The difficult choices you face when you get married, what difficulties do you have after getting mar

Looking for a wife is to be smart and capable, the vase can only be a lover, a lazy and good-looking woman can only be tied to the rich, and then marry her money first look at your pocket! My wife is going to live for a lifetime, and I can't make do with it, I don't feel that I will break up in the end, if you really don't have a choice, it's best to choose the second, at least you will live a little chic in the future, if it's the first one, then you are ready to be an old scalper and get tired slowly! No matter what kind of person will have someone who understands to appreciate, that is, your best other half, but few can find their ideal other half, because people are not satisfied, as long as people have shortcomings, but the shortcomings are different, the key is how you look at it, what others say can only be used as a reference, and your own affairs still have to be decided by yourself.

Think about it.

Friend, don't be too picky about finding a wife, just look at the past. Don't be lazy. To the second! Listen to buddies, it's not important whether you give points or not! The important thing is that I've been through it too, hehe.

The second ··

Marriage is no longer about falling in love, but two people living together, looks are definitely not important, what matters is how you get along with each other and her character... Capable and able to endure hardships, it is reasonable to choose a wife

It's all up to you, but if we let you take this, you won't take that?

If you have to get married, you still tend to the second After all, living a life is not the same as falling in love, otherwise you won't have a good life in the future. . . It's annoying to death, not to mention that your first place is a little hypocritical, and you can't meet the conditions in a short time.

If you're not in a hurry, hehe, wait.

Dude, it's just two, I don't think it's good to find two, what's the big deal, the right one is the best.

1. Since I got married, I have also saved the cost of going out to eat often.

For example, I used to go out to dinner with my colleagues and friends, but now I have to go back to take care of the children because of family reasons, so I have to go back early every day, so I have to eat more often with my friends, so I have saved a lot in this aspect. I used to eat with my friends a lot before I got married, and I still lived more in this area, but now I can't do it for the sake of my family.

2. Like after getting married, I rarely go to play, at most I just go for a walk around.

For example, after getting married, I rarely go to travel and climb mountains. Less expensive to travel. Or go for a walk in a nearby park, or go for a walk in the countryside.

I rarely go on some tourist aspects, like I used to go every few weeks. I also have some appreciation of the scenery, but now that I have children, I have to take care of them every day, so I have to reduce the idea of going far away.

3. Like now, I usually reduce the number of people who go to haircuts and laugh at them.

For example, I used to often go outside to wash my hair, cut my hair, etc., which is also almost once a week, and since I got married, I learned to start cutting my hair at home, and never went outside to do hair or anything like that. This is also for the sake of saving a little bit on the family side. Everyone has different difficulties.

There are many reasons why people are hesitant to enter into marriage, some of which may include:

1.Concerns about marital responsibilities and commitments: Marriage is a long-term commitment that requires both partners to work together to maintain it. Many people worry about whether they are prepared and equipped enough to handle the responsibilities and challenges associated with marriage.

2.Family pressures: Many people are influenced by family expectations and pressures when choosing to get married, and they may feel unable to meet family expectations or be forced to choose a less suitable partner from their partners.

3.Stability: Many people want to make sure they've achieved their personal stability and goals before they get married. They may want to finish school, achieve their career goals, or establish their own independent lifestyle to better cope with the changes that come with getting married.

Whether bride price and dowry should be reciprocal is a highly controversial issue. The so-called bride price refers to the gift given by the groom to the bride's family, while the so-called dowry is a gift from the bride's family to the groom's family. In Chinese marriage culture, bride price and dowry have always been important and related matters.

However, there are many different views on whether bride price and dowry should be reciprocal.

Some believe that bride price and dowry should be matched according to the income and ability of both families, so that equality and justice can be achieved. This view is that this prevents a family from paying too much or too little, and does not make either party feel undignified.

However, there are also those who believe that the use of bride price and dowry as a necessity for marriage will make some people give up on marriage due to financial pressure. And overemphasizing the bride price and dowry is not important for a happy marriage, but can lead to anxiety, strife and overconsumption.

In summary, in any case, if we want to enter into a marriage, we need to seriously consider our own emotional state, future plans, personal development, and family situation. Of course, when choosing a partner, we should also pay more attention to whether the relationship and personality of the two people match and whether they can really support each other, rather than paying too much attention to superficial material things such as bride price and dowry.

In the modern society of "freedom of love and autonomy of marriage", marriage has become a problem for some people.

There is not only the problem of the law of fate itself, but also the problem of human factors.

The human factor refers to the fact that some people don't want to get married or miss the best time to get married for various reasons.

The law of fate means that it is difficult for him to get married because of his horoscope, good luck, passing years, and feng shui. This is the focus of our research.

The astrological signs, the great luck, the passing of the year, and the winds of the sun all show and predict the natural laws of fate. This is what we usually call fate, which refers to the chance or opportunity of life. Fate, combined with the human factor, constitutes a real life reverence.

Fate itself tells people the opportunity to get married, and the result of the human factor is to either seize the opportunity to get married or miss it.

However, some people have little or no chance of getting married because of their fate. Such people are inherently difficult to get married.

For example, female zodiac signs:

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The Lord was born in the month of Zi, and the day was a golden life, and the son was prosperous.

And it has been blowing and raining, and the tide is rising.

It is not easy to get married, of course, because there is a lot of water and there is no system, and it is difficult to stabilize the relationship.

Solution:1Ask God to live due south.

2.The love object is looking for someone born in the South.

3.Find someone born in the summer.

The solution is the human factor. That is, if there is something wrong with fate itself, it depends on the right efforts of man.

This requires us to first correctly understand the natural laws of fate itself, and then find suitable solutions according to the laws of fate.

No matter what kind of person has difficulty getting married, you can find the reason from the date of birth and solve the problem. But it's important to note that all solutions are inseparable from the right human effort. Trying to rely on feng shui or the power of ghosts and gods to resolve it is completely wishful thinking.

1. The cost of marriage is too high.

Now that I am married, the house and car are already standard. The first question when you go on a blind date is whether you have a room, not only the girl's request, but also the girl's parents, and of course, the matchmaker's request. The attitude of having a house and not having a house in the eyes of matchmakers is really completely different.

If you don't have a house, the matchmaker has always been me, and I don't have any good resources here, so I don't want to help you pay attention to it. When you have a room, the matchmaker immediately takes out a bunch of girl resources for you to choose, and if one doesn't work, arrange the next one.

But for young people, without the help of their families, there are a few people who can really afford to buy a house on their own. If you want to have a house and a car in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, you really can't work for a few years. In second-, third- and fourth-tier cities, it is also very difficult to buy a house or a car compared to the wages of young people.

In the face of the current high housing prices, I believe that many people, like me, have no hope of struggle, look at their balance and look at the ** of the house, and instantly feel the terrible gap between the rich and the poor. Of course, there are bride prices, wedding rings, banquets, etc., everything needs money, and in this era, no money is really suitable for anyone. The cost of getting married is too high.

2. There are too many requirements for marriage.

As I get older, I find it harder and harder to find a partner because of the more and more requirements I have. A series of requirements such as height, appearance, work, family situation, etc. It's basically impossible to really find satisfaction, and it's especially difficult to find someone who is about the same.

Marriage is different from love, in addition to your own requirements, there are also various requirements of your parents. If you want to get married, it becomes very realistic, not only considering whether you have a car and a house now, but also considering a series of issues such as supporting your family after marriage, providing for the elderly, raising children, and so on. Sometimes it's harder to get married if you think about it too much, it's better when you're young, it's good to fool a stupid person to get married, the older you get, the more you worry, and the harder it is to get off the single in the end.

3. It is difficult to find a marriage partner.

The older I get, the more difficult it is to find that most of the people I can know around me are married, and it becomes more and more difficult to find suitable and satisfactory people. I am usually busy with work and overtime, and my life trajectory is only one line between the company and my home. Basic blind date has become the only way to get rid of singles.

But every time a blind date is introduced, there are crooked melons and cracked dates, and many girls are ugly and have special requirements.

Basically, now on a blind date, as long as you are single, you will pull it out to meet, and cast a wide net looking forward to meeting a blind person who takes a fancy to me. But the cost of blind dates is also very high, eating and watching movies cost money, and many of them are not followed when they meet, and blind dates are also a lot of expenses for a year. I really feel that the older I get, it's too difficult to get off the list.

At the wedding ceremony, the host asked, "Who will do the housework in the future?" My husband replied first

But the fact is that after marriage, the husband almost does not touch the housework, and asks the help to take out the garbage, and he feels that he has lost the face of the man.

I was pampered by my parents since I was a child, so after marrying into the other party's family, I didn't know how to get along with the other party's family for a long time, in fact, getting along with the other party's family is a thing that requires a lot of wisdom, especially with my own mother-in-law.

After getting married, the sweetness naturally fades, and the biggest common goal of the two people is to earn money to buy a house and a car, succeed in their careers, and gain a foothold in this society, especially men.

I am a woman, first of all, I must know how to run a house, the expenses of the family, firewood, salt, oil, rice, sauce, vinegar, tea, children, and daily life ......You have to worry about everything, you can't spend money as much as you did before marriage, when one person ate enough for the whole family and was not hungry, now you have to take care of the overall situation, and focus on the family!

After years of worrying about this and that, I am almost all busy and working for my family, and I have no personal time for myself, and then my mother's house is not my own home, and my husband's family is not like my own home. The most realistic thing is that everyone is rich, they are relatives, and they have dealings, and if something happens, they will be like strangers, and their mentality will grow old all of a sudden.

After getting married, the firewood, rice, oil and salt, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, children's education, living habits, aesthetic fatigue, I may be exhausted in any aspect, and I feel that he is not as good as before.

Thrifty and diligent, respect her, love her, honor your parents, and her parents, love children, parents are not easy, and their own parents are not easy! Her parents weren't easy either! Pull each other so big!

There are too many problems to face, the biggest problem is that work and family cannot be balanced, home is the most important, but how to talk about home without a job, I don't know what to do.

It's all because of reality. In fact, this has been the case since ancient times, but the difference is that in the past, it was arranged to do so, so at that time, the daughter-in-law or the man did not worry about not being able to find it, but also because people today have never seriously experienced the feelings of the ancients. - Do you think the ancients were easy to find?

It's easy to find, and it won't be done for so many years. In fact, the poor people in the past could not find their daughter-in-law drops.

Now the so-called "conditions are equivalent" is actually the same in ancient times, and it is nothing more than a change of expression. Not only that, modern people also attach emotional factors, and this feelings are ever-changing, because people's thoughts and thinking change with time and space, and there is no normal person who remains unchanged. Therefore, the way of thinking and thinking is changing, and the feelings are also changing, and it is even more difficult to enter the marriage hall.

In addition, people nowadays are more concerned about the difficulties in life, and they are afraid that they will suffer losses, endure hardships, and be taken advantage of by others, and they are calculating all the time, I believe that some people are really paying, but those who respond sincerely and can adhere to the consistency are rare, which leads to modern Xianglin sister-in-law, and breeds a number of new things and new emotions - lovers, second mothers, and juniors (in fact, they are the "concubines" in ancient times), when the world is scolding this kind of woman, try to ask your husband if he doesn't give you his monthly salary, Unemployed or persecuted, what kind of woman will you end up being? There are many examples in life, so I won't mention it. To get back to the point, men, this world is a man's world after all, facts are facts, it is still men who can be famous in the business world, and there is only one queen in the political world from ancient times to the present, which is the best proof.

After women have been liberated for many years, a small number of women have already owned the world, so if a man wants to marry a woman, then you must first have your own world, and this world is enough to accommodate half of the sky for women.