What do you think about girls who don t want to work after getting married?

Girls who don't want to work after marriage are very selfish because they don't appreciate their boyfriend's hard work and are unwilling to bear the pressure for him.

This kind of girl may think about my own husband after getting married, and she is too lazy to work, and she just wants to be a good helper for her husband, and she is a girl who lacks independent thinking.

This kind of girl generally has no sense of independence, basically she is lazy and wants to rely on her husband to make money to support the family, and it is best for girls not to have such thoughts.

I don't really support this kind of girl's idea, because no matter what, I have to have a job of my own, so that I can have my own economy.

It is not bad to be an ideal housewife, you can help your husband share the troubles of life, and take care of her husband meticulously, so that her husband can go home every day and have food.

That kind of girl is particularly bad, no matter what kind of family you are in, or you meet such a husband, you must have your own career, or you must have some of your own economy.

These girls, they may be lazy, and they are used to the life of stretching out their hands for clothes and opening their mouths for food.

They don't want to work after they get married, maybe just to make their lives easier, and then go and become a stay-at-home wife and take care of their own family.

As for the problem of women not working after marriage, I think it is necessary to consider it from many aspects. If the family needs to be taken care of and the living conditions are relatively good, it is okay not to work if you want to. After all, there are different choices in life, everyone thinks differently, and there is no need for us to interfere.

If the family conditions are not good, and they are just lazy and do not want to work, it is a matter of conduct, and it is difficult for such people to evaluate with words.

There are many such cases in life, and even some people will regard marriage as their pursuit of not working. Some simply don't even take care of their families, and regard marriage as a basic guarantee of life.

1. Housewives are also a kind of working women, who do not work after marriage, and most of them choose to be housewives. I personally admire this kind of girl, they can put aside their ideals and jobs and devote themselves to the family, which in itself is a respectable thing. In addition, in my eyes, being a housewife is also a kind of work.

It is more difficult to clean the house and take care of the family at the same time than ordinary work.

Of course, such a choice depends on personal wishes, after all, everyone thinks differently. Some people think that girls should give full play to the value of their lives and prove themselves with their work. And some people think that taking care of the family is the embodiment of value.

The two views are different, and there is no right or wrong.

2. Marriage as a life guarantee There is also a situation in life that regards marriage as a guarantee. After graduating from university, there was a young girl in the unit where I interned, and she looked very young, only in her early twenties. She sees marriage as a transaction, giving birth to children for each other, and the other party has to take care of her whole life and ensure her own foundation in life.

For this situation, the friends around me dare not agree.

Marriage is the life of two people, and it is as it should be to take care of each other. But if marriage is regarded as a transaction, and having children is an exchange for the basis of life, it will go against the original intention of love and marriage. Especially some people with poor family conditions, who do not consider their families and children, and simply regard themselves as little ancestors, that is, they have a bad character.

3. The three views determine all the different three views and determine the different lives of people after marriage. Some people think that girls should be husbands and children, be full-time wives wholeheartedly after marriage, take care of their families, and take care of their lives in an orderly manner; Some people like to use their work to reflect their value, and they still participate in work after marriage, and pay for their family in another way; There are also people who believe that marriage is a guarantee of life, and as long as they get married, they can do without working.

I personally agree with the first two, after all, they are both for the family and my own life. And the last one, although they enjoy life, their families are not necessarily happy. There is no point in forming a family like this.

I don't really support this approach, I think women still have to have a certain economic income, so that they can be independent, get married and don't work, slowly lower will be out of touch with society, and at the same time, life will be too dependent on others.

This may be that family and career cannot be both, they must choose to maintain one head, otherwise it will make the woman's body and mind too tired.

I think girls should still have their own independent space, especially in their careers, they should still maintain financial independence, and they should not choose to work after getting married, and they will not be valued in their in-laws' family.

This should not be done, as a woman should have financial independence, so that she will have the corresponding status in the family.

Disagree. A woman should also have a job after marriage, so that she can take the initiative in life.

I often see such funny news, married women are often rejected during interviews, no matter if they are excellent in all aspects, but because they are married and have no children, they will be passed. The reason why such news makes everyone feel strange is also very embarrassing. As we all know, if you are newly married and have no children, it is of course very difficult to find a job, which is also why most women are more depressed.

Because even if you have a high degree of education and work experience, you will still face difficulties in work.

Working environment. A friend of you used to be an accountant in a hotel, and she just got married in 2011, but she didn't have children after getting married, so she wanted to change the environment, but when she was looking for a job, she found that many companies were very uninterested in this kind of married women who didn't have children. On the contrary, those women who are married and have children are more favored, and after asking about these units, I know that these women may delay the effectiveness of their work, which is still more funny.

Life stress. Especially for the job of a state-owned enterprise, if you have just finished getting married and have no children, you don't like to have it, after all, after getting married, you will definitely plan to have children in the next step. The period of having children is also very long, and the impact on work is also very large.

There are many unspoken rules that feel that life is very stressful, and they discuss having children later, but many companies don't care about these reasons at all. During the interview, I also told myself very responsibly that they would not be able to use such conditions.

Scare off businesses. Not only are many jobs demanding for women, but it is also difficult for every female job seeker in society, especially if you are newly married and have no children. It is difficult to find a job, and I hope that you must have a stable job, complete your studies seriously, and not be affected when you get married and have children.

It is recommended that you do not choose to change jobs when you first get married, which will definitely be detrimental to yourself.

It's not good for a woman not to work after she gets married. Because if you don't work after marriage, you will have no money in your hands, so you may not have the right to speak in the family, because only when a person is financially independent can he live a better life.

Not working narrows your social circle, which is not good for your body and mind.