Should I stay in another city for him?

Figure out your feelings before deciding.

According to what you said, it feels like your friend doesn't put you in a position where you have to be, no matter what, identifying a person still hopes to bring her home to get the approval of her family.

And if he is still hesitating about you, and you have already left the major events of your life to him to decide, doesn't that feel a little hasty? By the time he tells you that you may not be the right fit, then you have nothing.

If the relationship is worth your effort, then it is better to stay naturally than to be far away.

If he is always not painful, then not only will he stay, but even your relationship will have to be re-examined!

Choose your job according to your professional needs and don't take him as a standard.

If he doesn't keep you, you'll go back

Think about whether he still loves you, otherwise why is it so indifferent, there are so many bad men like this!

Leave him, go your own way, and don't stop for someone, because it doesn't mean much.

Reflect on yourself first, whether you really can't do without him. Or, do you have full confidence in him, believe that he can bring you future and happiness, and then reflect on yourself, whether your love for him is worth your recklessness, whether it is worth giving up some existing things.

If yes, then, go for your love and be brave.

If not, then give up.

Everywhere, it's up to you.

Tell him you're going home and see if he can keep you.

People are in the rivers and lakes, and they can't help themselves, in fact, I am the same as you, I don't like to be in this city, but my friends told me that the society is so realistic now, and there will be challenges and setbacks in **. Maybe it's because you're not in a good mood Something you want to open, when you're happy, you will never think it's a depressed city, you want to open some, you can be happy for a day, if you're not happy, come on.

The mentality is not good, and I am depressed ...... **

If it's me, I will! At least two people can be together every day! Long-distance relationships are dangerous, and you are often the last to know what happens!

It is not recommended that you go out and break in. First of all, based on what you said, you shouldn't be a very independent girl; Secondly, the beauty on the outside is just your imagination, and if you really experience it, you will feel that it is not as good as you imagined. If you really want to experience the outside world, you can take a long vacation, or some other opportunity to do a short experience.

After all, in the wanderer's heart, he wants to go back.

PS: Even boys need to think carefully about some things.

What are your interests? What kind of person did you ever want to be? What kind of knowledge do you feel good about and can be further developed? Have a general idea of your interests.

Personality determines what you are suitable for, and what are your interests in different jobs? What kind of person did you ever want to be? What kind of knowledge do you feel more like, can be deepened, and are suitable for people with different personalities.

Recognizing your personality is a very important step. Understand your personality traits before making a decision. What are your strengths and strengths?

What are some of the skills that can be used? What should I do about what I lack?

I want to ask you, where is your position, do you have a very clear and detailed goal in your mind, you must be with the right person before the age of 30, and you will have to do the right thing after 30, have you thought about all of this, if not, I advise you to think about it well, have ideas, but also have good implementation methods and positioning, otherwise it is all empty talk.

Big cities, although wages are higher under all conditions, competition is fierce and consumption is similarly high. If you work in the factory and don't go out on weekdays, the consumption is relatively low, but I personally recommend finding it near home, and it is convenient to take care of your family closer. Don't take shortcuts for high salaries, and be sure to fully understand the situation of the employer before looking for a job, and pay attention to fraud prevention.

Maybe your boyfriend's own work hasn't been arranged yet, or he wants to surprise you when your job and his work are all arranged.

Remember, go with the flow and keep a good attitude, what should be yours is yours after all, not yours, and it is not rare. Keep a normal heart.

Don't make him feel like you're dependent on him for anything.

Hehe, I work in Beijing, and my boyfriend is in Shandong... I couldn't handle the problem of the place where the two people worked, and they broke up. I can't help you with anything, bless you, ask him well.

You'd better be realistic and find a suitable one locally.

As an individual, it is good to stay in a more prosperous city, which is also conducive to your own development and the happiness of your family.

But I still hope that you can return to Lanzhou, contribute to your hometown, and make your hometown rich and strong. After all, Lanzhou is the homeland where you were born and raised.

Of course, this is just my own opinion. Whether you want to stay in Yantai or not is up to you.

Stay in Yantai and at least survive the sandstorm.

Short-sighted people, of course stay in Lanzhou.

I mean you stay, the home is close to your parents, and if there is any difficulty, it is good to have a relative at home to help.

However, Yantai is a coastal city that is developed but not developed, and it is better to have a long-term vision. At the very least, the problem of housing, work can be solved. If you really like Yantai and other deeds, it is not too late in the past.

Or you can consider leaving your hukou in Yantai, and then go to a bigger city to work, but you can't go back to Lanzhou, since you go out, Lanzhou has become a way out.

Of course, it's Yantai.

Yantai is a coastal city.

At least the environment is much better than Lanzhou.

Brother, my advice is**prosperous stay**, please consider.

Have you ever been to Yantai upstairs, how do you know?

If you like it, stay in Lanzhou, Lanzhou is also very good.

Yes, big cities are more complicated, and you can get an idea of the social situation when you go there.

Now the big city is really under a lot of pressure, whether it is employment or something else, we just graduated, I have avoided its edge, first work and live in the second-tier city, and after accumulating a certain amount of experience and improving my ability, if I still want to go outside to develop, then I can go with my boyfriend!

Vanity is at work again, please believe that "it is gold that shines everywhere." "Let's get a job first, and then look for an opportunity to march into the city.

Let's find a job and live first, and then talk about our dreams.

Well, girls, it's okay to be stable, it's not necessary, unless you want to be a strong woman.

What is the dream? Have you figured it out?

This is a very important question, how can it be naïve?

You should discuss it with your husband and see what he, and even the children, think. In any case, I think it's a good thing, even if it seems a little difficult now, but I think you will be happy with this decision in the future.

I think what you can do is to inspect the real estate more, compare it, strive to buy a cheaper one, buy a house and save tens of thousands of dollars, don't underestimate yourself haha.

When everything is stable, you can also find a class in the city, and the days will get better and better, I wish you happiness!

If your current house does not have much room for appreciation, it is recommended that you sell it and buy it in the city, not only can you live together as a family, but also have a lot of room for appreciation!