What does a guy think about spoiling a girl all the time when he doesn t like her?

This is a typical spare tire! Boys are cheap, forget it, girls don't have to be cheap their feelings! There is no grass ...... anywhere in the world

When he is good to you, he will think about those aspects that he particularly likes, but when you confess to him, he will take into account the points in you that make him feel "not up to standard", so this situation is caused.

In fact, this kind of man is extremely immoral, this is called cynicism, he is a man, a husband, since he doesn't like girls, he should confess all his thoughts, clearly state his view of love, and don't delay the girl's youth.

A guy spoils you very much, and usually says something very ambiguous, but when it comes to emotional things, it is ambiguous, or when you confess that he refuses, or when it is inappropriate, the girl is sober, he just doesn't like you, why waste your feelings.

Most boys don't like a girl, but he may still be willing to associate with this girl, this is the emotional characteristics of boys, too much affection, naturally the emotional investment is not very deep.

This kind of love situation occurs from time to time in the love of young men and women. The common people call it a hot shaved head, and the cultural person is positioned as unrequited love. The direct cause of this situation is the ambiguity of the relationship.

Do you understand the spare tire? Ambiguous? Knowing that others don't like you, why do you continue to be teased by this kind of person, it shows that you are also willing.

I've been in the same situation.

It may just be that you think you're spoiled.

In fact, the mode of his real pet has not been turned on yet.

After all, everyone's standards are different.

In this process, many people say that boys must spoil girls, in fact, this statement is a bit absolute, but there are such examples around them, after all, boys spoil girls, this relationship can go longer, why do you think so?

In a relationship, if the boy can't spoil the girl, nor can he let the girl, when encountering a small conflict, the boy will only argue with the girl about right and wrong, then the girl will often reflect on whether the relationship is worth going on, and the girl will become more and more sensibleSanity, then it is very difficult for a boy to get married to a girl. Therefore, if you want this relationship to last for a long time, then the boy should spoil the girl, not just encounter somethingArgueRight or wrong, after all, there are many men and women in this world, whoever is good to her, she will go with whom, only girls who have been spoiled are willing to go on with you for a long time.

Girls actually belong to the "feline", that is, when you spoil her more, she is as cute and gentle as a cat, and will stick to you to fall in love, but if you are careful about everything and do not want to spoil her, then she will become the so-called "tigress" and become sensitive and domineering, soGentle personality's girls are all spoiled by boys, are you still wondering why your girlfriend is so fierce? Then you should think about whether you are in life or notPamperedShe, if she is a spoiled girlfriend, then I believe she will not be so grumpy.

Therefore, this is why people say that boys should rush girls, only the girls who are rushed will be gentle and considerate, and will go on with you for a long time, composing a beautiful relationship story, and boys who care about girls in everything, it is difficult for them to find their own happiness, after all, there is no pay, which girl is willing to go down with him!

Because girls are more emotional creatures, their minds are more delicate, and their emotions are easy to fluctuate, and boys spoil girls more, which will make girls full of happiness, and the relationship between the two people will be very deep and happy.

Because there are many people who feel that this kind of relationship is more stable, and they also feel that this way can make girls be loved and respected, and two people can also build a better future together.

In this way, girls can feel loved, the relationship can last for a long time, and it can also make girls love boys more.

It's normal for boys to want girls to spoil themselves, because today's children are spoiled from childhood to adulthood. So when it's time to fall in love, it's natural to ask his girlfriend for some favor, which is normal, but if it's excessive, the guy has to think about his role.

I think this kind of psychology is very normal, because it is generally a girl, hoping that boys will spoil her, but from another point of view, boys also hope that girls will spoil them, you can't say that you always let one side of the family pay from beginning to end You never pay, right, feelings still need to understand and tolerate each other, and it also needs a certain balance.

In love, most people think that girls should be spoiled by boys, if you are spoiled by boys, you will feel very happy, in fact, a boy also wants to be squeezed into girls, on the one hand, they want girls to show love, boys want boys to have more sense of security, some boys are this kind of psychology, on the other hand, girls spoil boys is not impossible, they are mutual, many times girls spoil boys is also a kind of love. Love is just that most people are spoiled by boys and girls, so this is a very normal, if boys want to be spoiled by girls, they just want to get more sense of existence.

I think this kind of boy is a bit selfish, because in love, two people should pay each other and accept each other, not that one party has been spoiling the other party, so that one party has been in a state of giving, if this is the case, their love will not be too long, so love should still be considerate of each other.

This boy may be more insecure, because most of the time in love, he hopes that girls will spoil boys, but this boy wants his girlfriend to spoil him, which means that he wants to get more attention from girls to weaken his own insecure feelings.

In the process of falling in love, everyone hopes that they can be happy, and they hope that they can get more care through each other, so boys hope that girls spoil themselves, completely because they want, girls can love themselves more, and little girls care about themselves, so that they can have more sense of honor and be spoiled, so that boys are very secure. And because boys have a lot of pressure in real life, many times they are frustrated outside, so when they return to their girlfriends, they hope that they can relax a little and be spoiled by their girlfriends, so that there will not be so much pressure outside, and they will instantly get peace of mind, this is the feeling of being spoiled by girls, and they will feel very sweet, sometimes because girls don't know how to love themselves, they will do very incorrect things, Boys will also find it particularly cute.

Whether he is a girl or a boy, I think he is a person after all, and there will be times when he is lonely in his heart, there will be times when he is uneasy in his heart, and there will be times when he is anxious in his heart. No matter how powerful he looks, no matter how secure he looks, it can't be avoided that he will always encounter such things. And sometimes a little change in the girl will add some different colors to the relationship and make your relationship more intimate.

It is precisely because of the dedication of two people that a relationship makes them closer and closer, and makes this relationship stronger and stronger.

In the case of breaking up because of willfulness, frequent quarrels or personality incompatibility, etc., the psychological change of a man is that he will feel a sense of relief at the beginning, feel very relaxed, and at the same time will have a sense of guilt towards the other party, at this time he will not be willing to meet the other party, because the pain of meeting you at this time is like a reminder of his cruelty and failure (no matter who proposed the breakup of this relationship, it is a failed relationship). Won't want to think too much about anything between you. At this time, most of the time he is immersed in or transferred to something of interest, so you can't see on the surface that he has any pain or thoughts about the relationship.

In this case, the woman may understand that those who may ignore you and are unwilling to meet, or you may find that he is emotionally entangled from the previous side.

The second is because of the reality of the situation, such as studying abroad, long-distance and other reasons to break up, the man's psychological changes, at first will be very rational, think of various reasons to persuade himself, will be very attentive to the other party's situation, but also very painful, and unwilling to meet, which will aggravate their pain and incompetence, willing to do a lot of things for each other and miss the sweet love time very much, in this case, if there is no external force, the possibility of a third party is very rare, and then it will slowly calm down. But the feeling of powerlessness will always be there. In this case, there is no need to worry about why the other party seems to be the same as when they were in love, but everyone knows very well that the relationship is falling apart, just like breaking up after graduation.

Third, in the case of hurting self-esteem, for example, the girl has a sense of superiority in this relationship, or the conditions are superior, the woman's parents do not agree, etc., the man's psychological changes, he will begin to resent the woman very much, and will transfer his emotions through games or immediately looking for a new lover to alleviate this pain, and at the same time, he hates himself more because he is incapable, and when his self-esteem can't stand it, he will hate the woman again, and then another round of such a cycle of resentment, if the woman is recovering, she will bear a lot of anger that may be vented, The stage of breaking through the defense is also the most difficult part.

Generally, the breakup is nothing more than these three situations, some people may say that we are opposed by the man's parents, we are in a different place, but it seems to be a personality incompatibility, then I count which one, his mentality changes to see which situation, that is, the most important reason for your breakup is which is which situation, such as those mentioned above, the most important thing is that the personality is incompatible, then look at the first one. In fact, don't always worry about how the other party is, think about it, and don't focus all your energy on tangling and guessing what the other party thinks in their hearts.

The same is true for girls, boys also need to care, boys also want to be taken care of by girls in the subtleties, and give him an expression of love from time to time, and boys will be very happy and touched.

After the first and second steps, the boy should have a certain understanding of the girl's love dream, for example, the girl wants to find a boy who understands her, a boy who will take care of her, a boy who can satisfy her vanity, and so on.

The fourth is to ask boys to accept a little bit of care from our girls, girls are not to be boys' mothers, and boys are born to protect their women, we are born to take care of our men, this is the motherhood of girls, maybe boys will think that it is enough to be strong enough in front of girls, but in fact, we prefer to see the softness under your armor, because we hope to accompany you through the trough.

In addition, for a contemporary male college student, you can always hear "She's a girl, you should let her go", "Boys work overtime, let's get this", "What do you care about with girls?" This kind of words, in the end, make the boys more and more humble, the school obviously treats the girls harshly and the boys, and the girls also take the boys' demeanor and care for granted, and even get used to the princess disease, always feel that the boys and the school should take more care of themselves.

Every girl will have a beautiful fantasy about love in her heart. For example, some girls hope that the boys around them are romantic and often surprise her; Some girls want a careful and considerate boy who knows how to take care of her.

During the relationship between a boy and a girl, the girl is sick and hospitalized, and the boy is responsible for taking care of her. But the boy found a little habit of the girl: no matter how sleepy, the girl should fall asleep before the boy fell asleep, and in the morning he would wake up before he woke up.

Could it be that he was afraid that the boy would see her without makeup? It's not right, because you can't wear makeup in the hospital.

Because such a boy lacks a sense of responsibility for a girl, such a boy actually doesn't like this girl in his heart, and the boy is unwilling to pay for the girl, so the boy is unwilling to take care of the girl.

Some boys are naturally straight men and don't know how to take care of girls. But some boys are straight men who pretend to be, and he only cares about and takes care of the girls he likes. Sometimes it can also be a girl's problem, she does everything by herself, she is too independent, and the boy will feel that you don't need him, and you can't find a sense of presence and boyfriend's strength, so girls should sometimes learn to show weakness and ask for help from boys.

The boy is reluctant to take care of the girl, it may be that he doesn't love the girl very much, he just plays with the other party, and disappears when he needs the help of the girl.