People who can t go on at a certain stage in your life, how did you get through it later?

Cheer yourself up and get out for exercise.

Since you don't have the courage to die, let's live well!

If you can't go on, you can run down, and there is nothing you can't survive.

There's nothing you can't get through.

I walked alone, running a marathon, running myself so much that I could sleep well at night. Do lots and lots of things and try to keep yourself busy.

I don't know how I survived, but I just persevered by myself, telling myself that tomorrow would be better, and I persevered day by day.

During this period, I would read a lot of books, and I would often communicate with my friends to vent my frustration and look at life positively and correctly.

For me, the hardest period of my life was about 10 years or so between graduating and working and basically paying off my family debts.

It stands to reason that after graduating and joining the workforce, with a salary income, the family's conditions should gradually improve, so why is there financial difficulties at this time?

Here's the situation:

For a long time, our family's financial situation was poor, and all four of us were studying, so we had to spend money. Therefore, it is difficult for parents to solve the "huge expenses" of the family after working hard all year round, so they inevitably ask relatives and friends to solve their urgent needs. After a long time, he owed a large debt.

Some of our brothers even took out bank loans while they were in college.

When my brother and I started working, my two younger brothers hadn't graduated yet. My brother and I split our salary into two parts, keeping a small part for our own living expenses and the other part for our parents to solve the problem of tuition fees for our two younger brothers.

At that time, we were all at the age of getting married, and we needed to have a lot of money to solve our personal problems. Parents can't and can't speak. What should I do if my salary income is not high?

So, I had to find a way to find a unit. At that time, the colleague in charge of finance in the unit was very kind, and he was very considerate of my family's situation and difficulties, so every time he asked to borrow money, he readily agreed. In the past few years, because of engagement, marriage, the birth of a daughter, the rebuilding of a house at home, etc., he has borrowed a lot of money from the unit one after another, and the highest loan reached more than 9,000 yuan.

In those days, on the one hand, I had to maintain a basic life, and on the other hand, I had to save a little bit of my small income to pay off the arrears of my family and the loan I had at work. It can be said that it was extremely difficult.

Fortunately, the salary increased year by year, and the two younger brothers also graduated from college and joined the workforce, so the income increased relatively, the expenses decreased relatively, and the loans gradually decreased and eventually paid off. At that time, the feeling was that borrowing money and borrowing money was like a big mountain, and our brothers were like fools who kept digging the mountain, and finally with a tenacious spirit, we moved the mountain.

Now, my brother and I have bought a house in the city, and we still have a certain amount of savings. When I think back to the difficult situation at that time, I feel a little embarrassed.

The most difficult days are just a step by step, after all, time can erase a lot of damage, and it can make people grow.

It should be a month before the Chinese New Year, it was a busy year, and I began to prepare for the New Year's holiday, but I suddenly felt uncomfortable, I had a fever for two days in a row, I didn't take it seriously, I took medicine, and the result was more serious, so I went to play the hanging bottle, the tragedy is that the hanging bottle was on the fever, and the needle was pulled out and burned, so I had to go to the hospital for examination, and I was shocked by the examination, and the doctor let me be hospitalized directly.

At that time, I worked for a year, and I saved a little money, I didn't say anything about the disease, I paid a deposit of 10,000 yuan directly after hospitalization, and I knew what my illness was, how long I wanted to be hospitalized, and how long I had to rest after being discharged.

It's because I'm sick and I've lost my job.

During this time in the hospital, I spent 10,000 yuan in a few days, and then continued to pay the money, and finally handed over the rest of my savings.

This is because I was sick and the money I had saved was spent.

After that, it was very smooth, and I was discharged from the hospital soon after, but I still had to take medicine for half a year, and I recuperated for at least three months, and a lot of things happened in the middle, so I went home to rest, and then my girlfriend proposed to break up.

It's because I'm sick and out of love.

I seem to have lost a lot of money when I got sick, although I was very depressed, but my family has been taking care of me and giving me a lot of support, and my health is getting better and better, and within three months, my body has almost recovered, and then I came out to continue looking for a job, except for work experience, it can be said that everything is starting from scratch.

Then it's time, step by step.

All I can say is that time makes you grow, not only time, but also the big and small things that happen in your life.

Any personality has advantages and disadvantages, introverts also have their own advantages, more skillful hands, more in-depth thinking than ordinary people, suitable for high-tech, less language communication work, such as computer repair, mobile phone repair, car maintenance, etc., should put their energy into the study of technology, will produce results, because they have found their own advantages, exerted their talents, and have been recognized, followed by a better and better mood, the so-called introversion, low self-esteem, social phobia, online games, etc., It's all going to disappear before you know it.

I am born to be useful, friend, I must use my strengths and avoid my weaknesses!

1. It's very simple, you need to read more books, especially learn some skills and stories about life setbacks.

2. Cultivate a sports hobby and expertise, and there will naturally be like-minded people to communicate with you.

3. Try to live independently, learn to buy groceries, cook, and wash clothes by yourself, which is the most important thing.

It seems that you have a certain understanding of your own problems and the causes of them, which can help to correct the problems. However, the key now may be your lack of willpower and courage. You also know that your problem is the most basic problem, if you don't handle it well, it will be difficult to do anything well, and you must have the determination to work hard and pay the price.

If you don't dare to face these problems bravely, you will always live in your own small house. Parents will grow old one day, what will you be like at that time" and, when they are old, what can you give them?

I look at your text logic, I think you are still a good person, so boldly come out, try to slowly make friends, get to know friends, not used to it in the early stage, you can try to start with a familiar person, find him out to gather or something.

In short, don't lock yourself up for too long, or your heart will be closed.

If you continue like this, you will definitely go to hell in the future, and if you don't go to hell, you will create many evil paths, make your parents sad and resentful, and hope to take refuge in the Buddha path as soon as possible, get supreme wisdom and perseverance, think more when you encounter problems, help others more, do a good deed every day, and make meritorious deeds every day, which is to help yourself improve yourself, so that you can have the opportunity to obtain a wider range of correct knowledge, so that everything can go smoothly, Amitabha.

Otaku, I think this title is more suitable for you. I think you still have the type of medicine that can be saved, are you only 22 years old, how young, the capital... Why stay at home and suffer from the years like a prisoner in prison?

First of all, I suggest you go shopping, please don't underestimate shopping, write a shopping report after going home every day after shopping, and see what you have gained... Come back to me after a month and I'll tell you what's next.

First of all, you have to cooperate with your parents, and you will be cut off financially, so that you will be forced to go out and have social contact, you can choose to start by going to relatives to learn art, gradually quit Internet addiction, have a girlfriend, and everything will be fine.

In response to your question, I personally believe that, first of all, you can dissect yourself, which means that you have a clear self-understanding. Everything is an internal cause is fundamental, and your main solution now is to try to communicate with people, communicate with your parents and friends when you are close, and communicate with strangers when you go out to run errands, after all, there are the most people on the earth, and dealing with all kinds of people is something you have to do in this life. Try to talk more, after a long time, it should be much better, come on...

I don't have the big reason of others, but I want to ask a question: What was your dream since childhood? Have you tried so far?

Have a good chat with your parents, borrow some money to travel with the group a few times, go to different places in the motherland, meet different people, maybe you don't need anyone to enlighten you, you will open your heart and look new!

The hardest part should belong to the stage of pregnancy, and every day is spent in fear; I firmly believe that the baby is trying to grow up to get through it.

Pregnancy is the hardest stage that every mother must go through, from the first conception to the birth of the baby, every day feels like a long time; In the early stage, I am afraid that the baby will stop growing, in the later stage, I am afraid that the baby will not develop well, and in the late stage of pregnancy, I am more worried about coming out early, and I am worried every day.

At that time, I always believed that the baby belonged to me, he worked hard to grow up every day, and as a mother, I could get through no matter how much hardship.

I think the hardest part of my life is after graduating from university. Because there are many dazzling choices after graduating from college, I don't know what to choose for a while, some choose to go to graduate school, some choose to work, and some want to be admitted to national institutions. However, after I was confused for a while, I resolutely chose to go to graduate school, and finally succeeded.

The most difficult part is the period when you go from junior college to undergraduate.

Because I have to get up early every day to memorize, I have to do those difficult math problems, and the psychological pressure is very high, if I can't pass the exam, the future will be even more confused.

In the hardest days, I chose to put down the books in my hand and go out on a trip with my friends, arriving in a new environment, and relaxing my mood a little. The tense string was soothed, and when I came back, I was back in the state of revision.

The most difficult stage of life should be the year when you fail the college entrance examination and repeat your studies. Three years of high school, although I did not say that I did not learn no skills, but also did not do my best, although the results of the college entrance examination are not ideal, in fact, it is reasonable, looking at the classmates around me have satisfactory results, you can choose your favorite university at will, and I can only wait for the university to choose me, I feel unwilling, so I decided to repeat, and this year, I not only have to work harder than before, study harder, but also bear huge psychological pressure, can I do well in the next year? What should I do if I don't do well in the exam?

Will others look down on me? All these worries bothered me, and in the end, the hard work paid off, and it was a difficult year, but I finally realized my dream and learned to be strong and grow.

I think it was when I didn't have a job, I didn't have any financial income at this time, and my family wasn't around, and I didn't have any friends to help me, I felt that this was the time when I was the loneliest and most uncomfortable, and it was very difficult to live every day.

It's that one day I suddenly figured it out, I want to work hard, so I desperately look for a job, desperately apply for a job, do two jobs a day, and then my food and clothing can be solved, and then through my own efforts at work, the leader appreciates himself, so that he is promoted, and he is also a little successful at work.

Of course, the most difficult stage in my life is when I have no money, because without money, I can't meet my life needs, and I have experienced this!

I remember one time I lost my job and stayed outside for months in a trance, and suddenly I found that I had no money on me, and I was embarrassed to ask my family for it. Later, I told myself that I must save money no matter what, even if it is a little bit a month, so that I can use it when I have difficulties in the future.

The hardest stage of my life was when I failed the college entrance examination. At that time, it was really the kind of heart-rending pain that went from full of hope to special despair.

Because I took the independent enrollment of Southwestern University of Finance and Economics, and the independent enrollment also passed, but I was one point short of the first line in the college entrance examination. Because it's usually about 30 points higher than the first line, so I've always been full of hope, but in the end I found myself one point behind, and I missed that school, I really felt very desperate and uncomfortable, and then during that time I basically didn't want anything except eat or sleep, because when I thought about it, I was very desperate and uncomfortable.

The moment I just walked out of the school gate may be the most difficult moment in my life in more than 20 years, but I deeply know that the difficulties in front of me are only temporary, as long as I grit my teeth and wade through this trip to the river, the rain will definitely pass.