I know a friend, but he is very introverted and doesn t know how to ditch

For introverts who are not sociable, if they want to network, they always think that they should be sincere, attentive, and friendly, in fact, these practices will not help at all, the only thing that matters is your value.

Li Xiaolai once said: It is better to build a good network than to improve yourself.

At the end of the day, exchanging each other's value is simple, just as it's natural to buy something with money. If you don't have money, why would people give you something?

With the exception of those with similar interests, most relationships between successful people have a value of mutual exchange. For example, you understand psychology, I understand marketing, and he understands investment. Now, in the Internet society, the most important manifestation of this relationship is effective connection.

1. Knowledge will be recognized.

If you really want to know a big guy, no matter what the reason, whether it is the unity of opinion or worship and admiration, the reason does not matter at all. What matters is what is done and how to do it. Mix familiar faces, like more, this approach is really useless.

Comparatively, insightful comments will be more useful. If there is nitpicking in the comments, you can tell the facts and reasons to dispel the dissatisfaction of those keyboard warriors. The big guy will be happier to see it. When you've done this a lot of times, he's naturally going to pay more attention to you.

When you get along with people, thank you and sorry must always be on your lips, the waiter will serve you food, strangers will make way for you, and a friend will hand you a bottle of water......These little things have to say thank you, you are interspersed in the crowd to say: I'm sorry, please let it go, accidentally bump into someone and apologize, many people may think that what era is now, it should be informal, red tape should be avoided, in fact, these seemingly small trivial details, everywhere reveal your respect for others, your personal quality, which is also an effective way to pull into the relationship between people.

Then you have to learn from them, see how people have a lot of friends, learn their strengths, communicate more with friends, and help them more when you can.

You can first learn to speak in the mirror, and then slowly communicate with others, open your heart, and learn to accept others and communicate with others.

Introverts are reluctant to make friends, and when you get along with introverts, you should ask more about how introverts express their emotions. For most people who are introverted, the general and childhood living environment will have a great impact. Especially when many post-90s children were young, because their parents often went out to work, the post-90s were left-behind children, lacking the company of their parents.

When you have some ideas, you don't know who to communicate with at all, and when you grow up, your personality will become more and more withdrawn, and you don't like to talk to others at all. <>

No one really likes to be lonely and doesn't know how to fit in with the circle of friends. When you talk about topics with others, you never know what you should say, which leads to introverts being extraordinarily quiet. Because I can't open my heart, I don't know how to confide in my heart.

Even introverts should make more friends, you can get to know some people with more lively and cheerful personalities, and you can also drive introverts out of their predicament step by step. <>

When you're with others, don't always rub salt in their wounds. Especially people who know their introverted personality, due to the lack of family company, always mention their family members in front of others, which is also extremely disrespectful to the other party. If you are really good friends with each other, you should consider some issues from each other's point of view, so that introverts can feel that they care about each other and slowly integrate into a friendly environment.

Take more introverts with you, go to a bustling and lively environment, when a person is used to quiet, he doesn't like to go to too noisy places. But that doesn't mean that introverts aren't willing to try, and no one wants to completely shut themselves off and not give anyone a chance to understand. Only when you really meet the right person, then for introverts, you will slowly learn to change appropriately.

Yes, I don't like to make friends and I don't want to make friends, I can usually talk to each other more about things that the other party likes, things that the other party cares about, and also talk to each other about some of the other party's interests and hobbies.

Yes, I don't like to make friends, and I always care about myself when I get along in life, and I won't let the other person hurt my self-esteem, my character is particularly timid, especially cowardly, and I should be careful when talking to each other, and never touch each other's principles.

I was also an introvert before.

What kind of friends do you want to make? Silence + silence, become more silent; Silence + cheerfulness, both cheerful and silent.

Making friends is about words and deeds, and the focus is on thoughts. But the method varies from person to person. I'm just going to talk about how I paid it, I hope it helps you.

1.Share your happiness with your friends. But sometimes I think it's a hard thing to do, and to do that, you need to open your heart.

Think about it: if you share the happiness of others, the welfare of society, and the kindness of your parents, why can't you share a little of your own happiness. When you think about it this way, it feels natural.

You have no intention of sharing, but the feeling you give others is intentionally revealed, making people think that you are very generous, such friends, of course, you have to make them.

2.When talking to someone, don't just answer a question. This will make people think that you don't respect them.

3.When necessary, it is permissible to praise others and tell a white lie. Don't do something that makes others unable to get off the stage, and jokes should be done in moderation.

4.If you don't contact people for a long time, even the best friendship will become cold. I've had that experience.

5.In front of friends of the same age, try not to communicate in a teaching or critical way. Sometimes, being able to calm down and remain silent is also a kind of cultivation. Trust your introvert to do this easily.

Believe in yourself, look at the point, you don't need to force yourself to make friends, you don't need to deliberately, I believe it's just that it's not time, no one has seen your advantages yet, or you have seen too little.

If you want to open up, in fact, everyone is the same, some people succeed, some people fail, it's not who is stronger than whom, but the former is good at showing their advantages and good side, and hiding the bad side as much as possible.

The world is hot and cold, accustomed to the hypocrisy of sycophancy, accustomed to the arrogance of doing my own thing, and accustomed to listening to the alarmist hope that people do not do anything and the heavens and the earth will be destroyed. It's not easy to make a lifelong soulmate, you don't have to rush for a while, because having more friends is not necessarily good, I have had such an experience.

There is still too much to talk about - a thousand words, a few sentences of Liao Liao, how can I express it all.

Hope it helps.

Many people are introverted because they are not confident enough to communicate with others, and as long as they overcome their inferiority complex, it is easy to mingle with everyone. Talk to people you admire first.

It's hard to change your personality, take your time, and first of all, let go of everything you can put down

Personality is difficult to change, but it can be perfected Don't take communicating with you as a burden in your heart, you have to feel that this is a natural thing, even if you say it, it doesn't matter if others don't care much, you have to be brave enough to do it, and think to yourself: Won't you just say something? It's very simple, God gave me a mouth, that is, I was asked to talk to others, whether he was right or not.

As long as you form a habit, you won't be afraid in the future! Communicate with people more in life, go shopping if you have nothing to do, bargain with others if you don't buy it, kill it and then don't buy it! (haha) I've been persevering until now and I find that I'm thick-skinned and bold!

I think introverts must first learn to adjust their mentality, open the window in their hearts, and open themselves up.

Remember to smile often, the person who smiles is the most attractive.

Do what you can to genuinely help others.

I wonder if you're an introvert looking for a way to get along with others, or if you want to be friends with an introvert?

Integrate into the mainstream, often watch the news and watch jokes, accumulate chat materials, and it is easier to get close to people when you have something to say.

Be nice to someone (the person you want to be friends with), sometimes friendship doesn't necessarily need words to convey, it can be a favor, a gift, etc.

I have several friends who are more introverted, and although they don't like to talk much in the eyes of others, they are also very open and active when they are with friends. Often they are also there for me when I need them. And their friendship is deeper and more stable.

In fact, introverts are more real and cute. ^(oo)^