table with my child, took out the papers, and got serious, which points were lost because of sloppiness, and which ones were really because I couldn't.

As a parent, you should be concerned about your child's grades, but in the face of a momentary failure, you must not panic and be anxious more than your child, because parents' anxiety will seriously affect your child's mood. Respect your child for example, respect his interests and hobbies, respect his friends, respect his way of doing things, etc. Children like to play basketball, every week during the break there are always classmates ask him to play basketball for half a day, although the child is not to complete the homework in the case of going out activities, but I never ask to have to finish the homework before playing, because the children are more or less reported extracurricular classes, everyone can get together activities is not easy, so, let the children play together, not only can relax, but also exercise.

When it comes to extracurricular classes, we respect the child's wishes, and if the child feels that he needs to make up for it, we will try to find a suitable teacher for him. If the child resolutely does not sign up for the class, although our parents strongly want to go to the training class, we will explain the stakes to the child clearly and let the child make a choice. After carefully reading the book "Accompany the child through three years of junior high school", reflect on your own right and wrong, slowly improve, grow together with the child, and work hard to build a harmonious parent-child relationship and cultivate a positive and sunny teenager!

At the same time, there will be a variety of activities, such as art festivals, sports festivals, science and technology festivals, etc.

Once secretly read comic books or **, now secretly look at the phone.

In an article, you must pay attention to order, the article can not be incorrect, disorganized, the best way is to make an outline, have such an outline in your mind, and then describe it carefully. In the process of depiction, it should be realistic, and you can't write anything like "rooster lays eggs", otherwise it will be a joke. Also pay attention to punctuation, not messy punctuation, punctuation also has punctuation rules, pause when it should be paused, omit when it should be omitted.

You just have to remember that college is always the right path, and moving in this direction is a small thing. This is not a school, much less a diploma. Wait.

Today, we are no longer children who have played in the grass; Today, we are no longer elementary school students who read aloud "Moonlight in front of the bed"; Today we have said goodbye to childhood and moved towards youth. With a vision for the future, we came to the High School Affiliated to the National People's Congress and entered the first year of junior high school.

It's been a month since school started, and I have a certain understanding of the new environment. There are also many feelings in the face of the first year of junior high school.

When I was in the first year of junior high school, my first feeling was freshness. The campus is so clean and tidy, and it is full of trees; The teacher's lectures are so energetic and engaging; The students get along so well and happily; The modern library, audio-visual education center, Internet center and laboratories made me want to linger again. It's all very different from elementary school, and I find it very new and interesting.

In the first year of junior high school, the second feeling is the longing and yearning for the future. At the opening ceremony, we were excited to tie our good wishes to the balloon and release it into the blue sky. Everyone's wishes are varied, and some hope to be a home and promote China's tradition to the world; Some hope to be a journalist and let all mankind marvel at China's rapid development today; Some want to be a writer and let people hear the weak voices in the corners of society......Ideals can only be realized through action, and in the three years of junior high school, we will lay a solid foundation for the future and move towards our goals step by step.

It's the first year of junior high school, and the feeling of being nervous again. In secondary schools, especially excellent secondary schools, the competition for learning is quite fierce, and thus there is also a certain amount of pressure. If you don't pay attention to your grades, you will be at the back of the team, so you can't relax at all, and you have to be in a state of learning all the time.

We have to adapt to this intense learning atmosphere in order to achieve results in the three years of study.

It's the first year of junior high school, and I'm excited, expectant and nervous. But in any case, start from little by little, integrate into the new life, and let us face the first life of the new year with a high attitude.

Exercise more, make more friends with good morality, junior high school learning life is very hard, learning is not good or not, not in your intelligence but mainly depends on whether you have a tenacious will, only to learn as the center of always take every subject, every class, every minute and every second to learn things, actively face the things around you, cherish it, in order to more fully appreciate the beautiful bits and pieces of middle school life. At the same time, the teacher's criterion for distinguishing the good and bad of students is not the level of scores, but whether you are active and studious, persist for a long time, develop morally, intellectually and physically in an all-round way, and strive to be a good student with excellent moral character!