What is the standard of what is good for a person and what is good

Don't be small and don't do ... Don't take the evil for granted!!

Think of yourself as a good person and do it according to your conscience. No matter what you do, there will be people who say that you are not a good person, depending on what their standards are. In fact, the thought that you are a really good person already shows that you are a good person.

What does it mean to be a "good person"?

Many people say that being a "human being" is difficult: you have to deal with all kinds of thoughts, you have to wear a lot of heavy masks, you have to beware of the traps of light and darkness, you have to learn to speak skillfully, you have to carry heavy responsibilities, you have to find ways to get what you want, you have to endure many pressures, and you have to endure unjustified humiliation ......

In this way, the standard of being a "good person" should be higher! When I was a child, adults felt that obedient children were good children; As a student, the teacher thinks that a good student is a good student; As a girl, the boy thinks that the gentle and well-behaved girl is a good girl; When he was a wife, the husband felt that the hardworking and virtuous man was a good partner; After becoming a mother, the child feels that she is a good mother who is considerate and caring; As an old man, the children feel that they are good elders who are tolerant and understanding.

Speaking of which, most of the time we live for others and become "good people" in the eyes of others

In order to have a clear conscience. It seems to be a burden, it seems to have no personality, and it seems that it has lost itself. But if you think about it, who is not like that? However, human beings are selfish by nature, so they feel tired.

I think that if the object of your giving and patience is the person you love or the person who loves you, then the happiness you give them is actually your happiness; If the object of your dedication and patience is other people, you can think about words such as "take a step back and open the sky" and "good people have good rewards", and the knots in your heart will be much easier to solve.

As long as you have a clear conscience, be yourself!

There are differences in the good and bad in everyone's hearts......It varies from person to person, not reluctantly, just care, if it's too hot, the other party will burn, and if it's too cold, it will be cold, ......Catch it well when it's hot and cold....You don't have to force ...... that is truly yoursHappiness is a simple thing ......

The standard of being good to a person is sincerity. It's good not to frame others.

Obviously, it is a matter of interests, which may seem too realistic, but think about it carefully, what is the bottom line of your interests, as long as it is higher than the bottom line of the interests of different people, you will feel good.

I think it's a relationship problem.

It's not necessarily good to be responsive.

Ask for nothing in return. To be good to a person, first of all, you don't want to ask for anything in return.

Get to know her. Take care of her life and discover the joys in her life, what she lacks, as well as the rules of life, eating habits, etc. Only by discovering her living habits can we know what she wants, what she lacks, and what she wants to do.

Support her. Whatever she wants to do, you shouldn't deny her in the first place, even if you think it's not right. Instead, you should help her and analyze the correctness or feasibility of things. When she is determined to do it, even if there is only a small hope, you should do everything you can to help her.

Accompany her. Companionship is the best confession, if you really can't accompany her. Such as daily life, hanging out together, playing games together, cooking together, and so on.

For a person, it's not that you think about him all the time, nor do you think about it every day, but when he is good to you, you are also good to him, when he is in a bad mood, you will find a way to make him happy, and when he is uncomfortable, you will also be uncomfortable.

Being able to tolerate everything about the other party, including the shortcomings of the other party, then everything will be considered for the other party, this kind of love is the most sincere, and this is really good for a person.

Think about what the other person thinks, be anxious about what the other person is anxious about, be sad with the other party when they cry, and share the joy of the other party when they laugh.

is to think about each other all the time, always shush each other and ask for warmth, and when the other party encounters difficulties, the first time to appear by the other party's side.

To be truly good to a person is to think about them all the time and prepare for them in all aspects of life.

Be able to take the initiative to help him when he is in difficulty without asking for anything in return, and always be able to care for him and support him in all his work or decisions.

It's just that I always think and do things from the other person's point of view, and I never ignore the other person's feelings.

Every time you talk to the other person, you have to listen attentively.

Only after you really get to know each other can you know what they really need.

In fact, making the other person happy is the best care for the other person.

Attentively! Every bit of life, no matter how small the details, you have to pay attention to her, when you think about her in everything!

A good marriage: Accept each other's shortcomings and appreciate each other's strengths. In this world, the hardest thing is to change a person. As the saying goes: the country is easy to change, but the temperament is difficult to change.

Many of us make the same mistake in marriage: always confident that we will change the other person and that the other half will change for our own sake.

**。When Luo Xiaobei and He Chunsheng first got married in the TV series "Mendi", they both confidently believed that they could change each other, but they ignored the difference in growth environment and education level, and the two people had different views on many issues. He Chunsheng didn't understand the difference between instant coffee and the coffee shop, and what was the difference between the orange juice he bought and the freshly squeezed orange juice.

Every time Luo Xiaobei paid his salary, he would give Chunsheng a lot of money for daily expenses. She always thought that as long as she had enough money, Chunsheng would change her habit of slamming the door. But he didn't bury Xun and knew that the inferiority complex and dignity in Chunsheng's bones could not be changed.

The two of them later went through many twists and turns, and Luo Xiaobei finally realized such a truth: After going through many things, I now understand that the main obstacle between me and Chunsheng is not you and Ma Xiaolong, but the deep-rooted concept of absoluteness. Not only us, but everyone around us knows it.

This notion has cast a shadow over our marriage of unhappiness, and what we have done over the years has been more of a struggle than a breakthrough. Because we are subconsciously, we have a premonition of the unhappiness of marriage. That's why there is an episode between you and Bruce Ma.

And we re-attribute this episode to the concept of the door, and then the mind goes astray. It is true that Chunsheng and I have many differences, we have different growth environments, different educations, different social status, different economic income, and consumption concepts, and there are great differences, but these differences can be run in, and the way to run in is not to blindly tolerate and accommodate, but to learn to appreciate each other, appreciate each other's character, and then get closer to each other. My biggest regret is:

By the time I really learned to appreciate the spring students, it was already too late.

**。Marital boredom begins with discovering each other's true appearance, and when two people become estranged in marriage, it starts with changing each other.

I once chatted with my eldest sister, who was a teenager earlier, and she told me that when she was in love, her husband was obedient to her. It's just that after a long time of marriage, I'm starting to become a little impatient.

will be a little critical of each other. Every time I am at home on weekends, I feel inexplicably annoyed when I see him playing games. In my mind, I always thought that playing games was not a proper job.

How could he do that? There was a time when there would often be a quarrel over this. But it still can't solve the essential problem.

No matter how hard I tried to persuade him, it was to no avail. Later, I also looked down on it, so he can play if he wants to! I tried to change my mindset.

I found that everything became clearer, and we stopped arguing. So it's hard to change a person. But it can affect one person.

In a marital relationship: learn to accept each other's shortcomings and appreciate each other's strengths. Love is not about finding a perfect person. But.

Learn to appreciate the imperfect person with a perfect eye.

The emotional limbs are cut and unorganized, and it is common to divide and combine. Some people go forward decisively after breaking up and don't see each other until they die. But after some people break up, they still keep thinking about it, living in memories, hoping that one day they can rekindle their old feelings.

Some couples will have a chance to get back together after breaking up, while some couples are like enemies after breaking up, and it is difficult to get back together. Broken mirror reunion, whether it is the obsession that can't be let go of the heart, or the happiness in the eyes of others.

Any relationship requires two people to go both ways. If you can't cherish each other and give each other, no matter how deep the relationship is, there will be a day when you can't hold on, and love without response will not last after all. No matter how much you love someone, don't let yourself fall into crazy blindness, blindly giving, in exchange for happiness.

In a relationship, it is always a pair"Victims"or the posture of telling the world to compromise, the ending is destined to be empty. The real relationship is to give a degree, and when a deep friend is trapped in a relationship, he always wants to put himself himself"Hollowed out"To love each other.

Whether he loves it or not, he doesn't care about it, regardless of the consequences; No matter how indifferent he is, he is full of blood, and a moth fights the fire; No matter what he says, he will obey his words and obey him In a relationship, the more you are unassertive and the more you lower yourself, the less the other party will cherish you.

No matter how much you like someone, don't let go of your self-esteem to deliberately please, and don't let go of your own opinions to cater to, the most feared thing in the relationship is to love someone without a bottom line.

People who love each other will not be willing to let go of each other's hands, and since they let go, the love is not so deep. In the face of lost feelings, not looking back and not fantasizing is the most beautiful posture of women when facing this man.

To be ruthless to a man is to be affectionate to yourself, love is not long, but it is short, it is just an episode in life! The world is vast, there are a lot of beautiful things worth experiencing, you can't only love and be loved in your eyes, you can't only have the man who has hurt you, everyone's life will encounter a sudden heavy rain, if you are in the rain, may someone be willing to hold an umbrella for you.

Well, think what he thinks, be anxious about what he needs, and truly respect him.

Good afternoon, dear, thank you for visiting, what is good for a person? Do it this way: first encounter things, consider the problem from the other party's standpoint, and pay attention to the other party's feelings when speaking and doing things.

Secondly, when he comes to you to talk about things, you are very patient, able to listen carefully and give constructive feedback. In everyday life. Give him more information and greetings, and when he has difficulties in making requests to you, you will help him unconditionally and trust him.

I hope mine can help you and I wish you a happy mood and a happy life.