Why is it that a boy is good to the girl he likes, but the girl doesn t treat him?

People often don't know how to cherish when they have it, and they regret it when they lose it.

If she does that, it only means that she likes this boy in the first place, or that she is used to having such a person around!

The boys can also narcissistically think that his plot has succeeded.

Not really.

Be rational and think more from the other party's point of view, if it is you, someone says that they like you, and you keep showing favor, you don't know much about others, of course, you can't be in a hurry to express your position, and you will naturally be estranged.

It's not·· The girl is a little slow to heat, and if there is a boy chasing him, he may not know his details, so why should he promise him?

After a while, there will definitely be some understanding and choice.

I'm like this.

Everyone is different and it depends on her evaluation criteria

I'll be happy if I'm satisfied

Some are, some are not, girls are generally more difficult to chase, and girls sometimes can't let go, and deliberately want men to chase her. Some people don't like the man, that's why it's like this.

People are like this, and they cherish it when they lose it.

The first point,Irresponsible schoolboys。Each of us has our own rights and obligations, and when we exercise our rights, we must assume corresponding obligations. If a boy only wants to exercise his rights, but is not willing to take responsibility, then such a boy is certainly not welcome.

What's more, a man must be responsible in order to give his future wife a sense of security. A boy who is unreliable, irresponsible in handling things, and willful will definitely be spurned by others. <>

The second point,Boys who like to be calculating。We all know that because of the difference between male and female personalities, some girls may be a little childish when dealing with some things. For example, we can often see some neighbors quarrel over trivial matters, and most of the protagonists of the dispute are girls.

So everyone's impression of boys is very rough, and girls are relatively conservative and stingy. So, in such an environment, boys who still like to be careful, don't say that girls don't want to see him, even male compatriots will definitely not treat him. <>

The third point,A boy who lies a lot。Honesty and trustworthiness are the basic rules of a person. China has a 5,000-year-old historical and cultural heritage, and honesty and trustworthiness are the most basic quality requirements passed down from generation to generation.

Every Chinese son and daughter is required to be honest and trustworthy, if a boy lies a lot and does not tell his credit, then no girl will like him. Nowadays, many companies also regard the integrity of employees as an important indicator of performance appraisal. Therefore, boys who lie a lot will not be liked by girls, nor will they be favored by society.

The fourth point,Boys with violent tendencies。There are many types of boys that girls don't like, and the most typical ones are boys who like to use violent means to solve problems. Because such boys tend to make girls feel dangerous, even if they don't use violence against girls.

In addition, girls also don't like to stay up late to play games, are not filial to their families, like boys who smoke and drink heavily, and boys who often gamble.

Boys who are inconsiderate, gentle, and may even be domestic violence will definitely not be treated well by girls, after all, such a person cannot become a lifelong lover!

Personally, I don't think boys who like to be clean, behave rudely, and like to judge girls' appearances will not be treated well by girls. Because such a guy looks superficial.

This question is probably asked by a boy who is not very confident in his appearance, and it is also a misunderstanding of many boys when they fall in love.

Then I'll tell you the truth.

I'm going to be in love with an ugly but funny boy;

I'll fall in love with a boy who is ugly but has a wider vision than me;

I'm going to fall in love with an ugly but confident and smart boy;

I'll be in a relationship with a guy who is ugly but serious about fighting for the life he wants;

I would fall in love with a boy who was ugly but respected and believed in my decision;

I'm going to fall in love with a boy who is ugly but still has a childlike heart for this unhappy world.

But I would never fall in love with him because he was good to me.

Because, every step of revenge has been redesigned, and the pig killing plate is listed as an important part of revenge.

I swear, I've never done anything so refreshing in my life!

I don't decide whether a boy is ugly or not because it's ugly or not, or whether it's good for me.

Instead, I will consider, whether I like him or not, whether he is suitable for me?

To tell the truth, many girls are really killed by these two when they choose a mate!

If nothing else, those girls who go to other boys' appearances will eventually break up because they can't stand their boyfriend's sense of boundary with other girls, and other girls are not blind, you like handsome, people like the same, such a big competition, can you hold it? Now the little girl is very violent, and the professional digging of the wall is wave after wave).

Secondly, those girls who rush to the other party to be good to you, in the end, either because the other party is not good enough for you, or the other party is cold and thinks that they are so good to you, you still keep asking for it, and break up because of these unequal reasons.

So you see, whether it's ugly or not, whether it's good for you or not, these are really not the core elements from the perspective of a long-term relationship

Of course, we are all discussing long-term choice, that is, the kind that seriously falls in love and rushes to get married

If you think, I just want to have a fun, it doesn't matter, ok, then you ask yourself, which is more important, looks good or good for you? It's like two pieces of cake in front of you, you can choose the one you like to eat

However, I also want to advise the little girl, if you want to call Liang is the other party is an honest and down-to-earth boy, don't agree to others if you don't like them, feelings are this thing, and you will be punished for cheating others

She may not like to be good to her, feelings are like this, but she likes to be indifferent to herself and ignore herself.

You grow up with him, he goes from naïve to mature, from a stunned young man who doesn't understand girls to a warm, careful and considerate person, he is step by step under your leadership to get better, and you, even if you don't slowly lose patience with him in the disappointment and hurt again and again, you will begin to get bored of the current state, obviously I am looking for a boyfriend, why is it not me who is cared for, but I still have to worry about and get hurt like a child, and grow up with him.

And pointing at him, he will slowly become impatient with your preaching, thinking that you are not as gentle and lovely as other girls, and no other girls are cute, and will only educate him all day long, and the two of them will slowly come to an end, and he is getting better and better, moving in the direction of light, but you become impatient.

I don't want to spend any more time with a boy growing up, I'm also very tired I also want to be cared for I want to be a little girl instead of a "mother" can't afford to put it down, hard mouth and soft heart, easy to communicate, this is not me, now I find that down-to-earth boys are really treasures, never to provoke feelings and hurt men who are nearly thirty years old and not much in love, because the search is closed in his heart has disrespected women dispensable, he put down faster than you imagined, and there is no love, and he can't afford it.

I grew up with him, but in the end, I didn't have a sense of freshness, and I passed the age when I could afford to wait, and I was on that road, and I kept asking myself again and again, what the hell is going on, finding a boy who has to rely on him for everything, it's so difficult, I want to break up several times, and I think of his goodness, and then continue to repeat the same mistakes, but I'm really tired, very tired, I feel that if I have hope for him, I will be disappointed when I turn around, and it's boring.