Is it true that the higher the education level of women, the harder it is to find happiness?

It has nothing to do with academic qualifications.

The higher the education level of the woman, the more difficult it is to find.

The general one is not good yet.

I can see that I am old (in my fifties).

Having everything is just not good for the body.

And men with good conditions don't like to look for highly educated men.

As for why, everyone knows.

So. The assumption is true.

Absolutely not, don't listen to people, your own happiness is your own, there is always a part that belongs to you, don't be in a hurry to wait patiently or find it, but never lower the so-called other half of the conditions in your heart, they all say that ugly women are difficult to find happiness, and my opinion is the opposite, beautiful women may be the proportion of second mothers, but where the inner fragrance of the woman, the mediocre appearance should account for the majority, just like a flower, the more red and willow green, the more colorful the more fragrant, The more colorless the white, the more fragrant.

It doesn't matter much between the two, it depends on whether the person you are looking for can give you happiness, or whether you can find happiness. As long as two people are happy together. That's happiness.

Ugly doesn't have to be. Don't be too ugly. But highly educated people generally think that they are great and feel good. Make others annoying, annoying. Probably because of this.

I don't care about academic qualifications.

The important thing is to have talent or ability.

And be kind.

It should make sense, girls with high education often give the impression of a strong woman, and the male power thinking of Chinese is still very serious, and they do not want their other half to be stronger than themselves. However, as long as you give full play to the traditional gentleness of Chinese women, be considerate and let the other party know that you are not the kind of strong woman, I believe that happiness is not far from you.

Not necessarily, it can only be said that it is difficult to find happiness when women are ugly, and it has nothing to do with the level of education.

Women with high IQ, high education and high income. It's really hard for me. Even more difficult.

1. First of all, high education is a big problem. Because I've been studying, I basically haven't fallen in love much. Or that you can't find a suitable object.

Bachelor's degree and graduate school, graduate and doctoral student. Ph.D. students are in their 30s after graduation. That's when I found out.

Time has passed, and the best age for marriage and childbearing has been missed. Because at this time, men in their 30s are basically married. Most men probably prefer to get married early.

So before the age of 30. Basically, they all entered the siege of marriage. Therefore, 30-year-old women want to find the right one for themselves at this time.

It is more difficult for men around the age of 30. And our Chinese tradition also has a custom that men are older than women.

2. When women's high education and high income reach a certain level. I'm definitely older. At this time, looking back, men of the same age as me are basically married.

Even if some of the remaining are older men. They are also high-income statuses. Therefore, she also did not want to find a woman with her own diploma and income to live with.

After all, a family always has to have someone to give. If two people. It's all busy business.

Then there is no one in charge of the family. So the men at this time. Even though he is in his 30s, they always like to look for someone younger than him.

3. Sometimes men still have this kind of thought. If the woman's education and income are higher than his. Men always have an inferiority complex.

Often at this time she still doesn't like it very much. Find a woman with a higher income and education than him as a partner. Always look for someone who is lower than him.

In this way, she can fully show the status of a man at home.

4. These high-IQ, high-educated, high-income women. He can always see through a lot of things. There are even a lot of things that are seen ahead.

Once male. There are times of deception or concealment. He always sees through it all.

Therefore. A lot of men. There are always some white lies that are discovered by women.

Once discovered, women can't stand it. I always feel that two people living together should not have anything to hide. Practically everyone has their own little secrets, especially men.

Over time, some of his little secrets were always discovered by women beforehand. He will never put up with it. At the same time, these highly intelligent and highly educated women.

There is often always a high-minded posture that makes people unacceptable. So it's harder for them to find a partner.

Hello, I think so. Women with high education, high income, and high IQ, we call them three highs, why are they so excellent and have not yet married?

Girls with one and three high schools are demanding and picky.

Three-high girls, whether it is income or education or appearance, IQ, are far more than the average girl, such girls are naturally more confident and advantageous than the average woman, but their too self-confidence and high advantage, when looking for a partner, are required to pay a particularly high, particularly picky, and because of this, they feel that they are so good, it is impossible to find a man to marry.

It is precisely because of this psychology of theirs that they have mistaken the outstanding men around them, and they are waiting, gradually aging, and finally becoming the leftover fighters among the girls of the three high schools.

Isn't there a saying that says? "Waiting and hesitation are the most ruthless killers in the world. "You've been waiting for the right time to do what you want, and then you've been wasting your time in hesitation."

Second, the psychology of self-righteousness.

It is very difficult for such girls to marry themselves off, because of their self-righteous psychology, in despising and ignoring men who do not meet their requirements, and it is precisely because of their self-righteous psychology that men dare not chase after them, because such girls give people the feeling that their appearance is very sharp, and men do not like such girls, and men will think that such girls are too high, so they will retreat.

3. A career-oriented strong woman.

Women with three highs, because of their high education and good looks, will have many more opportunities than ordinary women, and such girls, if they are career-oriented and workaholic women, then their so-called singleness is completely caused by external factors, that is, work and environment.

Therefore, the woman who works too hard for her career is also one of the reasons why she is left.

Fourth, a woman with a strange personality.

Those women with a bad temperament, love can not go long, because, no man wants to marry a woman with a bad temper to live, generally speaking, this kind of girls, if they do not change their character, then it is difficult for them to enter the palace of marriage, they are in the love stage most of the time, because every relationship needs time to run in and understand, and when men understand their character and bad temper, they will be cautious about the possibility of continuing to associate with them, Because of this, women with bad personalities always fail in love.

So it's going to be harder for them to choose a mate.

Girls with high IQ, high education and high income, they are indeed difficult to find a partner, my summary, there are mainly the following 3 reasons.

1.Their own conditions are good, but the requirements for choosing a mate are higher. You must know that the higher you go in this world, the fewer people there are. You only have 30 points of marriage and love value, and if you want to find one with more than 30 points, there are still many options.

But if you're already seventy or eighty or ten, and you still want to look up, it's definitely more difficult.

2.There is a misunderstanding of love. Their own conditions are good, but they still expect men with similar or even better conditions to them to actively pursue them, which is usually unrealistic in my experience.

3. High IQ, high education and high income are indeed advantages, but they don't understand men's emotional psychology at all. They go to learn piano, fitness, mountain climbing, marathon running, yoga, guzheng, history, economics, etc., just like such high IQ, high education and high income. But the more you study, the more tired you get, and in the end you don't change the man's attitude towards himself, and he can't change his boyfriend's attitude towards himself, and he will feel that he has paid a lot, but he can't get anything in return, so he will be more harsh on the man, or after his income increases, he puts forward higher requirements for the man.

In fact, this is completely in the wrong direction, and the self-improvement that these girls want to learn is not this kind of skill type at all.

When your conditions are improved, only by learning how to get along with men can you make your conditions play a real role.

Otherwise, these men you like will only feel. You're good, but we're not suitable.

Multiple mentalities make it difficult to choose a mate. These "three high" women are leaders in various fields, and their excellent conditions themselves have greater pressure on other marriage seekers, coupled with their unwillingness to lower their own requirements and critical vision, which also causes them to find an embarrassment that it is difficult to find a good couple. These "three high" men and women are too picky in choosing a mate, which is mainly caused by three mentalities:

One is because they all have good conditions such as high education and high income, and many people have a sense of "arrogance" and are unwilling to find a partner to "settle" for life; There are also single white-collar workers who have experienced many setbacks on the road of following love, and they are unwilling to repeat the mistakes of the past, so they choose their partners rigorously and carefully; Another situation is that some single white-collar workers have the idea that they must meet "ideal love" before getting married because of their simple love experience, so they also have high selection criteria.

The most important thing in choosing a mate is to choose a partner who can understand each other and treat each other sincerely, and on this basis, consider the spouse who is suitable for education, work, hobbies, appearance, etc., and do not unilaterally choose the "right match", let alone ask for love because of their excellent conditions.

To solve the problem of marriage and love of the "three high" women, it is necessary for the society, the family and the individual to work together, the society needs to create a good atmosphere, the family needs to give the children understanding, and the individual must dare to break through the shackles of the basket, abandon the old concept, and move towards his true love.

People like highly educated girls because they are educated and have face. Academic qualifications are very important for people nowadays because there are a lot of jobs that require academic qualifications, so people are working hard nowadays. Not only do they have to take the college entrance examination, but they also have to study for a master's degree, a doctorate, and so on.

As they get older, they will also face the problem of getting married and having children.

Although academic qualifications do not represent a person's ability, in most cases, academic qualifications are crucial, and they also represent the person's ability and the threshold for finding a job. Academic qualifications will also affect your experience and your three views to a large extent, and your horizons will become broader. Boys don't hate girls with low education because everyone is different, but girls with high education are very elegant and temperamental, and some boys always feel that they have to wait when they see girls with low education.

Do boys hate girls too? It mainly depends on the boy, what kind of person he is, this question does not mean a question of academic qualifications, it is a question of a person's growth. In real life, there are indeed a lot of boys who like girls with high academic qualifications, mainly because they have the experience of falling in love in school.

At the same time, since they have been in school for a long time, the people they meet may be from their school, which leads to the fact that a lot of girls that boys like are highly educated.

In fact, it mainly depends on the boy's mind, if a boy has a lower education, the girls he meets are basically all low-educated, because the education is lower, which means that he can go out to work earlier. At the same time, girls of the same age are in the same situation as him, therefore, it is difficult to meet girls with high education, so there is no fixed answer to these questions, some boys think that in front of girls with high education, they can't hold their heads up, and refuse to associate with girls with high education, everyone's thoughts are different, and some boys have a good face and want to associate with people with high education.

Because highly educated girls are easier to get along with, they will also have common topics, and highly educated girls are also beneficial to the next generation, and they understand a lot of truths.

Because highly educated girls can plan their own lives, they can also help themselves improve their lives, and they can also provide themselves with help in their careers.

This is because many people think that highly educated girls are very good and very reliable, so they will do this.

It's not that these girls are not easy to get married, but because these girls have a very good upbringing, a very good job, and they can support themselves, so the requirements for the other half will also increase, and with the change of ideas, if you don't find someone you want to marry, then it's very good to live alone, and there is no need to get married.

They have a high degree of education, and their natural vision is also very high, so if they want to find a person who matches them, it is difficult to meet, so they can't get married.