A son and a daughter, who do you choose to live with?

You know your own children best, and see which child usually cares about you the most and feels the most sorry for you. In addition, if the child is married, it depends on the attitude of the son and daughter-in-law towards you? What is your son-in-law's attitude towards you?

In short, all aspects have to be considered. If your son, daughter-in-law, daughter-in-law, and son-in-law are all very good to you, then live with your son. In other aspects, if your daughter-in-law treats you very ordinarily, then live with your daughter.

If you are able to live on your own, stay close to your children. Even if it's door-to-door, upstairs and downstairs are the best. This is the most comfortable.

There is a saying in China called raising children to prevent old age, naturally to live with their sons, if they live with their own girls, it will inevitably cause a series of family conflicts, so from the formal Chinese tradition, it is more convenient to live with sons, which is a tradition in China and a habit of our Chinese life.

Living with her daughter, who is her parents' close-fitting little padded jacket.

I choose to live with my wife, my son and daughter are the closest people and outsiders, one grows up and begs his wife to live his own life, and the other one also marries someone else's family to live her own life. Only your own wife will be with you forever for the rest of her life, buried together until death. Now you know who to choose.

If you are old, your children are adults, and you want to rely on your own children, most people still choose to live better with their daughters, who are more intimate and take care of their lives.

It's up to them to choose, whoever can take care of it will go to whom's house

If the old couple is alive, then don't choose to live with your children, everyone has their own way;

Suppose there is only one person, then, of course, it is to choose the child who prefers to live with him. Of course, if the child is married, this matter depends on whether the child's spouse is willing or not, and whether you are compatible or not.

I would choose two sons. When I was pregnant with my second child, I especially wanted a girl. You can dress up beautifully every day.

My husband and I are very patriarchal, thinking that our sons and daughters are the same, and what our son has in the future, my daughter must have something. But he didn't get his wish, and he still gave birth to a son. Watching my little son grow up day by day, so cute and sensible.

I thought to myself, fortunately, it wasn't my daughter.

Two sons, daughters, I will love very much, so much so that I am reluctant to let her marry or leave. I'm afraid, afraid of giving birth to a daughter who is exactly the same as me, when I was pregnant, I prayed hard that I could give birth to a son, and I got my wish, son, he can live his life by himself in the future, although I also love him and love him, but it is not as worrying as girls, boys will afford a home, girls will be tired if they are very strong, if they are obedient, life will not be easy, and the most important thing is that once they have a child, their lives will be fixed forever, and they will no longer have their own lives, only growth, dedication, and hard work! It's better to meet a family that loves her, but if not, it's sad.

I choose two sons, I am so ugly that my daughter is a fairy? Too idealistic, there are many little girls with single eyelids and big teeth, others care how delicate you are in your mother's family, you don't care about your family when you go to work, you don't make money at home, and you don't make money, and you have a difficult birth to protect your grandchildren. How many have you married the wrong person?

How many are married far away? heartbreaking. The son is much better, and if you want your daughter to be afraid of the burden, you will prefer sons over daughters, although you don't admit it, look at the new marriage law, is your daughter not worth your struggle for her to buy a house and a car?

Turning pressure into motivation and earning more money is the truth.

Choose two sons, in fact, I gave birth to two daughters, at present, it is really cool to raise a daughter, the daughter does not have a boy's skin, she is not so tired to bring, and she can also buy them a lot of beautiful clothes, and give them pigtails when they are free, and the daughter really feels very young. But why did I choose a son, because girls have suffered too much, and they have been most worried about safety since they were young, and they are still worried until they have a family. Giving birth to a child is also a ghost gate, although medicine has been very developed, but there is still a very high incidence of that kind of thing.

If it's a boy, don't worry about this problem at all (although it will be more tiring to be a mother-in-law in the future). Another reason for choosing a son is that he can be raised like a pig, he doesn't need to be as delicate as a girl, as long as he grows up and doesn't take the wrong path, it doesn't matter if he mixes well or not, it's good to let him experience life more, of course, regardless of boys and girls, if they have the ability, they should also be cultivated.

If I had to choose, I would choose two sons, although the pressure is a little higher, why not choose two daughters? It's not that I don't like my daughter. First of all, because I have a funnel-shaped pelvis, I inherited my mother, and my sister is also a funnel-shaped pelvis, so that when I give birth to a baby, I can only have a cesarean section, I have done two cesarean sections, if I give birth to a daughter, I must also inherit me, and she will have to have a cesarean section when she gives birth to a baby in the future, it is too painful, I guess I will be distressed and don't want it.

When I had a cesarean section, my mother burst into tears. Secondly, having two daughters will be more worrying than having two sons, worrying that they will be hurt outside, relatively speaking, girls are more likely to be hurt, and they are also afraid that they will marry and meet unladylike people in the future, and boys will be relatively less hurt.

Raising two sons is not afraid of their occasional bumps, the younger brother loves to be naughty, and the elder brother always follows behind, for fear that the younger brother will fall, which is more distressing than being a parent. Sometimes for the sake of a toy, the brothers look at each other angrily, and one ignores the other; Let them eat no longer so hard, the younger brother is always delicious, the elder brother is slow down and only drinks soup, the two living treasures always like to rush to do things, and prefer to do it, which makes people both angry and helpless, and sometimes they feel very happy.

First of all, the elderly are seen as an important part of the family in Chinese culture. In traditional Chinese families, older people often have a position of authority, and their decisions often have a significant impact on the family as a whole. Therefore, some parents want to live with their sons, which can ensure that their status and authority in the family are respected and recognized.

Secondly, care and affection in the family is very important for the elderly. As they age, older people may develop health and lifestyle problems that require help and support from their families. In Chinese culture, the son is often seen as the breadwinner and caregiver of the family, so parents want to live with their son and can be better cared for and cared for.

Third, in traditional Chinese culture, the concept of family is very strong. The family is regarded as an important social unit, and its stability and prosperity are very important for the development of the whole society. As a result, some parents want to live with their sons in order to maintain the stability of the family and the inheritance of traditional values.

Finally, there are practical reasons that can also influence parents' decision-making. In China, due to high housing prices and accelerating urbanization, many young people often cannot easily buy a house and live independently. In this case, living with your parents can become an economic and practical option.

In summary, filial piety in Chinese culture, care and concern for the elderly, family values, and practical factors may influence parents' decision to live with their sons. However, this does not mean that every family has to live in the traditional way.

I think it's better to have two children and have a companion for each other. But in fact, everyone's conditions are different, and it should be done according to the actual situation. I have a daughter and a son from my sister's family, and we are both only children.

How to say it, we think that whether it is a son or a daughter, a family with only one child is the happiest, and if you want two children, parents may feel that they have both children and are very happy, but in the face of two children, it is certainly impossible to be absolutely fair, and the economy of a two-child family is certainly not as easy as a child.

For parents who are reluctant to have a second child, in addition to the most concerned economic issues, it may be fairness. In addition, daughters are more vulnerable than sons, which also discourages many parents.

It is said that a good Zen smile is the best for a son and a daughter, but I don't think so. The uncle's family is a son and a daughter, which is enviable, and the daughter has been loved since she was a child, but in the end, the property was attacked by the son. Recently, my uncle was sick, my daughter went to the hospital 3 times, but I didn't see my son run 1 time, my uncle stayed in the hospital for so long, and the hospitalization fee and medical expenses were all paid by my daughter alone.

So, I don't think it's really fair to have two boys or two girls, a son and a daughter. For two-child families, it is indeed difficult to be fair when it comes to disputes at home. But it can also be seen that raising children to prevent old age is completely correct, children will not be filial because he is a son, and the most important thing is family education.

Now let me list the advantages and disadvantages of having a boy and a girl:

Boy: In the minds of most old people, they think that he can pass on the lineage, and the boy is famous! Boys can let you toss and not be squeamish!

In the future, if you don't obey the order, it's no problem to hit twice. Boys can sometimes act as a man, I remember my friend's son, went to the mall with his mother, he was only five years old, he carried a big bag, but his mother's friend didn't take anything, when everyone began to accuse him of being a mother, the little guy stood up and said: I am a man!

What do you think about having a boy? However, those who give birth to a boy must also be fully mentally prepared, and when they get married, the boy will begin to honor his mother-in-law. My mother is behind me.

Girl: What is the Eighteen Transformations of the Female College of Women? Girls can be dressed up beautifully, and there is light on the face of this mother, the girl has always been very well-behaved, don't worry about her going to cause trouble in the future.

The daughter is the mother's little padded jacket, which is clear to everyone. A classmate's grandmother was sick, and her aunt was taken care of around the bed, so the classmate sighed, or her daughter was intimate! Most of the sons contributed money and efforts.

Is it to raise children and let them grow old or raise their daughters to grow old? After the girl gets married, in the eyes of many old people, the water spilled by the married girl, but is it in the end?

I think it's better to have a son or a daughter, but in fact, it's just lip service. In the current life, parents are devoted to their children, and do not care about their children's returns. A son is good with a son, and a daughter is good at a daughter, all of which make it sweet to be a parent.

As long as the parents educate their children's moral character properly, they will be filial to their parents regardless of boys and girls!

It's good to have a son, you don't have to suffer the sin of giving birth to a child, and you don't have to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Originally, I thought that those who suggested having sons were out of the consideration of "preference for sons over daughters" and "inheritance", but after listening to the statements of a few people who came over, I felt quite surprised.

It's better to have a son, it's too sinful to be a woman, especially to have a child, this is a matter of life and death. When I gave birth to a child, I had a difficult birth, not to mention the pain of dying, postpartum hemorrhage almost died, and after giving birth to a child for a few years, my body is still weak. Therefore, I feel that the mother who gave birth to her daughter will be very distressed to see her daughter experience these sins in the future.

My best friend Xiao Nan also said: "It's better to have a son, and he won't have to deal with a difficult mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship like me when he grows up in the future." Moreover, you have to work hard for the family, you should do it well, no one praises it, and if you don't do it well, you will say that you are lazy and not a good daughter-in-law. ”

Indeed, what these two people said is very true, when a woman suffers physically and mentally, she definitely does not want her children to suffer the same. Moreover, women are not free after marriage, working, taking care of children, and running a family, all of which are inseparable. Therefore, many women who do not have children say that although they like their daughters, they do not want to have daughters when they think that she will suffer these things in the future.

It must be a daughter. No matter what a daughter says, she is her own child, and she will have to rely on her in all aspects to support her in the future, so she has no room to shirk, and if she lives in her son-in-law's house, it will be more comfortable.

Now that men and women are equal, it is good to have a son and a daughter, and it is better to have a son and a daughter. Now such a requirement can be met.

Whether it is good or not is not in the son or daughter, the key is health and filial piety.

No one can give you a clear answer, sons and daughters are not what you want, you just want the child to be healthy, and you can educate and cultivate it well in the future.

How do you say this? There are good and bad things about this, there are advantages and disadvantages, if you have a daughter, many people say that the daughter is the father's careful day, that is to say, the daughter is especially good at taking care of people, and the son's words are going to start a family in the future, so there are more problems to consider, I personally think there are both advantages and disadvantages.