Are slow and impatient contradictory?

There is no contradiction, impatience is the mentality, and slow action is not efficient. Being impatient may be due to a lack of patience for a certain result. Sometimes the more urgent the temperament, the slower the deal will be, indicating that the person's heart is more careful, and it should be like this in life or work, and treat everything in life and work carefully.

Actually, it's not a problem, I used to be quite anxious, and I had a bit of an anxiety disorder. It's not a good thing to be in a hurry when you talk and do things. Within a certain range, in fact, if you can be slow, try to be as slow as possible.

It's good if it doesn't affect others. In life, you don't have to care too much about other people's feelings, just like some people like to drink tea, and some people like to drink milk. It's just a difference in habits.

Of course, I'm not in a hurry, but I always like to arrive early and do things early. Problems also like to be solved early. Therefore, to sum up, there is no contradiction between chronic children and doing things quickly in life.

There is no definition of the so-called acute and chronic children, and the common expressions are close to the level of mentality, perception, and feeling, whether you want to finish it at the moment or put it off first, whether you are in a hurry or it doesn't matter if you don't finish it, and so on. But what does this have to do with speed of work? I don't think everyone is nervous when they do things, and they always tell themselves to do it in a few minutes, and when to finish it.

Most of the time it's unconscious. When I'm in a hurry, I'm still slow, so the two have nothing to do with it.

I don't think it's a bad habit, only don't procrastinate, slow temperament, please do things in advance. I hate those who are slow, do things slowly and leisurely, and then always let others wait. It's not wrong to waste your own time, but it's wrong to waste someone else's time.

It's not wrong to be chronic, and it's not all wrong to do things slowly, but if you procrastinate and don't do things well, it's not right. Psychologically speaking, there is no such thing as a good or bad personality. So from a psychological point of view, only whether you can accept yourself or not.

Slow character. I myself am slow to do everything, my personality is slow, I am not in a hurry to do anything, and I only start to accelerate when I am in a hurry, but on the whole I am slower than others. It's hard to change, but you can improve your personality by changing your habits, although it doesn't have to be changed.

I am also a very slow person, I am very slow in everything, and I am also learning to grow and change. The reasons for everyone's slowness are not the same, my slowness has genetic and personality factors, there are factors that have been too cared for by parents to control the growth environment since childhood, and I have been an obedient girl since I was a child, and there are also reasons for habit and understanding. It's really distressing, I've been struggling to change, and I've made great progress, but in the workplace, habitual slow motion and poor understanding are very difficult things to do, and they can't be changed all at once.

Actually, if you were forced to put yourself in your seat and do something slow to change your acuteness, you would go crazy, hehe.

I do have some suggestions:

1. Every time you encounter something and realize that you are going to start to be impatient, immediately close your eyes (if the weather is good, you can look up at the sky), take three deep breaths, and then start to deal with things. (Persistence is important!!

2. Don't be too yourself, try not to think about what will happen to you if things don't work out, and don't put too much pressure on yourself.

3. Observe the things around you carefully, don't miss the beautiful scenery around you because you are in a hurry, and you will have unexpected surprises.

4. On a sunny day, watch the sunset.

5. Don't talk too much about the troubles you encounter to the people around you (note: don't talk too much about it), on the contrary, listen to others more. This has two benefits:

First, if the other party is saying something happy, it will more or less soothe your depression; Second, even if the other person is complaining, you should know that you are not alone in the world with troubles.

These are mainly from the perspective of relieving stress to calm your impatience, and hopefully it will help you.

When he is in a hurry, you avoid him first, and then talk to him when he calms down, which will get twice the result with half the effort, and sometimes when he is there, you will get twice the result with half the effort when you are doing things.

Mutual understanding and mutual tolerance.

To put it bluntly, either you let him be a little bit, men are like this, don't let him think that you are not giving him face.

It's good to run in after a long time.

If you like it, you can endure it, and if you can't help it, you can share it.